Characteristics of network interpersonal communication

The characteristics of network interpersonal communication are: long distance, asynchronous communication, anonymity, impersonality, one-to-many and so on.

1, long distance

Socialization is no longer limited to the reality of the same time and place, so that people who could not have known each other can communicate, have a greater chance to find people with similar interests, and more people with the same pursuit can get together to form virtual communities and circles; At the same time, the existing social relations are easier to maintain. After graduation, students from all over the world can also spit on each other in the class group.

2. Asynchronous communication

Asynchronous communication means that most social networks are not as real-time as face-to-face communication. In most cases, the real conversation must be answered within a few seconds, otherwise it will be a bit strange. This will make people have more time to organize their own language, and it is easier to control the rhythm of communication, thus reducing the tension and pressure in communication;

Step 3 be anonymous

Especially in the early days of social networking, anonymous society was the mainstream and one of the most influential factors. Because of anonymity, you can lose your social identity and take off your usual mask. "On the Internet, no one knows that you are a dog", so you can reshape yourself according to your own imagination;

Step 4 de-personalize

De-individualization originally meant that people would lower their self-awareness in the group. When a person is divorced from his original identity, there will be a series of consequences, reducing the reflection and suppression of his own behavior and making some behaviors that violate social norms.

For example, the occurrence of various mass incidents; On social networks, because of anonymity, you can generally see the phenomenon of depersonalization. For details, please see the comments section of Netease.

5. One to many

In real social interaction, the number of objects in most communication scenes is very small, and people rarely have the opportunity to pass their information to hundreds of people, but it is easy in social networks, such as sending a circle of friends when they are lovelorn, and hundreds of people will know immediately that the efficiency of information transmission has improved and people can know each other better.

Basic principles:

1, respect the principle?

Respect includes self-esteem and respect for others. Self-esteem means respecting yourself in all kinds of situations, maintaining your dignity and not giving up on yourself. Respecting others means respecting others' living habits, hobbies, personalities and values. Only by respecting others can you get their respect.

2, the principle of sincerity

Only by being honest with others and lacking talents can we produce emotional voices and gain true friendship. No one likes hypocrisy, and how much rhetoric will be defeated.

3, the principle of tolerance

In interpersonal communication, some unpleasant things will inevitably happen, and even some contradictions and conflicts will occur. At this time, we should learn to tolerate others and not haggle over every ounce. This is called taking a step back and broadening the horizon. People don't attack me, I don't attack. The first person to attack me, concede three points. Don't get into interpersonal disputes because of trivial matters, as we will waste a lot of time and become selfish and insignificant.

4, the principle of mutually beneficial cooperation

Mutual benefit means that both sides can meet each other's needs and get each other's rewards at the same time. Interpersonal communication is always a two-way choice and two-way interaction. You've been here for a long time. In the process of communication, the two sides should care about and love each other, not only consider common interests, but also deepen their feelings.