Do you want to send text messages every day on blind date, Zhihu?

It's right to keep in touch, but don't follow the same pattern and do it deliberately, which will become boring and passive, making people feel that your purpose is too obvious. Take you for example, if someone praises you, you will be very happy inside, but if you talk too much, you will feel that this person is fake and even annoying. Because he praised you for your purpose and hypocrisy. In this respect, his frequency becomes useless.

It is the right way to communicate with women who like you, so that you can directly observe your sincerity. Phone calls and text messages can only be used if you are concerned and have something to do. And if you want to be quick, you must meet and do what you like, and then show your concern and admiration during the dating process, and then you can talk about some topics that you usually chat with friends and give full play to your strengths. If she is willing to listen during the conversation, you can talk at this time, otherwise, you can let her express her opinion and ask her interest by the way. She will naturally forget to be restrained, and there will be more topics. In this way, you will have a chance to contact each other in the future, and she will take the initiative and the gap will disappear. You can't say anything about flirting, whether it's text messages or phone calls, whatever. At this time, it is the transcendence of feelings. If you get to this point, she will acquiesce that your salty pig hands will not be angry. )