I had a cold war with my boyfriend for 4 days, and today he contacted me! But we refuse to admit his mistake, because last time he wanted to leave and make money elsewhere!

Your boyfriend left angrily because he made a mistake first, but it was a bit inappropriate for you to break up later and try to solve the problem by breaking up. Today, he took the initiative to send you a text message, trying to make up, and this matter was over. This is just a common quarrel between couples, not a big problem.

When a man has a good idea after a quarrel, you shouldn't criticize him at this time. You mentioned his ex-girlfriend, of course he didn't want to reply to you. No matter how they break up, there will be pain, and you will mention his pain again. This is a sensitive topic after all. He doesn't want to mention that woman, and he is afraid of saying the wrong thing and arguing with you again, so he can only choose silence. So, when a man shows weakness, let him go, and he will appreciate you.

Whether he loves you or not depends not only on whether he is rational after breaking up, but also on his usual performance. You can judge whether he loves you by whether he is rational after breaking up. Similarly, he can drink all day long without looking for you to test your patience. As a result, he lost it and contacted you first, which means he can't live without you. If you think your love is not practical enough, watch him carefully for a period of time in the future.