After the divorce, I took my daughter back to her family, and my brother and sister-in-law treated each other coldly. What should I do?

I met my husband on a blind date. Husband's family condition is not bad, but his appearance is a little poor. I don't like him very much. But parents say they are not good at it, so what else to choose? If you can meet a good condition, just hurry. Our family conditions are not good, and I have a brother who is married. My parents and sister-in-law have always wanted me to marry a richer family so that I can help my family in the future.

After half a year, my parents said that since we can get along well, let's get married quickly. We are not young. Actually, when it comes to getting married, I still can't bear to part with it. I think it's too hasty for at least two people to get to know each other well before getting married. But my mother told me that when I get married, I will gradually understand that my feelings will get better and better.

I feel like a beaten duck, and I can't express myself at all. I know my parents and sister-in-law just think that my husband's family conditions are so rich that they can help them when they have something to rely on, but they won't ask my advice at all. Mom said they were doing it for my own good. I've been a man with no opinion since I was a child. I have always been what my parents said since I was a child, and I seldom go against their opinions. Later, at the urging of my parents, I married my husband in a daze.

After marriage, we live with our in-laws, who are not easy to get along with. In order to live a better life in my husband's family, I took the initiative to undertake all the housework at home after marriage. Although my mother-in-law is still high above me, she has not made things difficult for me. My husband and I are not close, very dull. My husband gets along well with my mother's family. Every time my parents and my brother-in-law ask her husband for help, he will help.

My parents often say in my ear that I have found a good husband and should cherish it. I know they can always get help from my husband's family and want to rely on it. I listened, too. I think now that we are married, we should live a down-to-earth life. After half a year, I was pregnant, and my mother-in-law's attitude towards me changed a lot. Don't let me do housework, take care of me wholeheartedly. I am still grateful to my mother-in-law for seeing her like this.

I gave birth to a daughter when I was pregnant in October. I didn't know that my parents-in-law and husband preferred sons to daughters and ignored me and my daughter. I am sad. I don't know how many times I cried this month. On the day of my daughter's full moon, my husband, who didn't have deep feelings for me, asked me for a divorce at the instigation of her mother-in-law. I looked at my husband doubtfully and asked, I just gave birth to your child. Are you going to divorce me? Do you have a conscience?

Mother-in-law said, our family conditions are so good, why should we marry you? We won't have a son yet. The husband said, my mother just wants a grandson. I have to be filial to them. Let's divorce. Looking at such a family, I am extremely chilling. Thinking of my mother-in-law's harshness and dislike for her daughter, I finally gave up my car. I told my husband that I would divorce if I divorced, and I would raise my daughter myself. Soon after, I went through the divorce procedure with my husband, and I didn't want to stay with such a cold family.

After the divorce, I took my daughter back to my mother's house and learned about my divorce from my husband. The whole family was bombed. Sister-in-law said, you are melodramatic, but live a good life. After the divorce, I took a drag bottle back to my parents' house for an idle meal. Who will support you? My mother also blames me for not getting divorced. Looking at them, I'm sorry that you accused me word for word. They never ask me how I'm doing, but ask me if I have money and can help them. Now that my husband and I are divorced, I can't help them, only blame me.

My daughter and I have nowhere to go, so we have to stay at our parents' house. Brother and sister-in-law treat each other coldly these days and never say a good word. On this day, my mother found me and told me, Xiaomei, take the children to rent a house outside. Your father and I live with your brother and sister-in-law. Your brother and sister-in-law can't control you, and we can't help it.

Mom's words made me burst into tears. Yes, the woman is divorced, and even your mother's house is no longer your retreat. Looking at the attitude of my closest family towards me, I am really chilling. Do they have no affection in their eyes, only value? Instead of watching coldly at home, I decided to take my daughter away. No matter how bitter it is, it's better than staying in a home without warmth, don't you think?