How to refuse a gift from a male colleague

This situation in the office really annoys women, but in that case, girl, in my opinion, you can tell him in words that you don't want to be a man-woman relationship with him when he sends you a text message to talk about life problems. For example, he asks when you will get married, or what kind of man you are going to marry. You can answer, if I get married, I will definitely invite you over. We are.

Or, when he is nice to you, such as inviting you to dinner, you can say that you are not available, no matter how many times you invite him, he will understand over time.

He invited you to dinner, but you said you were not available. He will say when you are free next time, but you don't know. We'll contact you when you are free.

Men will understand.