I received the express message saying that I bought something, but I didn't.

I will choose to return it to the merchant. Of course, this cost is borne by the other party. If I remember correctly, I will also communicate with each other to solve the problem. It is quite common to encounter such wrong questions in life. As long as we learn to understand and communicate more, we can do it well.

1. Learn to understand others.

When you communicate with others, you'd better learn to understand others. If the other person is sunny and cheerful, then we don't have to be too serious. If the other person is serious, then when we communicate with others, we should fully understand and respect them and communicate seriously. If the other person is a friend who doesn't know much about it, it's best to keep respecting appropriate daily topics.

2. Keep proper silence and respect others.

When you encounter problems you don't understand, you should ask others more. When communicating, you should respect others and don't gush. Instead, learn to remain silent and let the other party express their opinions more. When you encounter something you don't understand, you should learn to listen carefully and give people a modest and serious attitude.

3. Exchange more positive topics of mutual interest.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to talk about topics that others are interested in and express their professional knowledge to others. Therefore, we must first learn to understand and listen to other people's opinions, so that the other party can feel your sincerity and feel that communicating with you is a very pleasant process, because everyone wants to be understood and respected by others, and exchanging more professional knowledge with each other is precisely mutual understanding and the same language.

4. Learn to listen modestly and seriously

When communicating with others, learn to listen carefully, don't interrupt others, and listen more patiently, so as to understand and respect others. Only in this way can we show sincerity, modesty and courtesy, and thus gain true friendship.

5. Learn to praise others.

Praise is a kind of respect, but also a recognition of the performance of the other party. When communicating with others, if we can properly praise the views expressed by others, it will undoubtedly give the other party a sense of respect and recognition, and the other party will agree with our understanding and respect very much, and at the same time, the other party will have a new understanding of us, which will effectively promote the happy and smooth communication.