How to reject an ambiguous suitor

1, the most popular: "You are a good man." Faced with the confession of people who don't like it, it is the choice of most people to issue a good card. There are n variants of "You are a good person", and the common template sentence is: "You are kind, but _ _ _". You can fill in any reason you can think of on the horizontal line, such as "I don't want to fall in love yet", "I can't give you happiness", "I want to ask my family" and "I always regard you as my brother/sister" ... This euphemism is suitable for easy-going suitors. 2, the most literary: "I don't want to make do" If you don't want to be too rude, you can choose a relative literary rejection. Once the dean confessed a girl, and the other party said something that made me wake up: "Do you want to be with someone who doesn't like you?" How euphemistic, how subtle, how leave no room, but also make people think deeply. This method is suitable for sentimental young artists. 3, the simplest: no reply, no contact, no appointment, no gift, after euphemistically expressing indifference to the other party, you can adopt this "four noes" principle and leave no thoughts to the other party at all. It's no use asking the other person to do anything. If you are cold to the end, the other person will naturally give up. This applies to indirect friends. 4, the most suitable: thank you for your like, I am honored, but _ _ _ _ "My mother said that too handsome men are unreliable." "You are so beautiful. If you are my girlfriend, I am not at ease. " "You are not my type." "Actually, I already know, thank you, it's my pleasure!" This kind of self-restraint has left enough face for the other party, and the refusal way that does not hurt the other party's self-esteem can make the image of the rejector tall and shiny, and make the other party feel that it is really good to like you! Yes! Eyes! Light! This kind of rejection is suitable for the confession of good friends or acquaintances, leaving room, and it will not be too simple. If the other party still refuses to give up after receiving such rejection, it is suggested to use method 3 instead. What should I not do when I refuse someone? 1, don't accept each other's gifts; 2. Don't look for TA when you are lonely; 3. Try not to ask TA for help. In fact, many people are willing to enjoy the treatment of being "loved" in the name of friends, because they don't know how to pay and want to get care and benefits, especially girls, just like being treated as a princess by their families since childhood, and they hope so after leaving their families. What they are looking for is someone who treats her like a princess all her life, and will not refuse temporary preferential treatment until this person appears. If the pursuer doesn't see through this, congratulations on capturing a spare tire. At the same time, the suggestion to the pursuer is that if the other person still doesn't love you after you have confessed (many times), but still maintains a distant relationship, you can invite TA to dinner and accept all the gifts. This can only show that TA doesn't like you, but likes your meals and gifts, and likes your care and love for TA. I suggest you see such feelings clearly as soon as possible, and don't focus on people who are not worth it. How to refuse ambiguous buyers 2 How to refuse buyers 1, and directly refuse when we meet some pursuers who like to pester and beat, if we don't like them, we will refuse them directly and decisively, and we don't like them ourselves, regardless of face. If we express it euphemistically or implicitly, we will not only fail to refuse, but also make others feel hopeful and will continue to attack you, so we will break his heart directly when we break it. 2. A tactful refusal may be excellent for some shy suitors, but they don't think they are their favorite type. For such suitors, we can politely refuse, because they are delicate and weak in heart, and direct refusal may hurt them, so we can find some excuses, such as: focusing on work now, temporarily ignoring personal problems, or I have a favorite object, and so on. And tactfully leave room and steps for each other. 3. Start with friends. In the face of many suitors, there may be one type that we like. We don't reject this type of suitor, but we should know how to accept it. We can choose a suitable time to communicate with each other, give both sides some time to think about this problem, or observe more. We can regard him as an ordinary friend and get to know each other from life, which is also responsible for ourselves or him. When you get married, you should keep a certain distance from a suitor. Don't have too much contact in life except work, keep a certain distance, so that the other party will feel that you are alienating him, thus achieving the purpose of indirect refusal. 2, don't play ambiguous, euphemistically refuse to get married, have your own family, in life and work, in line with the responsibility for the family, don't play too much ambiguous with the opposite sex, which will make the other party think that you are also interested in him. In the face of suitors, you can express yourself through communication, politely refuse, save face for everyone and make better friends in the future. 3, showing responsibility and attention to the family. Many times, suitors may come from work partners. In the face of suitors, he may refuse directly because he is embarrassed. In some company activities, he can take his lover with him, showing that the relationship between husband and wife is stable, respecting and caring for each other, so that the pursuers can retreat after knowing difficulties. If the pursuer really cares about you, he will bless you and give up the idea of pursuing. How to refuse an ambiguous suitor 3 How to politely refuse the suitor and send a good friend card to the other party. This kind of refusal is euphemistic, not only won't hurt the other party, but also can play the role of refusal. Sometimes, in the face of people who pursue us, we politely refuse a suitable way, because they like us, we don't like it and won't hurt them. Just politely refuse. Don't be ambiguous. Some people don't like pursuers, but they like to enjoy the feeling of being pursued. This kind of behavior is not good and must be put an end to. Ambiguous words can easily make the other party think that we are interested in him, and it is easy to misunderstand, and it will be embarrassing when we finally tear our faces. So, don't neither refuse nor accept, it will always be us who get hurt. Whether the accepted gift is returned. It depends on the suitor. If the other person is generous, you don't need it. If the other person is narrow-minded, you'd better return it. Don't be caught by the other party and speak ill of you behind your back. If the value of the gift is too high, return it. After all, it's for the person you like. If we refuse, we don't want any gifts from him. Don't treat people as spare tires. Since you don't like it, refuse it decisively. Don't take each other's love and care for us for granted. Don't try to use him as a spare tire. You know, no one wants to be a spare tire, and it will even hurt our behavior after being discovered. Therefore, in love, we must resolutely refuse people we don't like. Ask friends for help. If you really don't know how to refuse a suitor, please ask your friend to help you convey your meaning, thus avoiding the embarrassment that we are embarrassed to say. It's still a good way to refuse suitors through the help of friends. Through online media. Now the network communication is so developed, if you are embarrassed to refuse in person, you can make your meaning clear directly through WeChat, SMS, telephone and other means. It is easy to refuse through these methods, and many words are easy to say. Simple and quick. Tough attitude. When we meet someone who has clearly rejected each other, but still haunts us. This kind of person must not give any chance. It is too aggressive to refuse, but don't let him have any illusions. Don't have any contact with him after refusing, even if the other party keeps sending messages, don't take a reason. Treat such people with a tough attitude.