How to save an ex-girlfriend

Step one: get your girlfriend back. The last message is "I see, I wish you happiness". What many people often do after breaking up is to pester girls repeatedly. Now that the girl has decided to break up with you, she has lost confidence in you to a great extent in the short term, and your continued entanglement will only make her more disgusted. It is better to separate temporarily, give both sides some space to think, use time to dilute the unpleasantness before breaking up, and at the same time give yourself time to rearrange the state, return to the way that attracted her at the beginning, and find her again. If you don't know how to say it, you can say, "Thank you for your company these days. I'm glad you're here. I respect your decision to break up. I hope we can all meet the right person in life. " Remember, women are very emotional animals. Any rational views and ideas will become very harsh when they are angry. So don't try to convince her not to break up with you by theory. Only after she really broke up with you will she begin to think slowly about whether she did something wrong. Step 2: Save your girlfriend temporarily, and don't contact for half a month. This may be a bit difficult for you who just fell in love. But believe me, if you want her back, you must stick to it. To continue what I said earlier, at this time, girls are still bored with you, and everything about you will cause her disgust. Only by letting time dilute this unpleasant feeling can girls have the opportunity to "get to know you again" and fall in love with you again. So don't think about sending her a text message, praising her, sending a circle of friends related to her, and don't even think about creating a chance to meet each other. Basically, she won't hear from you at all! At this time, she began to think about "how did you suddenly disappear" and "why didn't you contact her at all after separation". She began to think about the process of your daily love and the cracks between you. Yes, this is what we want! The third step is to save your girlfriend and look radiant. To put it bluntly, it is a psychological war to recover an ex-girlfriend. Both sides hope to paralyze each other's lives through their own departure. The more decadent you are after breaking up, the more you push yourself to the edge of the cliff, and the harder it is to get her back. So don't mess up your life. Think about it, a successful and excellent man is bound to have a woman around him, so how can he give up his life completely because of a woman's departure? So if you want her back, you want to get back to your old lifestyle, let her find that "your life is still wonderful without her", keep inner peace, and (pretend) be completely unaffected by the breakup. Step 4: Get rid of all the bad habits and try to remember what she doesn't like about you. Smoking? Drinking? Playing games? Try to recall the complaints she often made when you were together. Now that we have broken up and want to make it back, we must get rid of these bad habits and let her know a brand-new you again, otherwise it is very likely that we will repeat the same mistakes again for the same reason! Try to recall the way and attitude you pursued her, and get that charming man back, which will naturally attract her again. Step 5: Be a brand-new person. After getting rid of bad habits, it's best to change it a little, so that she can feel that you who attracted her at first are back, but with a little difference, she wants to know "the new you". After all, mystery is an important part of attracting girls. It should be noted that you are chasing her now, which is equivalent to starting a brand-new relationship. She decided to leave the old you, so it is more important for her to feel that this is a brand-new relationship than rekindling the old one. If you need specific changes, you can consider changing your hair style, dressing style, or changing your favorite sports. In short, you should change your lifestyle and give her a new expectation. Step 6: Ask her friends and family to help. Remember, don't talk about the shortcomings of your ex-girlfriend after breaking up. On the one hand, it's annoying, on the other hand, these so-called shortcomings may be just your thoughts. Moreover, if you want her friends and family to help you persuade her to make up with you, an effective measure is to gradually spread the message "She is an excellent girl" in the life circle, count her advantages and intimate places, and then sigh with regret and say "If only I could marry her", which shows that I already know that I am wrong and have got rid of my bad habits. If I were given another chance, I would definitely give it. Such content reaches the ears of her friends or family, and it is difficult for them to speak for you. In addition, she has begun to think about your love process repeatedly, and may even take the initiative to forgive you and get back together with you! Step 7: Save your girlfriend. After all the hardships, I finally re-established my image and decided to ask her out. But please note that it will be easier to ask her out as a friend first and pretend that you have never been together. Don't mention the past, give yourself another chance to catch up with her, as long as the first few steps are done, it will be much easier to catch up with her again! How to save the ex-girlfriend 2 How to save the ex-girlfriend 1 if the emotional intelligence is too low? Pretend not to care, even if the inner turmoil is like clothes in the washing machine, don't let your girlfriend know. Why is this happening? Because if you are depressed, your girlfriend will probably laugh it off instead of changing her mind. Therefore, if you want to save your girlfriend, you must pretend you don't care and make yourself smile. If you are bold, you can try to really enjoy a good time. This process can make people happier than before. Anyway, don't stand in the corner alone. Don't be jealous of your girlfriend's new friend. Jealousy is an emotion that should not be pursued, because jealousy will make a person at a loss. If a person is always jealous, then this person is always in fear and anxiety, and no one will like to be with such a person. Moreover, it actually implies that your girlfriend wants to control her, but no one likes to be restricted. So let yourself look at your girlfriend's new interpersonal circle peacefully. 3. Try to be humorous. Most women like humorous people, so if you have time, you can learn how to tell some small jokes, take the essence, discard the dross and accept the humor. You should learn to filter out some inappropriate topics and learn to be confident.