The girl sent me a message saying that if she couldn't find a boyfriend, she would flash marriage and get married for the sake of marriage. What does she mean?

In other words, she married for the sake of marriage, not for love, not for herself, but for happiness, perhaps for her family. There is no way to get married. If the marriage is not for herself, it will be difficult to be happy.

I like what Zhou Libo said:

"Being single is not difficult, but it is difficult to deal with those who try their best to make you end being single."

This is especially true in the face of marriage. It is not difficult for you not to get married for a while, but it is difficult to deal with those who try their best to make you get married quickly.

Especially when their peers get married one after another, they are like "sinners" at home. Parents' nagging is normal, and the kind advice of seven aunts and eight aunts is even more helpless.

The most common exhortations are either "settle down early and be kind to yourself, just like anyone else …" or "It doesn't matter who you marry, don't clean yourself up at the end."

These words are plausible, but the truth in marriage is really not like this.

I met the right person all my life. After divorce, both men and women will feel "shameful", but now divorce is as simple as marriage, and no one wants to wronged themselves. When you live according to other people's arrangements, you may ruin your happiness.

Marriage is related to the happiness of a person's life. Parents' urging is well-intentioned, but the more they urge, the more calm you should be, because when you get married for the sake of marriage, happiness is not in your own hands. There is a simple reason.