Is online dating reliable? I've really experienced it, and it's not reliable to tell you.

A friend asked me, is it reliable to ask for marriage on the dating website? My real experience tells him that it is not reliable. I was cheated in Lily.com, and my real experience tells you that online dating is not reliable. Of course, someone is really looking for someone on it. However, the number of swindlers is far more than those who really look for partners, and most of them are older men who come to find women, while most women have other purposes, so making friends on the dating network is not reliable.

To sum up, I will meet these people on dating sites.

1, senior liar

The people who meet most on the dating network are the top players. This kind of deception takes longer and the means are more sophisticated, and the benefits they seek are greater and the harm is deeper. They usually pretend to be successful people, such as beauty shop owners and company management. In short, they make you feel that they are excellent, and you will feel a little inferior when chatting with them.

At first, these people usually talk to you about life and travel. It seems to be a normal chat, and they all take the initiative to chat with you. When you talk to them, they will reply to your message, which makes you feel very happy to chat with you. Give you the illusion that love is coming. Sometimes it takes a month and a half to talk.

However, when you talk for a while, they will start to act and seduce you in various ways. For example, I was tricked into playing with the current color. At first, I would tell you that this can make money, and then you invested a little, and you did make a little. When your desire is aroused, you begin to lose yourself, then you invest more and more, you believe what she said, and finally when you lose everything, you begin to wake up. Moreover, these people are particularly inhuman. If you lose money, you will continue to be encouraged to borrow money to turn the tables. Just because I was cheated, I owed 50,000 online loans. This is the biggest stain in my life, and I still can't forgive myself. You can only blame yourself for your obsession with money. Of course, I'm glad I controlled myself in time so that I didn't fall into the abyss of perdition.

At least 80% of the current dating networks are such liars. You can't avoid people you can't hide from. You often stand by in the river without getting your shoes wet. As long as you find someone on it, you will fall into the trap of a liar. More than 60% of the girls I added to the dating site are like this. They basically cheat you to play the current lottery, golden bean financing, gambling size and so on. In the end, you are basically cheated out of everything, and then will continue to encourage you to borrow money. Until you have no money at all, they will drag you black and disappear from your world. All you have left is a pile of debts except self-blame. And it's not small money.

2. Red Packet Party

There are also many red envelope parties on the dating website. This kind of girl will usually add you as a friend and chat with you first. Of course, chatting is also for your own liking, so chatting is also very enjoyable. Of course, these people also chat professionally, so they have different words to deal with different people. So you will feel that you can talk to them especially.

But after chatting for a while, I will start asking you for red envelopes for various reasons. For example, today is my birthday, Valentine's Day is coming, I want a red envelope, I am unemployed and have no food, and so on. Anyway, it is a red envelope for various reasons and excuses. At the beginning, the amount is not large, and many people don't care about giving points, but it will increase. You treat her like an object, and people treat you like an ATM.

3, all kinds of entrustment and soliciting

On dating websites, there are also various saucers and saucers. I met a flying saucer. I just started chatting with you and then I will always ask you out to meet. When you said you came to find a place to eat, she began to refuse, coquetry, and finally took you to the place she designated for consumption. That time, I met a flying saucer and took it to a club. The decoration is simple. I ordered a bottle of wine and two discs, 500 yuan. After sitting for almost two minutes, the woman looked at the money and was anxious to leave.

As for the man who came out to solicit customers and sell meat, I didn't meet him. Maybe I don't have enough contact with him. A friend of mine met him, and he told the above experience at the party, which was particularly wonderful. Of course, some boys who go to the dating site have an impure purpose. They just want to find someone, and it's good for them to get what they need.

4. WeChat business and advertisers

Many of them are WeChat businesses and advertisers. For them, this is just a good drainage method with low cost and quick effect. A girl's head can add many people a day. If chatting can sell products, it is absolutely cost-effective.

Of course, this kind of WeChat business is still less harmful. At most, it will add you to send spam to your friends and chat with you when you are in a good mood. Usually they advertise in the circle of friends, which will basically not affect your life, at least much better than those who cheat money, and will not let you lose anything.

5. Really looking for someone.

It can't be said that there are no real lovers on the dating network, but these proportions are really too small. Maybe you have been seduced by liars before you met them. Finally, it can only be said that online dating is risky, and it is necessary to be cautious when looking for lovers. I have also met some real people who are looking for marriage partners in Lily.com, but many of them are crooked melons and cracked dates. I met a 35-year-old leftover woman, who basically belongs to the type of doctor. Let's take a chance and see if I can find someone. There is also a divorced post-90 s girl, which basically belongs to emotional failure. With the encouragement of friends, come up and see if there is a suitable person. Normal girls, I think it is more reliable to find someone to introduce them at home.

6. The routine of the platform is flickering.

Basically, after you register for online blind date, the so-called staff and matchmaker will contact you, and then say how much money you can pay to introduce you to a satisfactory object. When you say it, it's all very nice and exciting. However, when you pay, it's not like that at all. At most, just find a few random people to fool you and you will pass. This is similar to an offline matchmaking agency. Anyway, in the end, you must still have money and people. Of course, you will succeed. This probability is too small. It is more reliable to be introduced by your family and friends.