How to see that a person is not kind?

Among the false good people, the wise are the most terrible. They pretend to be good people and are good at camouflage. It is often impossible to stop people from doing bad things behind their backs. Such people are gorgeous in clothes and have a good face, which makes it difficult to distinguish good from evil. Why are so many people cheated by money and sex? Why? It is not that they are stupid, but that the bad guys are too cunning. These people can keep up with the trend. Be good at using people's kindness to do bad things.

You can see this person's words and deeds and personality from the details. No matter how much a person pretends, he will be betrayed by details. In this world, only by being sincere and kind to others can we have sincere and kind friends. This kind of fake good-hearted person blacklists you, deletes WeChat, doesn't reply to information, doesn't praise you, his tone, attitude, perfunctory, conceited, fickle, full of fake white lies, duplicity, hypocrisy and ruthlessness, and forgets his original heart. In fact, we all found out that he was still lying to himself, and we didn't have the courage to expose his ugly face, hypocrisy and true colors. Because he sent a message to another person who bought him, saying that he had a bad attitude, and told me that he was a person with poor cultivation, and he was not allowed to praise him. Such people are capricious.

The so-called education has nothing to do with the rich and the poor, and has nothing to do with the background. Don't wash your hands after washing your hands; Listen carefully when you speak, keep your eyes still ... between words and manners, your manners will naturally show up. Reflect the details of upbringing and be an elegant person from now on.

A man knows his companion in a long journey and an inn. It doesn't take long to pretend to be a good person in an instant. After a long time, even the best disguise will show its tail. At this time, you need to have enough resolution. Proper handling of details does not mean that one must be correct in the face of right and wrong, but that one has enough self-restraint and inner self-restraint. Through the test of time, he will be found by others and become the object of admiration.

A person has enough self-restraint and inner qualities. After the test of time, he will be discovered by others and become the object of admiration by others. Find the person who is most worthy of your closeness in these details. Through his kindness, you also learn kindness and pass it on to others.

The wicked are afraid of heaven, and the good do not bully it.

Born as a man, with good thoughts; Life after China's entry into WTO, protect yourself; Demons are vertical and horizontal, and good and evil are flashing; Numerous chaos, may you be safe. If there is only one kind-hearted person in a place, the world is so big, aren't there many good people? It's not too much. Attention is natural!

Be kind, say good words, do good deeds, build good relationships, be good people, people have good thoughts, and God will bless them. I wish good people a safe life.

There are many kinds of unkind people, but those who have the following mentality and behavior are definitely not kind people.

First, I can't hide the good attitude of others.

There was once a colleague who was jealous and said some harsh words as long as others lived better than him.

A girl is more beautiful than her, and everyone praises her for her beauty. Then she would say, I don't think it's natural for her to cut her double eyelids; Someone won the lottery and others were envious. Only she will say that if he is so lucky in this respect, something bad will happen in other aspects. When someone gets a promotion or a raise at work, she will feel that the other person is using some bad means to achieve her goal.

In short, as long as others are better than her, she feels abnormal, typical of being a bad person. To put it bluntly, jealousy is at work. In fact, it is understandable that ordinary people are a little jealous, but when they are so jealous, they always don't expect others to be good. They are not only unkind, but also a little abnormal. He will even do things that hurt others because of jealousy. Of course, such people can't be called kindness.

Second, people who always steal things.

Many of these people stole needles and threads when they were young, and naturally they stole rice and flour when they grew up. I have a cousin who grew up with dirty hands and feet, stealing from my parents and sometimes even stealing money. At that time, the conditions at home were not very good. My uncle and aunt are probably too busy with farm work, neglecting discipline, getting more and more courageous and stealing more and more expensive. Dropped out of junior high school before finishing school. I don't have to say anything about petty theft. Later, it evolved into a mixed society, and later I heard that I was still taking drugs. In short, there is nothing to do, and the last person I meet is going to jail.

So we must pay attention to this kind of shoplifting, especially when we were young. If you don't discipline yourself well, you won't take the right path when you grow up, and you are not a kind person.

Third, greed is cheap, and greed has no bottom line.

One of my uncles is a person who likes to take advantage of small things. Take more rice and noodles at ordinary times, leave him alone. But once, one thing refreshed my three views. He picked up a mobile phone in front of a supermarket and took it home. I got a short message when I got home. It turned out to be the owner. The text message sent by my wife's mobile phone said that this is my mobile phone. The mobile phone itself is worthless, but it contains a lot of important customer information. It turns out that this is a person who delivers cold drinks to various supermarkets. The customer information inside is the contact information of each supermarket and other distributors. It can be said that it is really important to him.

Then my uncle turned off his cell phone! I turned it off and then turned it off. When I turned it on, I found dozens of missed calls and dozens of short messages, all of which said that I would be grateful if I returned my mobile phone. But my uncle comforted himself and others with such a set of rhetoric: now there are so many lost mobile phones and so many lost and found posters, who will return them? All of us were speechless at that time. He quickly deleted all the photos in other people's mobile phones, and was later scolded by his son, but this mobile phone could not be returned because it was full of photos of the owner's wife and children. Such people are not only unkind, but also immoral.

There are many other examples, so I won't mention them one by one. Although there are many wonderful things, we must firmly believe that there are still many good people in this world.

See if his eyes are clear, see if his words and deeds are correct and integrated inside and outside. If not, the newcomer is "bad".

People who are born from the heart and have a thorough vision must have an innocent heart. Such a person is an amiable person because of his good heart and good face.

"A straight body is not afraid of a crooked shadow". People who are honest and upright are strict with self-interest and tolerant of others, and have their own code of conduct and bottom line. Such people, because they are strict with themselves, can't tolerate a grain of sand in their eyes. They are kind people themselves, and they also advise others to be kind.

I want to ask: isn't such a kind-hearted person a lovely and respectable kind-hearted person?

As the saying goes, actions can prove whether a person is kind or not, but it depends on whether a person is really kind or hypocritical, and on time!