Will you reply to group messages of blessing?

Since it’s New Year’s Day, instead of talking about the workplace, we continue to chat about family matters.

Today, New Year's Eve, everyone's WeChat will definitely receive a lot of blessings. Anyone with a discerning eye will know at a glance that this is a message that is simply copied and then forwarded. It looks like a literary blessing, why am I so disgusted and too lazy to care for it? It’s because these blessings come too simply, too easily, and too casually. We will be surprised to receive them the first few times, and then they will become more and more piles of garbage.

I don’t like to deal with this kind of blessing text messages. Even if they are sent by friends with whom I have a good relationship, I will reply with a few simple blessings, even if it is only a simple "Happy New Year" or three Although the words are very simple, they are also very relaxed. At least I used my fingers to type out the pinyin one by one. It is not random. It represents my sincere blessing. Maybe the other party will feel that they have lost because of just three words. But for a true friend, he will understand you and won't mind.

Many people take the opportunity of sending blessings in groups to test whether the other party has deleted their friends. For those who have not contacted each other for many years but have been in the address book for half a year and cannot see their circle of friends, if they usually If you send a clear link alone, you will definitely be despised by the other party. The New Year just gives you a legitimate opportunity to find the answer by sending blessings.

Some people simply think that they see a good blessing message in the group, such as various shapes and creative messages. If they find it interesting, they collect it and then want to share it with their relatives and friends. This is a bit Like when I was a kid, I got a fun toy and wanted other kids to see it and play with it.

Some people are even simpler, eliminating the steps of copying, pasting and forwarding, directly simplifying the three steps into one, collecting or making New Year emoticons, clicking on each person's information interface, sending it with one click, and updating Save time and effort, I often experience a lot of emoji crashes. But some people should also use some creativity, such as making emoticons with their own photos, getting some interesting actions, and adding a few words of blessing. Although it is also sent with one click, it is quite careful. I replied to this kind of blessing immediately because the other person was very attentive, and I also hoped that after receiving the other person's blessing, I could convey my wish in the shortest possible time.

This is a bit like what I mentioned in my previous article. The excessive use of mobile phones has reduced the temperature between the two people in front of the screen. There are many people who don't often communicate with each other. After looking through the chat history, they discovered that the last communication was last year's Spring Festival greeting message. It can be said that they can't see the greetings on weekdays. They come back every year during the Spring Festival.

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Having said so much, what about those blessing text messages sent to groups during the New Year? Should you reply or not?

As mentioned above, I will dialectically see whether it is worth repaying through the blessings I receive, even the words and texts. For those setters who work extremely hard, I will not receive their love.

I think that since the Spring Festival is a time for family reunion, we should also take time to meet our friends while having fun with our relatives. After all, during our hard-working year, the only way to communicate with friends is through phone calls or WeChat. Face-to-face chatting, drinking, and nonsense can bring us closer to each other and listen to each other far better than through the cold screen of a mobile phone. What happened this year. It's embarrassing to say, but once you've had three drinks, it's time to really get off your chest. But there must be a degree of restraint, after all, drinking too much alcohol is not a good thing.

The Year of the Rat is here again, and it’s another cycle. I wish everyone a fruitful harvest in the new year!

The sound of firecrackers bids farewell to the old year, and the greetings and greetings welcome the new year.