How to deal with high emotional intelligence when sending messages?

Sending messages that don't respond to high EQ can be handled as follows: don't send messages to the other party frequently, don't wait for the other party intentionally, show your attitude, confirm the purpose of chatting, and distinguish whether the other party is intentional or not.

1, don't send messages to each other often.

When you were chatting, the other person disappeared after chatting. But she didn't tell you why At this time, you have to understand whether the other party doesn't want to chat with you or something is really blocked.

2. Don't wait for each other on purpose.

In this case, you must know why the other person ignores you. Don't waste your time waiting for others. This will not only affect your own affairs, but also affect your own thoughts. Ignoring you means ignoring you. It's no use waiting.

3. show your attitude.

In any case, it is impolite not to reply to other people's news. You can just send "I'm sad and angry because you didn't return my message …" to let her know your attitude. A person with attitude will not be treated casually.

4. Confirm the purpose of the chat.

Two people must have started chatting for some purpose. If you have something urgent to find the other party, since the other party doesn't reply to your message, do you think finding her can still solve your problem? If two people just chat to kill time, then you can continue to share your own things with her.

5. Identify whether the other party is interested.

Because two people are in two spaces, you can't know exactly what kind of environment the other person is in, so you can't ask the other person to return every second. It's best to know if the other party did it on purpose.

The above is the processing method of sending messages without returning to high emotional intelligence.