A stranger added me and kept asking me questions. When I didn’t reply, he sent me all kinds of emoticons. It’s so annoying.

You don’t want to chat with the other person but you keep replying to the other person. It seems that you are a kind-hearted person and you are particularly concerned about what others think of you, whether they are acquaintances or strangers.

I also have this kind of personality. There are many people on QQ and WeChat who don’t want to chat, have nothing to talk to, or are annoying, but I have never shown my impatience towards them and always pretended. Treat me as normal. Some people even often ask me for help in making things. They always keep saying that they will give me "labor fees" or treat me to dinner after the work is done. This woman has helped others countless times in the past ten years, but she has never received a penny." "Labor fee", I was rarely invited to dinner, and each meal cost no more than 200 yuan. At the same time, I earned more than 2,000 yuan even if I took orders from outside. In fact, I was really tired of these "friends" for a long time. , QQ WeChat contact me, I can pretend not to see it and not reply, but I can’t not see it every time, it will make people think that I do it on purpose, and if I don’t reply, they will call me, and I never do I won't answer the phone, and I won't take the initiative to hang up on others. This means that I have to agree to help after others say a few words.

A few months ago, I finally couldn’t bear it any more. A fellow from the same province who I had shared a house with five years ago asked me to help with making things. Once, but he repeatedly asked me to modify it. I have never faced such a difficult customer in the company. In the end, I blocked his WeChat, QQ and mobile phone contact information. To be honest, that was my life. It was the first time I blocked someone. After doing all that, although I would repeatedly think about whether that person would call me stingy or something, I also found that instead of caring about what others said about me, I would feel more like Smooth and comfortable feeling.

In addition, every time I receive those sales calls, I can always be persuaded to buy it. For this reason, I have purchased more than a dozen insurance policies in the past ten years, but most of them expired shortly after purchasing. It was cancelled, but there are still 3 copies left. The one with the longest payment time has been paying for 9 years.

And since I blocked someone for the first time, I have slowly begun to learn to "refuse." "Now, when I receive a sales call, I will no longer politely refuse the sales call for twenty minutes and half an hour like before. Instead, I will just hang up the phone if I don't want to. I also cleaned up WeChat QQ before, and there will no longer be any I deleted and blocked all the people I interacted with. I found that people with my personality don't need to keep too many contacts, because if I have trouble, I will find a way to solve it myself instead of asking for help. I only do it when there is really no other way. Asking for help from others, but only to relatively close friends and family members. There is really no need to ask for help from other so-called friends. Why should I ask for help if I have no friendship at all? And I get annoyed when people ask me for help, so I just delete them all.

So in the end, I advise you to refuse or block people if you don’t want to talk to them. It doesn’t matter if they talk about you behind your back. Anyway, you Can’t hear it again