Do Aries men like to disappear?

Generally, if an Aries man starts disappearing for the first time, you can basically make preliminary preparations for breaking up, such as psychological construction, coping measures, etc. If I come back to beg you, don't agree, because it will hurt you a second time. But be careful, try not to give him an excuse that he was dumped by you. This is a very bad thing about Aries. He will pretend that he was dumped by you, and then continue to lie to other women.

As for the excuses for disappearing, there are generally the following:

1. Busy at work;

2. Family members are involved or sick;

3. He feels that you don’t love him enough, so he needs to be alone;

4. Temporary business trip;

5. The mobile phone has no battery/no signal;

The way to disappear is usually that the mobile phone is turned off, QQ is offline, and text messages and WeChat messages are not answered or rarely answered.

Please remember, don’t believe any explanation he gives. Aries men cannot live without the opposite sex. They are the most intolerable group of people who can’t stand being unloved or fucked. Sex is very important to them. As important as air and food, their tolerance limit for loneliness will not exceed three days. Once you are ignored for a long time, someone else must have taken your role or role.

There is only one real reason for the disappearance of the sheep man. He has found a new "potential girlfriend" (also known as a sex partner), or a new hookup partner, and is in the early stages of getting along with this sex friend. If If it feels good and progress is going well, you will most likely become your ex; if it doesn't feel as good as you, or progress fails, he will come back to you, as if his spirit just wandered away for a short time. But after a while, he will continue to look for new friends and new targets. Until one day, he finally succeeded in finding someone who could replace you and abandoned you.

Even if he comes back to you after a short period of separation, you have to know no matter what, this Sheep man has made it very clear that he does not want you anymore, and it is only a matter of time before he leaves you. It's just that due to practical considerations, it's not time to make it clear yet.

And after the spare tire is solid, the Sheep man will generally not take the initiative to break up with you, but will try to avoid you and try not to face your "mess". This approach is commonly known as "cold violence". Under normal circumstances, the cold violence of Aries will not last long before forcing the other party to break up. ——This is indeed a very hateful situation. When the partner is struggling and tormented by the cold violence of the Goat man, the Goat man is lying comfortably on the bed of his new love, Simmons.

This is why many girls are surprised by such a situation: just after they broke up with a goat man, the goat man suddenly fell in love with another woman and even lived together directly... ...Girl, in fact, he has already hooked up with this woman when he was coldly violent towards you, pretending to disappear, and even taking care of you in various ways. With such fame and fortune, Aries can claim to have been "broken up" on the one hand to continue maintaining the image of a good man, and on the other hand achieve the purpose of changing partners.

So, why do Aries care so much about their reputation while cheating? ——Because Aries has no faith, all behaviors are based on instinct, so there is no yardstick to measure one's own behavior, so they may seem disdainful, but in fact they care about the evaluation and reputation of their relatives, friends and people around them, because reputation is also One of the most important resources that Aries need to rely on in the scene. It's not good to get a bad reputation if you mess around in the scene. An Aries man the blogger talked to was very concerned about how the blogger would evaluate him after a breakup. During the relationship, he repeatedly talked about this issue and expressed that he was worried that after the breakup, the blogger would evaluate him the same way he evaluated his ex (that’s the sad thing, We just started dating, but the Goat man is thinking about what kind of comments I will give him after we break up).

When the Sheep man uses cold violence and you still pursue him and refuse to let go, he will tear off his mask and say harsh words. The harsh words are basically dissatisfaction with you. No matter how bad you treat him, how bad your temper is, how sloppy your daily life is, how he doesn't love you long ago... please don't believe any of these, he just wants you to feel guilty and take away the things that led to the breakup. The blame lies with you. Because he didn't tell the real key to the breakup - he cheated. From this aspect, the Sheep man is actually cowardly at heart. This is also the common face of scumbags - escaping responsibility.

Don’t think that your long-term forbearance will influence the other person, and don’t think that when you proposed breaking up, he didn’t agree because he couldn’t let you go and still loves you. There are no people or things that a Sheep man can't let go of, and he is not an animal that can be tied down by emotions. In their eyes, only reality, material things, and desires are real. The world is such a jungle where the weak eat the strong. Their novelty towards you has long gone, they no longer want this dull relationship, and the idea of ??saying goodbye to the old and welcoming the new has been brewing for a long time. But it's strange that he didn't choose to leave you immediately. Why? ——Because I haven’t found a better successor than you, a woman with a more solid financial foundation, or a woman with bigger breasts and a more beautiful face. They can definitely treat you well while looking for a new home. When his spare tire has matured and he is ready to become a full-time employee, he will suddenly turn against you and catch you off guard.

In addition, Aries are the best liars among the 12 zodiac signs. If you think they have no brains and their lies can be easily exposed, it means that what is exposed is only the part they think is unimportant and they don’t mind being discovered by you. part. If he really wants to lie to you, he can make you live in the lies he weaves for the rest of your life. The more harmless the appearance, the easier it is to hurt people.

The most frightening thing is that young Aries have no moral sense at all emotionally. They have filial piety in their hearts, abide by social norms, and recognize the rules of the workplace game. Emotionally, there is no morality at all. In other words, they basically don't feel any guilt for betraying their feelings, and they will even secretly find their own sense of value from the degree of the other person's injury. They think that since they don't love you anymore, it's natural for them to dump you. The Sheep Man's logic is this: "At first I just flirted with you appropriately, but you couldn't hold it in anymore and took the initiative to let me fuck you. It was you who wanted me to fuck you. I just accepted you naturally." That's it, I haven't promised to marry you. It's boring now. You are still pestering me. You are too ignorant and don't follow the rules of the game!"

So, if the Sheep man dumps you, If you persist, he will hate you deeply and hate you from the bottom of his heart. However, if you dump him instead of him dumping you, he will stick with you. Typical double standards.

The following are additions based on questions from netizens:

1. After Aries Wan disappears, will he definitely not reconcile with me again? ——In most cases, after playing once and disappearing twice, it will still come back to you. When it comes back, it will give you a glorious excuse, and then treat you as if nothing happened before. This is actually in vain. On the one hand, Sheep is testing your bottom line of acceptance and detection ability. On the other hand, the person he meets outside this time he just wants to play with, or this person may be inferior to you in some aspects, but he still comes back after weighing it.

But remember, once you start looking for a spare tire, you basically feel that you don’t want this relationship anymore. It’s just a matter of time before you get rid of you, unless you are really in such good condition that he can’t find you anywhere else. Someone who surpasses you in aspects, or he is dependent on you in material/interest level (for example, your father is his big boss, for example, a huge amount of money has property in your name, and it is difficult for him to part with it, for example, you control There is enough evidence to send her to jail). They just surrender to reality.

Agoat men are different from Scorpio men who also like to cheat. When faced with a new love or an old love, Scorpio will be more inclined to choose the old love, and even continue to shoulder various responsibilities for the old love. Aries, on the other hand, has no sense of responsibility at all. Freshness and excitement are the biggest temptation.

2. Why do I love him like a man possessed? ——Aries men are very good at "brainwashing" their partners, which is the subtle instillation and implantation of values. The latest name is PUA. You will find that he often uses blame to convey a certain concept or way of thinking to you. Every time he criticizes you, it is actually a small attempt to brainwash you. Every time he makes a mistake, he can find the corresponding reason from you... In this way, he can find out and continuously lower the bottom line of your acceptance of his various behaviors. Every time you give in, he takes another step forward. As long as a person has no moral bottom line, he will keep going like this forever until he drives the other person crazy. As for normal times, he also continues to subtly instill in you all kinds of content that is beneficial to him, making you begin to believe his unsatisfactory rhetoric. When you start thinking independently again, you will find that his "ideas" are so ridiculous and flimsy.

So, if you do not have the ability to think and judge independently, and cannot judge the rights and wrongs calmly and detachedly, you will be easily fooled. Aries, on the other hand, actually have no compassion for the object they control 100%. They only like the process of chasing and controlling. Once this process is completely completed, the controlled object will no longer have any sense of novelty, but will become more like a burden. .

Agoat men are actually not interested in obedient little girls, they are only interested in sex. From the beginning of the relationship, they know that they will definitely get rid of them when they have enough fun, but they will still go out with them because they can’t find them for the time being. Even better, because they are afraid of loneliness, because they have sexual desire, and because they need someone to take care of them. ——Since you know that sooner or later you will get rid of the other person, then try to be a little nicer to her when you are dating. ——This is the only mercy they think they have.

In fact, what they really like are independent women with strong hearts. It's a pity that such a woman can see through the Goat man at a glance.

In addition, the basis for a Sheep man to choose marriage is not love, but practical interests. At the very least, she must be a good wife and mother, even if she is not the woman she loves. ——Fall in love with the woman you like, and marry the woman who is suitable for marriage. The former can only get my love but not my commitment, while the latter can only get my care but not my sincerity. This is the most realistic side of the Aries man.

3. Why are Aries men so passionate and energetic. So strong sexually? ——The former comes from constant self-hypnosis and self-suggestion. This is actually related to some inferiority complex deep inside. These low self-esteem drive Aries men to become very social, well versed in the rules of the game, and actively fight to gain a sense of security. Therefore, they prefer women with mature minds and calm hearts, so they easily "fall in love" with Libras. Women, of course the appearance of a Libra woman is also one of the factors.

As for the latter (sexual aspect), I won’t say much. In fact, women who have read countless women should know very well that Aries men are the most common kidney deficiency among their peers. This is also the result of indulgence, even if there are no women. Friends, you should also fly a tube every day. I know several friends who are Sheep men. They all started to suffer from weakness around the age of 25 (the term is called lifting but not strong), but they never reduced the number of pile driving, various blue pills, Liuwei Dihuang and the like. It was a great pleasure to eat. Fortunately, like Scorpios, they have a service spirit and sense of service when doing things, but it is limited to the twenty minutes they do things. When doing things, you'd better remind yourself not to indulge in this kind of sensory stimulation. You should know that he serves others in the same way, and even serves with more dedication. He might even have served someone else just two hours before he served you.

Again, Aries has no faith. What they believe in is the law of the jungle where the weak eat the strong, the social law of survival of the fittest, and the objective reality that the strong is king. Such secularization means that there is no faith at all, and there is no moral code, especially emotional moral code. They only know that when you are my woman, I need to be nice to you and considerate of you. This is their compliance with social norms and is not necessarily a sign of love.

Without faith and moral standards, there will be a sense of metaphysical deficiency in the heart (not that the limbs are well-developed but that the mind is simple, but that one feels that something is missing compared to others). Sheep men usually use "literary sentiments" to cover up and make up for it, showing that they are also "feelings". For this reason, he will pretend to be melancholy from time to time and post some rhetoric, elegant pictures, etc. that he himself cannot understand in the circle of friends. I remember when I was watching "Guanyin Mountain" with a goat man (I hope he didn't read this article), he was fast asleep the whole time. After the show, I saw him posting a Weibo post with a very literary poster picture, The blog post roughly said that "Guanyin Mountain" touched his heart.

4. Finally, I would like to say something warm, to all the women who have been deceived and hurt by Sheep men: This is an injury, but it is also a process that makes you understand true love better and makes life fuller. The Aries man will let you understand that love is not actually a strong offensive when you first meet, nor is it a lot of flowers, romantic love letters, flickering candlelight, or deliberately created dramatic touches like frequent urination. Those are just guns and ammunition used to chase women and drugs to control women.

After breaking up with a Sheep man, you may have a period of depression, regret, or even a period of wanting to look back. As long as you get through it, you will find that you have become smarter and more capable. If you can see through all these tricks, you will understand that true love is restrained, a steady stream, a person who will not lie to you, and is willing to accompany you silently and grow old together.

In the years when you need to struggle the most, you should love someone who can give you motivation, not someone who can exhaust you.