High emotional intelligence reply does not want to keep an appointment

High emotional intelligence reply does not want to keep an appointment

Now is a social society, there are different appointments every day, and they may be asked by colleagues, friends or family members. When you don't want to go to an appointment, how can you refuse so that you won't be embarrassed when you meet later? I summed up many effective methods. Let's have a look.

High emotional intelligence replies don't want to go on a date 1 high emotional intelligence replies to someone else's date;

1. For people with high emotional intelligence, if you want to refuse others' confession, don't come too directly. Even if you are sure you don't like this person, don't refuse him decisively. When the other party confesses, your heart must be full of expectations. If you refuse directly at this time, your self-esteem will be hurt.

At this time, on the grounds of giving yourself a time to think, let the other party prepare for rejection and explain his mind within a day or two.

2. If a person is not sure about his mind or doesn't want to talk about feelings for the time being when he confesses to himself, for example, when he is just working hard for his career, he can explain to the other party that he also has feelings for him, but he doesn't want to talk about feelings yet, and he doesn't want to talk about a relationship hastily, but it is best to give the other party a time. If he doesn't like the other person, he should definitely refuse and don't make the other person happy.

If the opposite sex makes an invitation but doesn't want to keep the appointment, you can tell the other person that you have something to do, and we can talk about it another day. The other party will naturally understand what you mean after listening, and will definitely not chase you and ask what it is. This rejection will not hurt harmony, nor will it make the other party feel embarrassed. At the same time, I will feel much more relaxed and will not be embarrassed by this matter.

When the opposite sex asks you out, you can ask the other person what it is in advance. If the other party says that there is nothing important, you can tell the other party that there is nothing important at this time, and solve it by phone or text message. If the other person says he wants to talk to you, he should also ask what it is in advance so as to decide whether to go or not.

Some people like to invite people by rote. I believe that no matter who meets such a person, he will be disgusted. Just say no when you meet such a person. "Declining" doesn't work for such people, because the more tactfully you refuse, the more reasons the other party invites. It is suggested to distinguish what kind of person the other party is in advance, and then choose the appropriate reason to refuse.

I don't want to go to the appointment. 2. I don't want to go out.

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Don't want to go out

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Methods/steps

I just drank wine, and I feel a little dizzy. I just want to lie in bed and rest, and I can't get out.

Last night was the night shift, and I need to catch up on sleep today. Sorry, honey, some other time. I'll treat you to dinner another day.

The leader has just sent an extra task temporarily, and he is too busy to leave.

I caught a cold last night. I just took medicine and rested. I can't go out. My body won't allow it. Please forgive me.

I am so tired that I really don't want to go out today. Why don't you come and see me, and we can chat and have a cup of coffee.

I checked the almanac, and it's not suitable to go out today, so just stay at home.

High EQ replies don't want to go to the appointment 3 1, change the topic.

When you are invited, a girl says she is busy, which usually means rejecting you. If a girl doesn't want to date you for dinner, no matter how rationally you persuade her, she won't succeed. Here, if you can't successfully invite a girl, try to change a woman's mood instead of discussing it with her rationally.

Chat mode 1:

Man: "Let's have dinner together tomorrow."

W: Busy, no time.

Man: "I'll tell you an interesting thing, Barabara ..." (change the subject and divert attention)

Chat mode 2:

Man: "Let's rest tomorrow and have dinner together."

Woman: "I'm busy, forget it."

Man: "I just came out of the gym with my friends." What are you doing? "

By describing your status, it is also an opportunity to show your high value, so it is natural to change the subject. You talk well next, and she will come out!

In fact, the purpose of chatting with girls is the same for everyone. Let's have fun together. But often in surgery, no matter how to make an appointment, you can't make an appointment. I used to be like this, extremely depressed. However, I was lucky enough to see that Jiang Han must fall in love, a treasure trove of chasing women. From then on, I understand that only when a girl is attracted to you will she have a follow-up development, otherwise everything you do will be useless, just because she is not interested in you. Then I followed the inside method to enhance my attraction. Sure enough, I found that everything became easier in the process of picking up girls. This is the charm of attraction. Anyone who is single can go and see it. There is an electronic version of Jianghan Lian Bi Book on the Internet. Only by enhancing one's own value and generating attraction is king.

2. Humorous misinterpretation

Most girls tend to be duplicitous. Even if she doesn't reject dating you for dinner, she will politely refuse you because she is reserved. At this time, we explained the girl's reserve and wanted to give her a reasonable step to go out with you.

When a woman's mood is not high and her attitude is not good, she should first keep a calm mind. Women are like tigers on the surface, but cats on the inside. They like being dominated and guided by men. If you can act as a confident male leader, you can give her enough emotional value. Women want to date you naturally under your guidance.

Chat mode:

Man: "Let's have dinner together tomorrow."

Woman: "I'm busy tomorrow. I'm going to the gym. "

Man: "No wonder you have such a good figure."

Woman: "Where is good?"

Man: "You have gone too far. How do those who are in poor shape get out? "

Step 3: Direct reaction

Why can't many boys catch up with girls? It is because of honesty and kindness that women are spoiled and will proudly refuse your invitation. At this time, we begged her invitation, knelt down and licked her, and she would only blow her nose more and refuse your invitation. So we'd better retreat temporarily and give up the invitation.

Here, when you are refused a promotion relationship with a girl, you should first back down temporarily and don't put too much pressure on the girl, so as to show your framework and attitude. You're not hungry. She is not the only girl.

M: Let's have dinner together tomorrow.

W: Busy, no time.

M: I seem to be in a bad mood. I'll make an appointment next time.

Chat mode 2:

Man: It's my treat tomorrow.

W: I'm busy tomorrow, so I have no time.

M: I really want to eat recently. If it's inconvenient for you, I'll have to go by myself.

I want to eat by myself, please accompany me, not please you.

The above is the girl's rejection reply. I hope everyone can get love as they wish.