Three tips for chatting with girls

Lead: First of all, brothers should understand a problem. They hide behind the screen, and they can only pick up girls by chatting with their sisters and using the powerful words you have learned, but they dare not go out to practice and make up their minds to transform themselves. A brother can't become a girl, or even make any progress, but will only become a more wretched and wretched man.

Of course, what I'm talking about is not that after reading the article, you go to the street and strike up a conversation like chicken blood, and the ugly brother goes to the street to block the road and strike up a girl. This scene is not a chat-up, it is harassment. Don't embarrass yourself or girls. Although there will be some anxiety before chatting up, in general, chatting up is a relaxing and eager activity, not an unbearable pain.

So I mentioned in my last article that change begins with image transformation and then is put into practice.

The internet provides us with more convenience to know girls. With the above correct understanding, we must master more and better online chat skills and practices. Today, I will bring you three tips for online chat. I mentioned it here? Internet chat? Including WeChat chat, QQ chat and SMS chat.

First, use it well in QQ chat? Shy? Laugh while covering your mouth? Two expressions

I often get help from my brothers. Among all kinds of help, one kind accounts for a considerable proportion. This kind of help is like this. I will receive something like? Boss Hedgehog, I'm talking to this girl, and she said the same thing. How should I reply? ? Then there are screenshots of brother and sister chatting.

This kind of help takes up a lot of my energy, but I refuse this kind of help, because no matter how well I reply to my brother, it will not help my brother, just to show my strength. You can't always talk well with your sister, not that you lack these bright spots. Words? However, because your own image and your expression are not good enough, you didn't see this clearly. It is incorrect to think that a tutor can help you say a few different words to make your sister look at you instantly, and then throw herself at you after a few more words.

Moreover, after the tutor helps you defend, your own level and even your oral expression ability have not improved. Don't make mistakes. Since there are many such problems, and most brothers have never received online help? System? Training and transformation, I am here to teach you a practical chat tips, suitable for QQ chat? Good at using it? Shy? 、? Laugh while covering your mouth? Two QQ expressions.

Many brothers like to use all kinds of expressions when chatting, but in fact it is better not to use bad expressions. In QQ chat, most expressions will be counterproductive if they are not used well. This one? Most expressions? What expressions are included? Except for the two expressions I said today, all the other QQ expressions are. Including all QQ facial expressions and QQ facial expressions software packages downloaded by yourself.

To paraphrase one of my pet phrases. If you don't know how effective you are with this expression, then the effect of your expression is definitely not good. . Most QQ expressions are not suitable for novices who are not good at QQ chat, and there are certain risks. The two expressions I introduced today have the lowest risk and the best effect.

Use these two expressions casually. In other words, you can use it at will. You can use it whenever you are joking with your sister. Laugh while covering your mouth? You can use this expression when flirting with girls? Shy? This expression. When you use these expressions in practice, you will find that there are not many occasions when you don't use them. You can use them as long as you are in a chatting atmosphere.

The last few questions about this little trick are:

1. Does this trick apply to any girl? Yes, and the kinder the girl, the better the effect. But remember, don't use these two expressions to your girlfriend, because these two expressions can't keep up with your intimacy.

2. Are these two expressions applicable to people of any age? It is true that some brothels find that they are a little suspicious of act young's worship. Therefore, this trick does not apply to all ages. Brothers who want to take a mature route are not suitable for this move, but college students and newly-hired brothers are most suitable for this move.

3. Does this move apply to all my stages? No, as I said before, this move is given and has not been accepted? Systematic? Trained brothers, that is, those who are self-taught but have not yet become talents, when you have received systematic training, this skill is too single and even abandoned. No one has ever used these two expressions to hook up with girls.

Second, remove the modal particles in the chat.

There will be many brothers when chatting? what's up And then what? Really? Huh? Is it? There are many such modal particles, even at the end of almost every sentence. Don't do this, please cut out all these modal particles simply and rudely. A brother asked, it's all cut, and the language seems to be not fluent. This is not a problem. You can change the way sentences are expressed, for example, when you ask someone a question? Are you a dream hedgehog? Can be changed to? Excuse me, are you a dream hedgehog? So the modal particles were cut off.

If you find that you can't get rid of modal particles by changing the sentence expression properly, how can you roughly cut them off? Even if it is awkward, it is better than too many modal particles. On the contrary, it may make you look more special.

Many brothers told me how they felt after reading my article? Is that clear? Simple language? . The reason why I try to put dry goods in every post is that modal particles rarely appear at the end of sentences when I write articles. I have formed a habit and will consciously modify them, which is why my posts are also colloquial and popular, which makes people feel different.

If brothers still can't understand the harm of modal particles in online chat, then you can go back and look at your QQ chat record with your sister, take a closer look, feel it, and feel your chat process from the standpoint of your sister or bystander. Do you think your chat is childish and full of needs? You can see how many modal particles you use. In many cases, modal particles are the culprit of everything.

Finally, I want to mention short messages. Avoid modal particles in text messages, too. Besides, texting is not suitable for you to come and talk to me all night. Therefore, short messages should not only avoid modal particles, but also be as concise as possible, without too many redundant words. Simple short messages will help you convey high value.

For example, if you invite a girl by text message, you can say? I am walking on the playground. Let's play together. ? And don't say? I'm on the playground now. Let's go for a walk if we have time. ? The latter statement feels very polite, but in fact, the success rate of invitation is low, which conveys a lot of low value. For another example, you can say? I am in XX near your unit. Let's talk. ? And don't say? I just went to your company to do something, and now I'm in XX near your company. I wonder if you are free. Can we talk if we have time? .

You got it? SMS should not only avoid modal particles, but also be concise. This article also applies to temporary invitations of similar functional platforms such as WeChat.

Third, use it well? What? Quickly close the relationship with girls.

This is the last trick to introduce to you today, and it is also the most powerful one. ? What? It is an onomatopoeic word that is often used now to express the meaning of kissing. Suitable for lovers between men and women, of course, also used between girlfriends and even good friends. That is to say, between men and women, generally speaking, unless it is a lover relationship, it can't be used? What? As a gesture of friendship.

The skill I'm going to teach you today is. When chatting with a target who is not a lover, use? What? This onomatopoeia quickly shortens the distance between you and the girl and greatly shortens the game time. This technique is suitable for WeChat, QQ, SMS and other network platforms, and can even be directly used for telephone chat and face-to-face chat, with remarkable results.

Some brothers asked, does this expose the sense of demand? What I want to tell my brothers is to dare to dance on the blade. When you use this technique unconventional, won't girls think of it? This boy has been attracted to me. Is he a game of customs clearance? , but will you feel? What a special boy! He must be very confident. Is it really interesting for me that he said this? Or are you just flirting with me? Does he like me or not? Think about it. He's not bad. He is really a playboy who can handle women. ?

As we all know, when a girl falls into a situation where she doesn't know whether you like her or not, she will keep making a decision whether you like her movements or not. These actions are all your swords and shadows, cutting her one by one, and finally she will rationalize her feelings. I must be in love with him? .

You know, the more girls miss you, the easier they like you. Is she thinking? Does he like me or not? This question is the best state. Isn't it great? Besides, you showed confidence.

This skill is not as easy to use as QQ face writing. First of all, before you use it, make sure that girls at least have a bad impression on you. If a girl has a bad impression on you, don't use it. It won't work, but it will hurt your confidence. So how do you see what girls think of you? According to the mystery man's method, you need to judge how many interest indicators you have obtained, but I seldom go to such trouble. I know that normal girls who have had contact with me will have a very good impression on me, so I never use this technique. Judge? This step.

This goes back to the question? Self-building, with a good, at least qualified image building, you can use this skill. Without a qualified self-image, it is meaningless to judge girls' interest indicators. You won't receive any interest indicators. If you think you received it, it's usually an illusion, maybe it's your illusion, or maybe it's a girl's illusion (she may find you attractive at one moment, but you're not).

How to use this technology when using it? When chatting online, whether it's WeChat, SMS or QQ, is it useful to chat with girls when they are happy? Ok, I see. Talk to you later. What? ,? Thank you for your concern. What? Both will do. When you use it in reality, you should pay attention to the indifferent and natural tone and way of speaking, so it seems that this is your habit, and you speak naturally, instead of staring at the girl's reaction after you finish, which makes you feel nervous. Then, you will become a confession.

It's over? What? Whether online or in reality, you should be prepared to undertake it. What is this? That is to say, no matter how amazing I make this technology and how much essence you get, you shouldn't expect girls to finish it? What? Can I call you back later? What? This situation does exist in practice, but the number is relatively small, which is not necessarily a good thing. What is the usual reaction of girls? Play dumb, pretend not to see? Still reply? Haha, it must be from your girlfriend. Good night, you two. ? Oh, you broke me, didn't you? Something like that

In reality, the pressure is much greater, so, you mean? What? You have to figure out how to take it before. How to take it? Simple? Calm and natural, she's playing dumb. Why don't you just arrest her? Won't you reply to me? If she reacts violently, you should keep calm and make her feel like a village girl who doesn't often come out to play. She can't keep up with your world. Anyway, keep your frame, okay? What? It's just really no big deal.

This technique is very useful, but it may not work once. You can use it several times, but in terms of frequency, you must? Occasionally? If you use it all the time, it not only exposes the sense of demand, but also really can't grasp the girls' follow-up questions with a calm and natural attitude.