The reason why a girl didn't return my text messages.

In today's society, it has become a common social phenomenon that girls don't return information. So, how to interpret the behavior of not replying to messages?

In fact, there are four situations in which girls don't return your information:

She may really be in trouble. Not everyone is always free. There are always accidents. For example, when you have something to do, don't you have time to reply to other people's messages? So, you don't have to ask, it's the same as boys, everyone has the right to be busy.

02 reserved. Some girls are reserved, or come from a scholarly family, and have a little attachment to love. She may be a little interested in you, but she won't be obvious and won't take the initiative to chat with you. However, she will always pay attention to your dynamics and circle your friends with praise. That's what reserved girls do. She likes you, but she won't tell you After all, girls are like this, so sometimes, you need to observe and find out carefully, and then take the initiative to make some actions.

Your chat is so boring that she doesn't want you to talk. You are always talking about topics that interest you and that you are good at. Little imagine, girls are not interested at all. For example, she is the kind of person who doesn't like playing games, but you have been talking about customs clearance skills; She is the kind of person who loves games, but you keep saying that you love reading and your reading experience. My sister is not interested in your topic, and no matter how enthusiastic she is, she will become indifferent. In the end, she can only cooperate with you: "Oh, well, ok". If she is bored, she won't reply directly.

Don't like you. There are many such girls. She chats with you not because she likes you, but because she is bored. In a girl's heart, there is an answer, according to the importance of you in her heart. Yes, she teases you when she has time, and doesn't bother you when she doesn't. At first, she may reply to you often out of politeness, but after a long time, she forgets etiquette and is too lazy to reply to you, because she doesn't like you at all. If so, I advise you not to bother her again. It's important to do your own thing.

Then someone wants to ask, how do I know what kind of situation she is?

Usually, male friends need to take a second test on the girls they value more. If you think you like this girl and want to continue to pursue her, then you have to verify her behavior twice. The so-called secondary verification is to exclude the possibility of 0 1 and 02 I mentioned above.

You need to send a message different from the previous topic to the girl every 12 hours and wait for her reply. If he doesn't reply for more than six hours, it can prove that he deliberately didn't reply to your message, not "forgetful" or reserved.

This is actually very understandable. If a girl is forgetful, why does she forget to reply to your message instead of forgetting others? Did you forget to reply to your message twice in a row because of forgetfulness? This possibility is extremely low. If possible, it is that girls have brain memory and cognitive diseases and need to go to the encephalopathy department or neurology department of the local hospital for treatment.

Research shows that as long as a girl doesn't reply within three hours, 90% netizens think it is intentional; If you don't reply to the message within 6 hours, 100% can be considered as intentional, or the girl "has an accident" and loses consciousness or personal freedom (injury, coma due to illness, etc. ).

How should the second verification begin?

Let's talk about two common mistakes:

1, tell the girls to reply "Are you busy?" Give me a reply when you are finished. " This way will interfere with what girls are doing, leave a bad impression that you are clingy and have low emotional intelligence, and won't feel that you are caring for her intimately.

2. Ask the girl what she is doing after. Many boys will judge "the girl is busy and has no time to come back" as "she is not coming back now." Then ask the girl what she is busy at the beginning of the next chat, which will give her a sense of oppression. Girls will naturally feel a sense of blame and embarrassment when they answer your questions. For example:

M: What are you busy with this afternoon? Never answered me.

W: The project team was in a meeting. I haven't checked my cell phone. I'm sorry

When the girl answered your question, the air suddenly solidified. The girl said that she was in a meeting and didn't look at her mobile phone, which is equivalent to admitting that she was busy at the time and didn't reply to you afterwards. You can ask the girl what she is doing out of concern. But in order to avoid the embarrassment of this atmosphere, after answering you, girls can only keep high cold, consistent with the previous message.

The correct way should be to make girls tell the truth by teasing or cold reading to avoid embarrassing atmosphere.

Teasing: for example, the reflex arc is so long.

Cold reading: for example, I guess you must have been robbed in the afternoon and taken to be Mrs. Zhazhai.

If you send another message and she doesn't return your message, it must be 03 or 04. This is enough to prove that your position in her heart is not high enough to attract her to reply to your message, so you don't have to go to her again.

It is the most basic courtesy to reply to other people's messages. If she has been perfunctory about your news for a long time, it is enough to prove that you are of low importance in her heart, or that the girl's character has a big problem. Such a person is not only unworthy of your pursuit, but even friends don't need to be friends. With so many busy people in the world, people will still reply to your message in time or in time.