12 My first boyfriend who broke up with me sent me a message asking how I was doing. Should I go back? (Please ask the married lady to answer)

First of all, 12 has been out of touch since it broke up? If so, there will be many cases where I suddenly send you a message. Out of politeness, I think I should reply to the message. As for the content of the reply, no matter what the facts are, I just need to simply say: well, life is really good! Next, if the other party continues to send messages asking to meet, or have dinner and chat together, you can say: OK, I'll see when my husband is free, and we can meet and chat (if we really want to meet, I personally think you should bring your husband); If the other party just keeps sending messages, and the message content is a bit excessive, then you can stop replying to the message immediately, and then tell your husband the specific situation so that he can understand.