We don't like our daughter's boyfriend. How do we tell our daughter?

At this time, you can't just tell her how bad this boy is. You should know that girls' self-esteem is still very strong, and it is absolutely hurtful for someone you like to be denied by others. Besides, girls who fall in love are stupid. The more you oppose her, the more frustrated she may be, and then it will backfire. The best way is to guide the daughter to face the boy's problems step by step and gently. Nothing parents say during love will have any influence on their children. It is better to let them get along well first. After a long time, the problem will gradually emerge. At this time, if the boy's problem is mentioned, the daughter should not react too violently.

It is normal for people to fall in love with a person who is not very good in this life. We can't stop the child from walking because he is afraid of falling. Sometimes he doesn't know how to avoid the pit until he falls down in pain. Last Spring Festival, an uncle's daughter in the village took her boyfriend home. At first glance, the uncles felt that the boy was unstable. Because he was not satisfied with lunch, the air pressure became lower and lower after a meal. As soon as the boy left, the girl quarreled with her parents, and both sides held their own opinions, which became more and more fierce. Finally, the girl slammed the door and left.

A year later, the contradiction between the girl and the boy began to appear, and finally the girl returned home. I was deeply touched by this incident. Parents love their children lest they get hurt, but you can't always protect them. Let them experience some things. All you have to do is give them a warm hug after they are injured.

Many daughters are willing to listen to their parents' opinions. They bring their boyfriends home in the hope of getting their parents' approval or listening to their parents' opinions. If your opinion is not accepted, don't object for the time being. All you have to do is give the child a shoulder to lean on when he is crying, and don't let him feel sad because of your opposition when he is happy. It is also a precious memory to have a good love when you are young. Young people are not afraid of harm, they are afraid of regret.