What if the child is beaten by the teacher?

What if the child is beaten by the teacher?

What if the child is beaten by the teacher? Parents are most concerned about the healthy growth of their children. Children's growth determines their future. Do not "promote" children's education. Let's work together to make children have more possibilities. Here is what to do if the child is beaten by the teacher.

What if the child is beaten by the teacher? 1 What if the child is really beaten?

The following is the real experience of a friend (hereinafter referred to as Mo Mo Mom). The child said that she thought she did a great job, so she sorted it out and recommended it to everyone:

Six-year-old Momo is in the first grade of primary school. One day, when she came home from school, DOG's mother found a bruise on her daughter's forehead. Asked the child "wow", she cried, saying that she was beaten by the class teacher and that she never wanted to go to school again.

When asked, it turned out that the child was slapped by the angry teacher with a ruler because he made many mistakes in dictation pinyin that day.

Although her intuition told her that what the child said was true, DOG's mother went to DOG's classmate's home (in the same neighborhood) to ask Xiaonan after dinner, and as a result, Xiaonan also complained to DOG. It has been proved that the teacher in charge of the class played ink and ink, and his forehead was bruised.

DOG's mother sent a message to the class teacher: DOG is very sad to go home today. She said that the most respected teacher hit her.

DOG's mother said that if the class teacher apologized after receiving the text message, she would not pursue it, because the teacher is also an ordinary person, and ordinary people will inevitably have impulsive or careless behavior, which may lead to irrational behavior. But until noon the next day, I still didn't receive any reply from the teacher.

The next afternoon, DOG's mother asked for leave from the company and went to the school to find the head teacher privately (if things didn't make a big deal, the negative impact on the children would be greater than the positive). She invited the head teacher to drink coffee (not in the teacher's office, to save face for the teacher).

DOG's mother said, "DOG has always said that you care about her as much as your mother. You are her favorite teacher. (Thank you first, communicate closely) But she was very sad when she came home yesterday. She said that the teacher didn't like her and beat her, which made her very scared. " The head teacher didn't say a word.

DOG's mother continued: "Yesterday, DOG's grandparents said they would call the police, and DOG's father said they would complain to the headmaster. I don't agree. I fully understand that you must be angry before hitting your child. Just like our parents, sometimes you can't help being beaten by naughty DOG. " The words "alarm" and "complaint" can play a deterrent role and prevent similar incidents from happening again. In fact, Mo Mo's family has never played Mo Mo, and Mo Mo's mother said this to show empathy. )

At this time, the head teacher knew that DOG's mother was not coming to criticize, and finally said, "I'm sorry, I really can't help it, because we have dictated those pinyin more than once ..."

"I understand that you also want your children to study hard. You are serious and responsible, and we are very relieved to give you the ink. This is my fault, too. I didn't help her with her lessons after work. Her father and I will definitely arrange time to help her review in the future. Teacher, if you have any comments or suggestions about Mo Mo, I hope you can tell us in time. " (expressing support for the teacher's work)

At this time, the teacher smiled, and they talked about Mo Mo's study one after another. Finally, the conversation between Momo's mother and the class teacher ended in a relaxed and happy atmosphere.

In addition to communicating with teachers, the most important thing is to calm children's emotions. This step is best done in time after learning that the child has been beaten by the teacher.

DOG's mother hugged DOG: "DOG was beaten by the teacher, and her mother was very sad" (expressing concern for her children)

"Why do you think the teacher hit you?" (Guide children to think rationally)

DOG thought for a moment and said, "Because I made a mistake in dictation."

"Well, the teacher hopes that Mo Mo's dictation can be all correct, right? Does this mean that the teacher is also good to Mo Mo? " Ink ink nodded.

What if the child is beaten by the teacher? 2 What should I do if my child is beaten by a teacher in kindergarten?

First, comfort children.

Help the child calm down: hug her, kiss her and tell her that you can be by her side no matter what;

Second, check the injury.

There is no trauma and no further examination of internal injuries according to the child's performance (under normal circumstances, normal teachers will not hurt the child's internal injuries! )

Third, gradually induce children.

As real as possible. If the child is still young, parents should let themselves know things calmly from the child's words and don't jump to conclusions.

Fourth, find other students in the class who are close to the children.

Ask what's going on This is convenient for comprehensive judgment.

Fifth, send messages to teachers.

Truthfully feedback the children's situation at home and make an appointment for an interview with the teacher. This is a buffer, which not only reminds the teacher but also gives him enough face, not to mention other consequences caused by his hasty words when he meets the teacher.

Sixth, the interview

As far as possible, both parents are present at the interview to show the importance of this matter, but the child is not present. During the conversation, parents are neither humble nor supercilious, and have in-depth communication with teachers according to their previous work. We should affirm and understand the teacher's work, then mention the main purpose of the interview as calmly as possible, and finally put forward the hope for the child's future.

What should parents do if the child is beaten by the teacher?

Why did the teacher hit the child? First of all, we should help children clear their minds, think from the teacher's point of view, and then help children analyze. Wouldn't it be better to do so?

In addition, the authenticity of the child's statement is verified by the teacher. You can talk to the teacher and ask how things are going. And tell the teacher that I have talked to the children at home, and I am sorry to bother the teacher. Please also pay more attention to the teacher in the future and communicate in time.

Of course, it is necessary to find out where the teacher played, whether he really played and why. If you are not sure, you may be wronged.

It is not good to lose a teacher. So let's take a step back and broaden our horizons and talk about future development.