What if the girl doesn't return your message?

What if the girl doesn't reply to your message?

1. Girls are not interested in you at the moment.

I don't want to reply to messages. Girls are not interested enough at present, usually because your current conditions are not attractive enough for her.

At this time, it is necessary to keep the contact frequency low, lengthen the front and fight a protracted war. At the same time, you should also improve yourself and make girls realize the bright spot in you.

Girls are fickle animals. Just because they are not interested in you now doesn't mean they are not interested in the future. With the change of the surrounding environment, to understand the concept of love, the criteria for girls to choose a spouse will also change.

2. Girls are more interested in you, but you are always embarrassed to chat, which consumes girls' interest.

Sometimes girls are interested in boys because Xidan and boys continue to know each other, but some straight men, just like this, are good at chatting and chatting to death. For example, girls: What are you doing? Boys: I'm taking a shower, girls; Then you wash first, boy: OK.

You can try this. Girl: What are you doing? Boy: I'm taking a bath, girl; Then take a shower first, boy: no, I can reply to you while taking a shower.

3. Girls are more interested in you, but your frequent chatting is too depressing, and girls have lost their accumulation.

Many boys always care about the results and are eager to be with girls, but girls pay attention to the process, like to chase in their feelings, and like the feeling that they can't get the desired results without giving themselves a good process.

Many inexperienced boys always subconsciously choose to chat with girls every day when they are friendly to girls, but in fact, chatting every day is the frequency of chatting between boys and girls, which belongs to the leapfrog frequency.

If girls don't adapt to your frequency, they will subconsciously resist. The concrete action of the conflict is that they are not enthusiastic about chatting. At this time, boys should appropriately reduce the frequency of chatting to avoid the discomfort of girls, such as once every three or four days or once a week.

Of course, some girls may also adapt to the frequency of chatting every day at the beginning. At this time, boys should meet quickly, and through dating, the most effective way, quickly warm up their feelings and avoid chatting every day, which may have side effects.

Girls are more interested in you, but your chat content is too stressful, which scares girls away.

This kind of chat, asking a vulgar question, is called "dog licking chat" For example, when chatting, boys will say "You are so beautiful", "You are so cute" and "I will do anything for you". Sometimes, girls think they have met Prince Charming, but when chatting, they find that it is a pug who can only walk around the ground. Naturally, girls are not interested in you.

In short, whether to continue chatting with girls depends on your personal wishes, but you must have certain skills, otherwise it will be useless to chat.