A letter to an ex-boyfriend

1, it must not be precious after it is obtained. How can people be so hypocritical?

Ex-boyfriend, even if I don't like you, I don't want to see you again.

It's so hot in summer that the temperature reaches 39. But why am I cold and sad?

4. One night while driving, you sent me a message saying that there was good news and bad news, and then told me that you would come to Deyang to see me. That night, the style was soft and cool, and the night was like water. Because of your news, my thoughts are infinitely extended.

I will remember those years all my life, because you owe me money. You said to me that friends talk about money and hurt their feelings. But I don't treat you as a friend.

6. Your food is lovely and easy to satisfy with children. The difference is that you want to drink some beer. In fact, it has always been a pity that you only ate fried prawns once, because when you came back from Chengdu that day, I misunderstood what you meant by wanting to eat prawns, so I really hope you can come back and finish all the unfinished things with you.

7. The sweet words we talked on the phone before you came. Over the years, I have walked many roads, bridges and clouds, but I have only loved one person.

8. You sent a message on the train saying that you want to eat crabs. Like a child, I feel countless gentleness in my heart, just for you. ......

9. You sit in my easy chair, I sit next to you, and we scribble each other's names in our notebooks. Now, my love is a forbidden note, on the repressed strings. ...

10 After all, we have been together for so many years, and I hope you can change, understand and respect the people around you. I hope you can be happy too. It's been so long, and my resentment towards you is disappearing little by little. I think one day I can't remember you, then I really forget you completely.

1 1, ex-boyfriend Listen, if you dare to get married, I will dare to attend your wedding in a wedding dress.

12 Honey, you kissed me. I was a little flustered. I didn't expect it so soon. But now, my sweetness has left me to you, and we can all explain to youth. However, after many years, I will still try to see myself turn around.

13, to be honest, I have a lot of time to imagine our reunion. Not because I still have feelings for you, but because I want you to see me now. What makes you think you must be the best person for me in the world? People won't know how to cherish me? I'm sorry I let you down now. I found a good man who put me in my heart to love! ! He is not much better than you. Honest and kind people, superior family background and good moral cultivation are beyond your imagination.

14, the other half is lying on the pillow. The protagonist in the dream is not himself. He has never appeared in the dream, but he thinks of his ex-boyfriend, hehe!

15, ex-boyfriend and girlfriend's wife made up. Haha, this joke is good.

16, I just enjoy that sadness in extreme sadness. Sorry, that's what I like.

17, we can be proud, sad, persistent and wild, because we are young and ignorant.

18, the three ugliest women in my eyes: rivals of good sisters, current girlfriends of ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends of current boyfriends.

19, no matter how you left in the past, you only remember good feelings, miss the days of holding hands, and leave sad tears. I wish you a pleasant journey.

20. It's ten o'clock. Too soon. I remember the last time you left the railway station. Perhaps, on a certain day of a certain year, we happened to meet, and you pointed to a woman beside me and said that I was married. I will smile and turn around like now. You can't see my tears.

If you care about your ex-boyfriend

1, whether you are happy recently, whether you are working hard, whether your friends are close, whether your lovers are sincere, if everything goes well, raise your hand and draw a love, and turn it into persistence in the sky. I wish you happiness forever.

2. If you don't say forever, who can promise the future? All we can grasp is the local feelings at that time. But life is made up of countless now, and every moment is forever.

3, a long way, you and I meet, cherish the rare fate of the past, silently bless, kiss greetings, tell each other to take care today.

4. Snowflakes all over the sky are flying notes, with thoughts, expectations and blessings, short messages and warmth. In this cold day, I hope that warmth can fill the whole winter.

5. Every petal carries my sincere blessing, gentle care, continuous blessing and sound greeting. Please send a breeze. May flowers and green leaves accompany you and decorate your beautiful life. May you be happy forever!

6, money is not enough for a lifetime, only health is the wealth of your life! Please pay attention to prevent SARS when going out on business, wear a mask, drink more water and eat more vitamins. May good people be safe all their lives.

7. Know how to cherish, and don't miss the stars at night after losing the sun during the day.

8, there is a distance called far, but there is something called fate; There is a feeling called missing, and there is a concern called silence; There is a man on the horizon, and his blessing is just around the corner. I hope you are happy every day!

9. It takes 3 seconds for a meteor to cross, 1 day for the moon to rise, 1 year for the earth to rotate, 24 hours for missing someone and a lifetime for loving someone, but it only takes 1 second to say a kind word: Take care! It's cold, don't catch a cold!

10, turn countless thoughts into infinite blessings in my heart, silently pray for you, and wish you health and happiness!

1 1. Don't imagine what he should be like. What we really love is often far from what we think we will fall in love with.

12, when the first ray of sunshine in the morning illuminates the earth, I breathe fresh air, and the breeze blows on my face, so comfortable that I can't help praying: May you be happy today!

13, look; It's cold again; Listen; That wind is carrying ice! Give; This is a scarf for you. A warm scarf brings you warm blessings in cold weather.

14, don't pursue appearance, it's easy to deceive people; Don't pursue practicality, it's easy to lose, but pursue a Rolex with diamonds, at least now you can smile!

15, the weather is getting cold. I want to know your news from far away. Do you care about your health and the stress of life and work? I can't replace you. Send a few words of concern. Don't forget to keep warm and put on clothes when it's cold!

Let the ex-boyfriend see the heartache.

Everyone has a special lover. One phone call can keep me awake all night. A message can affect my mood for a month, but what should I do? I missed it. I can't go back. Cherish the present.

Let the ex-boyfriend see the heartache.

First, it feels like this. Once it is big, it will be commercialized. Netease cloud, which didn't even have a music package before, has come to everything now.

2. Before you get married, you are heaven, but after you get married, you are nothing. Only blame yourself for being blind. I wanted to find someone who was generally good to myself, but later I found someone who had nothing to do with it. The main reason is that he is not good to you, hehe.

She is in Kunming and I am in Baoding. She said that long-distance love was too tired to be apart for a while, and that she would come to see me next year and never be apart again. I know this separation may be permanent. Time will erase me from her memory. It will also heal all wounds.

Fourth, she said that when a person loves for the longest time, it is after leaving. It has been used for five years, but I haven't forgotten it. I just don't love it anymore.

5. Have you ever tried to look back at your chat with someone from the beginning to the present? I smiled when I looked at it, and I cried when I smiled. I approached you from a stranger, and then I became a stranger, from meeting you very late to becoming a stranger.

6. I watched my predecessor 3 with my predecessor. Two months after the breakup, the weight decreased from 134 kg to 97 kg. I still like listening to this song. My favorite thing is to go to bed early and get up early to drink hot water. It doesn't matter whether I am busy in the meeting now.

7. Finally, we came to an end. Our oath was defeated by your ruthlessness, and I don't know where I lost it.

8. Break up on March 22nd, derailed high school classmates during the winter vacation. He and I are in the same school, and I think the school where the postgraduate entrance examination is held is the school where the girl is. He had an accident during the winter vacation. My friends say that a person deserves his reward. I think looking up three feet is also a god. Now, he is with that girl, and I have a good boyfriend. Come on ~ the future will be good.

Nine, you can go to another city in two hours, you can bring back a sister in a wine game, you can become bosom friends in a few words, you can become a couple who have worked hard for two days for several years, because a small thing can collapse and spend money to buy love and get a license to become husband and wife. Once wechat is deleted, it will be a farewell era.

Ten, my predecessor told me that the three most important things are: renting Didi to sit in the back row, saying what I like and miss, and leaving what I want to say in my mouth when I am angry.

Eleven, the thought of such a lovely and beautiful girl, but also to shit, my heart is very uncomfortable!

Twelve, there is nothing wrong in this world, only doomed cause and effect, because the two people who should be together will eventually be together, just like the Supreme Treasure and Xia Zi will meet, love and know each other in another parallel universe, and finally stay together for life!

Thirteen, promise each other for a lifetime, and finally break up inexplicably. I don't know who changed it, or time changed all of us.

I envy your girlfriend very much. He said he would marry me. We have been together for two years. 20xx broke up with him on the 25th of the month, hahaha. I went to the hospital crying at night and got up in the middle of the night to cut my wrist. It's good for my best friend to find that I can still comment now. She foolishly thinks that she can get back together. She praises all kinds of girls in her circle of friends, no matter what I do. Was he blind at first?

Hey, hey, you broke up with her, too. I thought she would be better than me. I thought she would talk to you for a long time. I didn't expect you to know what it's like to break up gracefully. Do you know I'm crying? Do you feel the sadness after being dumped?

Zhang Lin, I love you without regrets. Break up with dignity. I hope you meet someone who really likes you.

Seventeen, that girl from high school, are you okay? I remember when I first met you, I was tired of being together at any time. Although we were not together, it was still very sweet until one day, for a random reason, Wan Li and I separated. I wonder if you are all right now? To the girl who used to be-lemon.

18. He deleted his friends, set permissions, locked the space, and closed Aauto faster. I can't find him either. Wake up in the middle of the night and check your cell phone. I know he didn't sleep. I was waiting for him to come back, but he didn't. He said he would marry me, but he didn't want me.

Nineteen, I don't smoke anymore, the game has been deleted, I have a regular schedule and work hard every day. You left, too.

Twenty, a good boy can't meet a good girl. Good girls can't meet good boys.

Twenty-one, I broke up with him the second week I saw this movie. Only after reading it did he find it inappropriate. I'm still holding on, and I don't know how long I can hold on. I'm going to prepare on the last day of the college entrance examination and tell him that I like him, but now I hesitate. It's sad, but I don't have that much.

Twenty-two, you are a cunning adult, cunning and cruel. I've seen all your lies and indifference.

Twenty-three, people, always learn not to cherish, it doesn't matter. I'll teach you, starting with losing me.

At midnight, my ex, who had been separated for a year, got on the phone. In it, she said all kinds of disappointments and complained about his mistakes. Put the phone down, I'm not very sad, I'm not very happy, and I'm not tossing and turning. I just praised all the wonderful comments in this song. Maybe this is called insomnia ~

Twenty-six, an ordinary little girl, even if she broke up, would be heartbroken and driven away, as if she had been abandoned by the whole world. The world is cold, snobbish and absurd. You must learn to be invulnerable and even keep good relations with all your predecessors. Truth, goodness and beauty are too few. Naive and stupid people will be educated and hit by reality again and again.

Twenty-seven, suddenly feel that giving up is just a moment, no longer nostalgia, not too much emotion.

28. What is the deepest pain? She smiled when you thought about it, and then tears came out.

Twenty-nine, how much you like a person will be sad in the end.

Thirty, if you love me, I will walk ten thousand steps to see you. If you don't love me, I have the responsibility to leave you 100 1 step.

Thirty-one, I quit smoking and don't play games. I am constantly enriching myself every day. I really have a good life. Come and see if I'm okay.

How to save your ex-boyfriend four strokes to successfully save your ex-boyfriend

Many friends asked me how I saved my ex-boyfriend, so I want to share here how I saved Mingming.

Mingming and I have been together for more than two years. He chased me, but it didn't take much effort. After all, I was the first to be tempted, and I always carried it green, but it didn't take long. In less than a month, I surrendered and went to eat fried chicken hand in hand with him.

Obviously a typical pragmatist. At the beginning, when we are together, at my strong request, we can play a little romance. Later, we gradually began to be practical. When buying a gift, ask directly what you lack. Any oven or juicer can be used as a gift. Going to the movies, popcorn and potato chips are junk food, which is expensive and nutritious. You have to buy it yourself. Fortunately, he is handsome and considerate at ordinary times. When he was ill, he was caring and attentive, and even did laundry and cooked. So sometimes, although I am unhappy, and in this relationship, I value him more, and I am more afraid of losing than him.

It's just that during this time, he has become less and less interested in me. That weekend, he came to see me as usual. We had a meal together and came back after eating. I've been playing games since I came back. Tell him to ignore it. I suggest that while the weather is just right, we look around and find a place to have a drink. He wants to play games and has no time.

We only meet once a week, and he plays games almost every time he comes over. I finally couldn't help it. The eldest lady had a big temper and broke up.

He paused for a long time before saying, are you serious?

All right, let's break up. I regretted it at that time, but I couldn't pull my face down. I have to bite the bullet and go on.

He didn't say anything, packed his things and left directly.

I regret it at the moment, but I can't just go back to him. I turned off my cell phone and refrained from calling him. I have a hunch that I will go back to him now, and he will have the final say in the future.

I searched the internet, found a lot of big moves, bought a lot of books about how to get along, and finally made a three-month recovery plan.

The first stage: disconnection (key: emotional control)

From now on, stop all contacts, prohibit all stalking and beating, and take a step back to exchange.

I locked everything he gave me in the drawer and stopped thinking about him. The best way to be lovelorn is to let go and move on. If he still loves you, he will follow in your footsteps. If he doesn't, looking forward will make him better and meet better people.

On the fourth day of breaking up, Mingming took the initiative to chat with me on WeChat. I took my mobile phone, typed it, and immediately deleted it. I stared at the avatar in the upper left corner of the screen, which is a pair with my avatar. I'm afraid I can't hold back and call my best friend for help.

Turn off WeChat and read a book. If you dare come back, we will break up! My best friend shouted on the other end of the phone.

I grabbed the palm of my right hand with my left thumb, suppressed my crazy thoughts, turned off WeChat and started reading.

I bought a lot of books about how to get along, and learned more about how to get along, how to manage each other's expectations, how to manage each other's conflicts and control their emotions.

I have to say that managing your expectations is a battle with yourself. The hard part is that the main opponent here is yourself, and it is too painful to deny yourself. And managing your own expectations is a compulsory course to obtain good intimacy.

The second stage: transformation

I signed up for a French class and have always been interested in French. This time, I used the opportunity of breaking up with him to make time to study. On the holiday weekend, I invited three or five friends to play. On the one hand, I can spend less time thinking about him. On the other hand, I can enrich myself and improve myself.

Because the place where I go to work and attend classes is not far from where I live, I always take two pairs of shoes out, a pair of small high heels and a pair of sports shoes, and run to work and attend classes. I remember who said that exercise can make a person emit positive energy. Of course, I exercise for another purpose to lose weight.

Although I can't get in touch, the best way to let them know my recent situation is to send a circle of friends. Every three to five days, I photographed my recent positive state, especially the sunny and pure side after changing my dressing style and making friends.

The third stage: restoring friendship and interaction

One day two months later, his mother was ill, and he invited me to see her. His words are so sincere that I can't refuse them. His mother has always liked me. Because of his mother's poor health, he has been afraid to tell her after breaking up for so long. I consulted Mr. Lenggai, and I went with the teacher's permission.

On the way back from visiting menstruation, he tried to hold my hand, but I gently avoided him: what happened between us will be told to menstruation sooner or later.

He paused, looked at me for a long time, nodded and said, have you changed?

How did it become?

It seems that you don't need me to be independent and strong ... I don't know, you are beautiful now.

I looked at him, expecting him to continue, but he said nothing. I looked up at the sky to hide my disappointment.

Active, passive for life. Believe in yourself and stick to it. Whether he finally comes back to you or not, after these four stages, your life will get better and better only after you have a full heart and know how to control your emotions. I wrote this sentence on a post-it note and put it on the dresser to remind myself.

Mingming and I are still friends. I will accept his separate invitation, but I insist on being friends.

When we met, we didn't ask him if he had any new objects. I talked to him from far away about everything to avoid getting back together, and talked about the reasons for breaking up at the beginning. Even when I was mentioned, he cleverly avoided it.

Once he took me home, went downstairs to my house and said he wanted to sit up for a while. I looked at him affectionately and finally sighed: forget it, we have broken up.

Yes, we broke up. He let me go. Go home. I'll watch you go up.

When I got home, I kept telling myself: stable, his language is ambiguous and his behavior is intimate, which doesn't mean he wants to get back together. I want to be patient and unwavering until he thinks clearly about being with me. If he doesn't look back, it's his loss, not mine!

This is probably the most difficult stage. You can be as hard as iron when you don't meet. I can't help shaking every time I'm with him.

The fourth stage: art negotiation

At this stage, you can have some intimate contact, you can guide him slowly, make him more and more infatuated with me, but you can't kiss or even cross the line. If the other person is dishonest, I can pretend that it's all right and avoid it with a smile.

Every date, I will obviously send me back, and sometimes I will take the initiative to kiss me, but I will avoid it: this is not good, we have broken up, and I don't want to do this anymore.

So ambiguous for a period of time, a Mid-Autumn night, we went to a western restaurant by the river. After dinner, we chatted hand in hand on the railing by the river and drank some wine. The lighting atmosphere is romantic and ambiguous, which makes people unable to extricate themselves. I let go of the bottom line and kissed him, but he offered to go to a nearby hotel and he refused: I don't want us to be friends. I really enjoy the wonderful feeling of being with you, and I hope to give each other one.

After that night, he ignored me for two days.

Hang in there. If he really loves me, he will come to me.

Three days later, he finally came to me and expressed his hope to start over with me. I told him: Yesterday my cousin said she would help me with a blind date. Can I say that we are back together, so that I can refuse her? Otherwise, she will keep introducing, and it is difficult to push.

Well, that's it. We're back together.