Don't return to WeChat in seconds, but please don't ignore it.

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Have you ever had such an experience?

I sent a message to my friend, but I couldn't get a reply, and then I waited silently. I think she may be busy now, and I haven't seen the news for a while, but suddenly I found that she just sent a circle of friends and took the initiative to praise others.

This feeling of being ignored is really unbearable, just like a dumb person eating coptis chinensis, and he can't say anything about it.

If we immediately reply to the message and accuse her, she may not reply after reading it, which will also affect our feelings. If you do nothing, you feel really wronged.

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Speaking of this topic, girlfriend Xiaoxi has a lot to say.

When I was a junior, Xiaoxi was the branch secretary of the club and managed the affairs of the club together with President Xiao Lu. Shortly after the start of school, the teacher explained a task that needed two people to negotiate and organize.

This activity is very large, and many teachers and classmates from other schools will participate. If it is not done well, it is not only a personal and social problem, but also represents the face of the school.

The teacher emphasized the importance of this activity, and Xiaoxi and Lu Xiao both said that they would try their best to run this activity well. So Xiaoxi deliberately found time to discuss specific matters with the path.

I sent a WeChat and didn't respond. I made a WeChat call and nothing happened. Sent a short message without any changes; I made a phone call, but nobody answered.

Xiaoxi is full of sadness from ambition to depression.

We agreed to do it together, but we didn't even answer a word. Even if we reply "I was busy", it would be better to have an explanation. But saying nothing and doing nothing is in itself disrespectful to others.

In desperation, Xiaoxi had to undertake all the work alone, sleeping for almost four hours a day, and she was as busy as a bee.

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I also have a deep understanding of wechat reply.

Before May Day, the company wants to organize a small activity and needs to determine the number of participants. I sent a message on the WeChat group, asking everyone to reply before 12 that night. However, few respondents.

So, I sent a private letter to everyone, telling them: reply whether you participate or not, and I can count the final number of people here. The reply received is not satisfactory. I think they may be busy.

However, when red envelopes were distributed in the group, those who didn't reply to the message silently received red envelopes, and I felt particularly angry at that time.

Wechat replies to a message, which was originally a very small thing, and can be completed with a finger. However, some people always turn a blind eye to the news and are indifferent to the needs of others.

Later, some of them apologized to me and said, "I was too busy to see it", "I forgot to reply" and so on.

If I didn't reply to the message in time because I was really busy, I can totally understand, but if I have seen the message but stubbornly don't reply, it will really hurt.

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Sometimes, we may encounter some news that is difficult to answer or we don't like, which is understandable, but this situation is rare.

Generally speaking, only three kinds of people will send you WeChat: relatives, friends and colleagues. Are people who really live around us.

People who are willing to send you messages on their own initiative must be people who really want to share their daily lives with you and take you seriously. I came with joy, but I couldn't even get the most basic reply. This friendship will fade away with time until it is completely exhausted.

Of course, we can't take "second back to WeChat" as the only criterion to measure the relationship between two people, but it is at least a very important reference factor.

Whether the message returns in seconds or not can basically explain whether the other party is busy; But if a person doesn't even want to reply to WeChat messages, then your position in his mind will probably not be very high.

If you receive a WeChat, you don't have to reply every second, but please do, because there is a caring person waiting for you at the other end of the phone.

Jane Baoyu's writing group punched in on the twelfth day.