My girlfriend said I was a warm man, but I didn't take the initiative to chat with her.

If your girlfriend tells you that I want to be Wangwang Snow Cake tonight, I think he must like it and want to eat Wangwang Snow Cake. You should buy it for her in time. What if the boy doesn't contact her actively? Should I take the initiative to disown him or choose to leave him? Girls are always particularly entangled in such moments. The following small series teaches you to analyze the psychology of this man.

There is such a man in life who doesn't take the initiative, refuse or be responsible. You may have experienced a hard chase in the early stage, or it may be because of your love and desire, two of a kind.

However, if you don't take the initiative after determining the relationship, he won't take the initiative to contact you. Phone calls, text messages and WeChat are all initiated by you, but he will reply patiently.

I feel that he is meticulous and considerate when I get along with him. For a moment, you always feel that he loves you. Over time, you start to be manic, crying and emotional.

You gave, but you didn't get the enthusiasm you deserved. When your face is hot, he is always cold, put out the fire in your heart. You even suspect that you are not a girlfriend at all.

If you meet such a man, congratulations, he doesn't love you so much, otherwise he is a master of picking up girls at arm's length. Good men are really hard to meet, but many good men are actually trained by good women. When you give them fertile soil, they can sprout and thrive.

Not taking the initiative, refusing, and being irresponsible are men's favorite tricks: just like playing games with a little boy when he was a child, he will destroy it no matter how naughty he is. In the end, the adult ended up, and he was not responsible. After being scolded, he was instructed to wipe his tears and continue to be naughty. This is his nature.

There are not many good people in charge. If you meet them, please cherish them. If you don't meet them, don't blame fate. Ask the married male colleagues around you how many of them are willing to get married. Seeing through this, you won't wipe your nose and scold love rat, while wiping your tears and begging not to break up, will you?

If he doesn't contact you, why do you contact him? When a man is playing games and enjoying movies, your calls and text messages are automatically judged as "harassment".

In other words, if your pursuer is crazy about you on Weibo and WeChat, it will always be a few words of caring and attentive, and there is no nutrition. Will you feel bored over time?

Are you afraid of him leaving? How many people you love are bachelors? He has no money, no car, no date and no good skin. When he looks around and finds that he can't find anything better, he will naturally come back to you.

What about girls in an ambiguous period?

First, you should pay more attention to yourself. You can spend more time and energy managing your own image, and don't always concentrate on guessing each other's thoughts. Once the other person does something, the whole person moves with it, as if he is the hair that "pulls one hair and moves the whole body".

Even if he doesn't show any interest in you at a certain moment, for example, he doesn't take the initiative to chat with you, and he doesn't reply to your message enthusiastically. You don't have to show too much anxiety or even ask him.

When you put more energy into yourself, you will unconsciously find yourself more beautiful, and it will be much easier for you to attract the people you love.

Secondly, you will hint at him. For example, you will occasionally flirt or discharge with him, or rely on him in some things to make him feel that you are available. Then he will have the motivation to pursue you actively.

If you don't take the initiative to contact him, you will give him a cold face all day, as if you don't want to talk to him. Even if he is a little interested in you at first, he will give up later because of your indifferent attitude.

Because there are so many good women in the world, why should he ask for it? In relationships, it is easy for men to find shortcuts, not that you have to.