Will you send group New Year greetings messages?

I forget that there was a time when text messages replaced letters and many walks in the streets, erasing feelings. From then on, there was a touch of sadness! I was also young, so I was not spared from being assimilated and joined the group of New Year blessing messages. As a literary young man, in order to show that he has poems and books, and is so talented that he can fly three thousand feet down, he deliberately dabbled extensively, discussed the past and present, and looked at China and foreign countries. He worked for several days to develop his own special New Year's greeting message, and then sent it in groups. , but, so what? .

Now, WeChat has replaced text messages. The reason is that text messages are charged, 1 cent per text, but what about WeChat? It’s free. It’s free. In those years, my Nokia feature phone was filled with text messages from family and friends. If I wanted to collect more text messages, I had to delete them first. And every time I delete a message, I will struggle endlessly, because every message is precious, every message is full of warmth and memories, and every message is reluctant to delete...

From time to time, I will dig out Those messages, regaining those weights, regaining those temperatures, regaining those true feelings...

In recent years, my mobile phone has been upgraded from a feature phone to a smart phone, and it continues to be used in accordance with "Moore's Law" Updates and upgrades make it more powerful: the capacity of the SMS inbox has also increased from 50 to nearly countless messages, but except for occasional messages from various service providers and information platforms, the SMS inbox is empty most of the time. From time to time, I would wonder if the text messaging function on my phone was broken...

Even so, deep down in my heart, I started to refuse more and more, started to feel disgusted, and didn't want to complain. It’s just that a long time ago, I stopped sending group New Year greeting messages.

The New Year's greeting cards that were popular in my childhood are no longer popular, and are even hard to find, and the fullness of heart that is carefully considered every stroke has gradually diminished. Instead, no matter who the other party is, compile or copy a message of New Year greetings and send it out in a group, so that it can cope with the ever-changing situation. The main function of New Year greeting messages has also been downgraded from expressing a specific close relationship to maintaining a relationship, from "You are my important person" to "I haven't forgotten you yet."

Nowadays, everyone is under increasing pressure to survive, and the pace of life is getting faster and faster. We are usually busy and have no time to communicate. Taking advantage of the Spring Festival when we have money, leisure and reasons, we send group New Year blessing messages just to make people bubble. To create a sense of presence, it's like someone who has been immersed in the group for a long time suddenly surfaces: "HI, dears, although I'm usually not here, I'm always here, and I'm still thinking about you, don't forget me!" Or: " Didn't you expect that? I still have your mobile phone number/WeChat account, please contact me if you have anything to do." This is the subtext of the group New Year greetings message, and then continue diving. Just imagine, more than half of the 1,000 New Year greetings messages you receive are all different and similar, and there are still some that you don’t know who sent them, and they have a overwhelming sense of sameness and copying. Will you continue to read them? How many friends can you remember who sent you the same New Year greeting messages? The most interesting thing is those cute babies that are self-defeating. They are obviously sent by Xiao Wang, but they are signed by Xiao Li. They send blessings without changing their names. Isn’t that interesting? I believe that, more or less, you have received similar information, right?

As the saying goes, don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. These New Year greetings that are mass-produced by mass-sending assembly lines may actually feel rude to the other party, or the other party may feel that your New Year greeting message is not heartfelt. Not sincere. Practical experience tells me: sending New Year greeting messages in groups is like warming yourself by the fire, that is, it is hot on one side! Therefore, I no longer send group New Year greeting messages for social networking. During the holidays, you should relax, reunite with your family, relatives and friends and enjoy the joy. But I know that many people are very tired during the holidays, because just replying to the New Year blessing messages sent by the group will cause hand cramps. I don’t hope that my New Year greeting message will cause you more trouble than blessing, waste your time in deleting it, and fail to bring you value.

The mass New Year greeting messages are just like the popular "Hello, I am hello, everyone". We come and go together to create a feeling of missing each other and sincere blessings, which is more accurate and explicit. Call it an "illusion". If you also think that the New Year greeting messages sent in groups do not have much "sincerity", then please do not send them to other friends in groups. In this way, you save yourself trouble and won't disturb other people. As the saying goes, don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you, right? You must know that when you really need help, whether others will take action does not depend on whether you send New Year greeting messages in groups. It really doesn't matter whether you send them in groups or not.

We may not understand these principles, but most of our friends still persist in sending New Year blessing messages in groups every year. Why? As for network resources, I used to believe, like most of my friends, that "networks are money networks." Everyone likes money, and naturally they all like connections. So hearing about connections is equivalent to hearing about money. Naturally, you will be excited, and you will be gearing up involuntarily and uncontrollably, with your eyes shining! What exists may not necessarily be reasonable, but at least there is a market and space! It is definitely not by chance that mass New Year greeting messages start to spread unstoppably. Even smart people who think they have seen everything in the world will still subconsciously create their sense of security with "how many friends do I have" and "I know them". Who, who, who" is proud of.

Socializing requires people who are well-matched. To put it simply, it means an approximately equal exchange of resources. If you are not in the same class, you cannot be a true friend. Therefore, it is ineffective to use group New Year blessing messages to manage social networking.

In the 2014 Spring Festival Gala, singer Hao Yun composed and sang a song "I won't reply to the group messages". Many people were deeply moved by the lyrics:

Graduating from college I bought a mobile phone

I looked pretty good at that time

From then on, New Year’s Eve

was filled with all kinds of sensational New Year greeting messages

I was so moved that I almost shed tears

Suddenly I found that the name of the person signing the payment was wrong

It turned out that this was a group message

You even forgot After changing the suffix

I suddenly felt that the Chinese New Year was boring

It was like drinking a bowl of warm boiled water

How could he be so awesome

I really want to give this man a slap

No matter who you are

I won’t reply to the group message

It’s not that I don’t give you face

I really feel too tired

No matter who you are

I won’t reply to the group message

This is really not a matter of face

I just miss the real thing

Mengbao, what do you think of Hao Yun’s singing? Are there any cries in the lyrics?