Sichuan girl Malaysia lost contact, how can girls protect themselves when traveling alone?

More and more people like to travel. The world is so big that we all want to see it. Some young girls will travel abroad or abroad alone. Girls belong to vulnerable groups, so when traveling far away, we should pay attention to personal safety. A 25-year-old girl from Chengdu, Sichuan, went to Malaysia to meet her boyfriend alone, but she lost contact. Her family was very anxious.

1, the girl went to Malaysia and lost contact.

On March 4th, the reporter got in touch with Lingling's mother, Ms. Wang, who confirmed the loss of her daughter Malaysia.

On February 7th, Lingling packed her bags, took the flight 15 that afternoon, set off from Chengdu and went to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia alone.

In the following time, she kept in touch with her daughter on WeChat. During the period, Lingling posted a video of making fried eggs in the WeChat circle of friends. On New Year's Day, my daughter also sent a WeChat video to say hello to her family.

On February 22nd, the mother and daughter contacted each other for the last time.

According to their chat records, at 23: 00 on February1Day, Ms. Wang sent a message asking her daughter, "How are you doing in Malaysia?" In the early morning of the 22nd, Lingling briefly said, "Don't worry about me!" Since then, Ms. Wang has contacted her daughter through WeChat, but failed to get a reply, and her daughter's phone has been turned off. "Sending a text message to WeChat has never been answered."

In addition, according to a friend and relative of Lingling, on the 24th, she sent a WeChat to Lingling, but Lingling didn't reply, and the phone was still turned off.

Lingling's circle of friends shows that in the early morning of the 22nd, Lingling posted her last circle of friends at 5: 50 in the morning after WeChat replied to her mother, Ms. Wang.

Lingling wrote: "The most helpless thing is to think about other people's things before going to bed and worry about things that have nothing to do with yourself after waking up. I think it's someone else's fault. Calm down and think again. Actually, it's because of my choice. You could have chosen not to care so much about it, but you chose to spend time here and stay away from those thankless things. " Judging from the news, Lingling is worried about something. What's bothering you? Does it have anything to do with her losing contact? Lingling's mother doesn't know. Chengdu Business Daily reporter tried to call Lingling's mobile phone many times and has been turned off.

Relatives and friends speculate that they may have gone to see their boyfriends.

February 7 is near the Spring Festival. Why did Lingling go to Malaysia alone? Relatives and friends speculated that Lingling might have gone to see her boyfriend.

According to the information provided by Ms. Wang, Lingling just returned from Malaysia a month ago.

Ms. Wang recalled that Lingling told her that she had booked a plane ticket to Malaysia and asked her if she was going to see her boyfriend. "She didn't admit it but didn't deny it. She just smiled and said that it is not necessarily a boyfriend. "

And this is exactly what Ms. Wang is worried about, because she doesn't know the specific information of Lingling's boyfriend at all. I only know that this man is from Fuzhou, about 1.7 meters tall, and works in Malaysia. Ms. Wang introduced that her daughter didn't take the initiative to tell her about her boyfriend, or what they heard during the video call, only to suspect that her daughter had recently made a boyfriend. In addition, before Lingling went abroad, the man also sent pizza and flowers to Lingling by buying takeout online. But when Ms. Wang asked, Lingling replied: It is not a relationship between men and women.

However, it can be seen from the conversation of Lingling's friend Fan Xiao that Lingling has known this Fuzhou man for more than a year, and this man is doing business with his brother in Malaysia. The man is very kind to her, and the relationship between them has always been very good. They often order takeout from each other through the Internet. A boyfriend, but they haven't confirmed yet.

"It may be developing. We have never seen that man and we don't know his name. " Lingling's cousin Mr. Luo said. In Mr. Luo's view, my cousin may not have gone to Malaysia for her boyfriend.

"From 20 16, she will probably go to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia two or three times a year." Mr. Luo introduced that my cousin is in the WeChat business. She knows people in Malaysia and sometimes brings domestic products. In addition, urging marriage at home also makes Lingling somewhat resistant. Lingling has expressed the idea of not wanting to spend the New Year at home more than once. Therefore, in his view, going out this time is probably to do something to escape the pressure of urging marriage during the New Year.

Mr. Luo introduced that he and his cousin grew up together and knew his cousin's character and some ideas. His cousin has his own opinion. Cousin wants to change her life through her own efforts. At that time, she started to make some investments through friends, but it didn't seem to go well. She lost a lot of money and even complained to him that she could buy a house in Chengdu and pay the down payment. In the past two years, Lingling began to leave the country frequently and went to Macao, Hong Kong and other places, among which she spent the most time in Malaysia, staying for two or three months at a time. "My cousin said that she would go to Malaysia to start a business, where friends can help her." As for how my cousin met Malaysians, Mr. Luo said it was not clear.

The family members have sought help from the Malaysian Embassy and the police.

On February 7th at 2 1, Lingling told her friend Tian Tian (a pseudonym) that she was in Malaysia.

According to the chat record, when Tian Tian asked her when she would return to China, Ling Ling was a little uneasy and said, Don't ask her when she will come back. When she heard such a question, her head got bigger. Lingling in WeChat also said that she was forced by life, unlike what her friends thought.

On February 24th, Sweet WeChat contacted Lingling and didn't get a reply all day. The phone is turned off, too. On February 26, Ms. Wang contacted Lingling on WeChat and did not respond. The latest news update in his circle of friends is February 22nd. The family speculated that Lingling was probably in a state of losing contact from the 22nd.

Inquired by the exit-entry management personnel of the public security organs, Lingling did leave the country for Malaysia on February 7. However, it is impossible to inquire whether he left Malaysia later and where he went. But Teacher Luo believes that my cousin must still be in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, because this is the only place she is familiar with. Although she has family and social pressure, she has been working hard, so there will be nothing she wants to escape from her family. "Even if she wants to escape, she will tell me."

At present, Ms. Wang and Mr. Luo have reported to the police in Mianzhu and Deyang. Mianzhu police provided the family members with the contact information of the Embassy of China in Malaysia, and assisted them in sorting out and faxing relevant information.

On the afternoon of the 5th, the Longquan Mountain Road Police Station of Deyang Public Security Bureau collected Ms. Wang's DNA. On the other hand, Mr. Luo also sent a letter of help to the Embassy of China in Malaysia, and telephoned the Ministry of Foreign Affairs for help on the afternoon of March 5th. "I also called the local police in Kuala Lumpur to report the case, but I never got through." Mr. Luo said that he would continue to contact the embassy and local police, hoping to find his cousin as soon as possible.

On the afternoon of March 5th, Mr. Luo received a short message from the Embassy of China in Malaysia. According to the requirements of the local police, he can't call the police, but only entrust a friend to the local police station in Malaysia.

On the morning of the 6th, Chengdu Business Daily reporter was informed that Lingling's mother, Ms. Wang, was going through the formalities of going abroad and preparing to go to Malaysia for help.