# Did your predecessor send you a message? Do you want the information sent by your predecessor back?

Did your predecessor send you a text message? Do you know why he sent you a message? Eight motives for texting you after breaking up.

If you want to know why your ex texted you after the breakup and how to reply, then you need to consider 8 things. Look at these eight "motivations", and you will know more about why your ex insisted on texting you.

1. Your ex felt guilty about something.

If he feels guilty about breaking up, he will send you a text message. This kind of situation usually happens after breaking up, usually only when you are cheated, disappear instead of breaking up with you, or do something very bad, such as canceling the wedding.

So in order to get rid of his guilt, your predecessor will send a message to correct his mistake or seek psychological comfort.

If he feels guilty, he may say:

sorry

You deserve better.

I wish I had never ......

2. Your predecessor is very boring.

This kind of information often happens after you have no contact. Many people go straight to party mode after breaking up. Being single is exciting. Once he has gone out several times, spent all his money and realized that all his friends are in love, he will start his life with me before you.

His performance after the breakup is like this, including (but not limited to):

L TV

computer game

I eat takeout

I work.

Then when he passes this stage, he will find that you are gone and everything is not so interesting. So I feel empty and bored.

Signs of texting you when he is bored include:

He sent text messages effortlessly.

He has nothing to say.

Don't contact often.

He only sends text messages when he is free.

He sent a text message, but he didn't want to meet.

Your ex may be expressing anger and resentment.

Many times, you will find that if your ex-boyfriend sends you an angry message, he will send you a better apology message in a few hours or days, and it may even become a cycle until his feelings begin to stabilize.

Are you confused? Did he do this on purpose? He doesn't even know what he wants, or your ex-boyfriend plays psychological warfare to confuse you, or keeps you away from what he really wants.

If you cheated him, or if you broke up with him, then your predecessor is most likely to send this message. Of course, there are some good news hidden here. If he sends a text message to express his anger, it means that he still has feelings for you to some extent.

Why? Because hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is!

If you receive such information, it is easy to identify, and the signs you are looking for are:

He will blame you for breaking up.

He seems very unhappy.

He said he never wanted to talk to you again.

He said he hated you.

He even insulted you.

4. Your ex wants to have sex with you.

Just because an ex-boyfriend wants to have sex doesn't mean he wants to get back together and won't make him fall in love with you.

If you have sex with your ex, it will also convince him that you are the kind of girl who sleeps with men casually. For a man, this is not an attractive quality. Men like casual sex, but they don't like casual girls!

If he wants to have sex with you, it means that your body is attractive to him, which is good news, but if you want to be his girlfriend again, what you really want is emotional attraction.

So remember, don't be a prisoner of sexual harassment by your boyfriend.

Signs that your ex just wants to have sex with you are:

He only sends text messages late at night.

He sent a text message when he was drunk.

He is so charming, or the word is sex.

He wants to exchange nude photos.

He asked you to go to his house.

Your ex wants to be friends with you.

You may receive this kind of information at any time. Breaking up doesn't necessarily mean you're upset now. He may want to be friends with you.

Signs that he wants to be friends with you include:

His talk is very practical.

He asked your advice to other women.

He sent you a message complaining about his problems.

He talks to you like one of them.

He said you were his friend.

He wants to see if you really give up and find a new one.

This kind of news may happen at any time. Your ex may see your circle of friends, and whenever he sees you smiling happily, he will feel this little sense of oppression. So to verify this, your ex will send a text message to check your real status. In his view, how can you be so happy, but he feels terrible.

The sign that he wants to know whether you are moving on is:

He asked if you found a new one.

He may try to make you jealous.

He mentioned your date.

He began to speak, but soon disappeared.

He seems nervous.

7. He wants to deal with the problems left between you.

If you live with your ex and have the same debts or property, your ex-boyfriend may send you a text message to make some arrangements.

If you have children, you will also receive this message, because your predecessor may want to arrange child support or visiting rights.

If your ex sends you this kind of text message, it's not good news, which means that he thinks the breakup is permanent at present.

Signs that you receive this kind of information are:

He only talks about bills, money and houses.

He just wants to discuss it with the children.

He doesn't want to say it to his face.

8. Your ex may really want you back.

I know this is the text that you all want to read. Ex-boyfriends can send such messages at any time during or after no contact.

Sometimes, if you break up because of a quarrel, your ex will take the initiative to find you and hope that you will get back together. This situation is more likely.

If your ex really wants to come back, you will find that he sends messages frequently, and he will spend a lot of time following you through your friends, family and social media.

If so, there will be the following signs:

Ask about your day

Mention talking to your friends or family.

Tell me about your circle of friends or Weibo.

He asked you to talk.

He said he had questions for you.

He tells you jokes.

He calls you by your pet.

He praised you.

He asked to get back together.