Is it okay for the daughter-in-law not to attend the funeral?

Now that you have become a wife. You are a member of other people's family, morally. However, there is no law that says you can't attend.

No matter how high your position is, you are a government official. Or company executives. Is it a civil servant or a private enterprise boss? Filial piety and courtesy are necessary. Father passed away. We must take an active part. Proactive. Let everyone think that you are very sensible. I think you are a virtuous daughter-in-law The whole funeral should be sad from beginning to end.

No matter what reason you have, you can't refuse to participate. If there is a rift between you and your husband now. Currently in the cold war period. Hibernate, but you are still husband and wife. You are still a daughter-in-law after the old man dies. You must attend. Your name will be engraved on the family tree and tombstone.

You are the hostess of the future family, so you should establish a good image of yourself. On this occasion, you can show your generosity, wisdom and cleverness.

If you are really sick and bedridden. I really can't come After the situation is clear. Everyone will understand. Plus, you are usually virtuous and filial. People won't blame you. If you are unreasonable at ordinary times, you will have a reputation. Even if there's a good reason this time. No one will believe you. I will only accuse you of deliberately not coming back.

If you have a bad relationship with your in-laws, don't go to your in-laws' house at all. Unfamiliar to in-laws. In front of my in-laws, my father-in-law had a hard time, but you ignored him. Don't go home at this time People will know you have a bad conscience.

If your father dies this time, you deliberately don't come back. I guess your marriage has come to an end Your husband will never forgive you. You are a big unfilial. Shame your husband. Just wait for a divorce.

So, whatever your reason is, the old man is dead. How many complaints. So wronged. You must attend. You should take the initiative, establish a good image, establish a good prestige and win a good reputation. If your husband doesn't respect you in the future, he will be condemned by everyone. So you must attend your father's funeral.