Is online dating credible?

Correct online dating is reliable, and there are many successful examples of online dating, but blind online dating and unplanned online dating are definitely unreliable.

Online dating with skills and methods is reliable.

1, focusing on accumulating topics

Online dating must pay attention to accumulating topics. Chatting is a jumping process, and the topic is often jumping. Therefore, chatting puts forward higher requirements for the accumulation of topics, materials and experience. Therefore, in daily life, we should pay attention to the accumulation of chat materials. For example: anecdotes, funny topics, interesting pictures, personal adventures.

For chat topics, some people with chat experience will be more clear. When your social circle reaches a certain height, necessary chat material is essential. Therefore, whether pursuing girls or living, studying in thousands of books and taking Wan Li Road are your best choices.

2. Pay attention to the thinking mode of girls chatting.

From the perspective of gender, ways of thinking can be divided into two categories.

(1) Male thinking mode: abstract generalization, problem solving, motivation exploration, cause and effect establishment, reasoning and summary, purpose first and objectivity as the standard.

(2) Female way of thinking: concrete details, expressing feelings.

Describe the problem, pay attention to the past, be open and sure, forget the purpose, and take self as the standard.

Judging from the characteristics of the above types of thinking, male thinking is suitable for solving problems, while female thinking is more suitable for maintaining relationships. Therefore, in the process of chasing girls, we might as well adopt more female thinking. Otherwise, it is difficult to continue the topic or relationship with rational male thinking and perceptual female thinking.

3. Be good at listening, and get her approval by listening.

Many times, girls just want to seek the approval of the opposite sex in the process of communicating with the opposite sex, rather than exchanging opinions or expanding their ideas. Therefore, in the process of chasing girls, we must learn to listen and gain recognition from each other. You can empathize with others and bring you closer with the sense of substitution. Remember: whether it is face-to-face chat or telephone chat, three points are content, and seven points are tone and attitude!

Of course, you can also be humorous when listening to each other. Humorous men are what most women like. Chatting is an atmosphere, so in the process of chatting, we should keep the other party in a relaxed and happy state.