How do you know that someone who sends WeChat will not reply?

People who ask such questions are mostly because of emotional confusion.

I have experienced such a state. When I send a message to that person on QQ or WeChat with anticipation, then I hold my mobile phone and watch my computer, eagerly expecting her to reply to me immediately.

However, the other party has been slow to reply to your letter.

Then there will be all kinds of thoughts: why doesn't she answer me? Is it because you are busy? Because I didn't see it? Or because she saw it, but didn't want to go back ... if only I could know what the other person was like or what he thought!

I think many people have experienced that kind of suffering and entanglement.

Then I finally understood.

Whether the other person cares about you, in fact, many usual performances can be reflected. Maybe she doesn't return your messages, which is just one of these manifestations.

If she really cares about you and is usually in always online, then when she sees you, she will usually call you back in seconds. Even if she does have something to say, she will patiently explain why she doesn't, in case you misunderstand.

If she really seldom goes online, that's her habit. You don't have to wait for her reply.

However, if the other person really doesn't care about you or even hates you, then there will be a situation where you send a message and she doesn't reply for a long time; Or, she doesn't want to reply to you afterwards, and that kind of perfunctory will be obvious.

The reason is simple: "You can never wake a person who pretends to sleep, and you can't keep a person who doesn't love you"!

In fact, many times, when you send a message, you probably already know what the other party will be like. You have guessed whether she can reply to you quickly and enthusiastically.

The reason why you are still looking forward to knowing whether the other person really saw it is because you are unwilling and still taking your chances. .....

But the truth is often the worst and the last thing you want to accept.

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Sorry, I didn't expect to be so angry when I answered casually. I watched 1 ten thousand for half an hour ~ many friends asked me to answer irrelevant questions, haha, actually I just don't want to answer directly.

At present, wechat doesn't have that function, which can let you know if the other party is online. I think this involves personal privacy technology, and it is estimated that developers and designers will not use it in the future.

What you are talking about is just some means or techniques that you think may be effective.

But I don't recommend it. Even if you know that the other person is really online through these means, what can you do if you don't reply? Isn't it more uncomfortable and tangled?

You worked hard yourself, but the result was not very good. Quite helpless, but no regrets.

Do what you have to do.

What I just experienced this week is related to returning to WeChat.

We have a team in the same unit. Of course, everyone basically makes friends with each other in private.

I received a task from the leader and asked me to inform the team members.

Because my work involves personal privacy issues, I have to notify them one by one, not in groups.

Six people in the group and four people received polite answers. Thank you. Only one person didn't reply to me.

At first, I thought people were not on WeChat. I brushed my circle of friends the next day and found that she was praising others.

Now I understand that the other party can't look back.

At this time, I rushed to the big group and asked, "How was the notice sent to you last night? The leader is urging. " Jumped out to reply one by one, and those who pretended not to see it had to respond in the group.

I know everything about office politics, so I don't need to poke it.

If you can make friends, we will make friends.

Those who can't make it, as long as they don't delay their work, don't care, and don't agree to work.

Of course, in my opinion, replying to messages is the most basic etiquette. It is better to reply or reply.

Now is the era when mobile phones never leave their hands. Unlike QQ, WeChat is offline. If you send someone else's WeChat and they don't reply, there are two possibilities: one is not to reply when you see it. If you don't reply at this time, you must understand this truth in your heart; The second is that many people use WeChat as a communication tool. If the business is busy and there is too much information in the message list, you may really not see your information.

In the first case, most are emotional problems. There is a popular saying on the Internet, "People who care about you will always pay attention to your information, while people who don't care about you will reincarnate your information." In this case, if you want the other party to reply to your message in time, you need to pay some attention, such as sending a small red envelope to see if the other party will click, and then you can start chatting. Or use some fun and interesting expression packs to cause topics and so on.

In the second case, it is normal for many people to bring WeChat to work. If there is a lot of information, the information you send will soon be overwhelmed by other new news. If there is too much information, it will really happen that you can't see the information you sent. Just reply to you slowly, sometimes it may be ignored.

As for, how do you know that the other party saw the message you sent but didn't reply? There is really no way to know this. It's entirely up to you. Many times, think from the other person's point of view, such as is TA really busy? What is TA's attitude towards you? Wait, judge by these, and see if the other party saw the information and didn't reply to you.

At present, WeChat has not launched the message reading prompt function, so it cannot be judged from the function that the other party does not return when it sees the message.

However, we will still have some clues to know that the other party will not return when they see the information:

1. After you send a message to the other party, if the other party doesn't reply, you can continue to send some important and anxious questions to stimulate the other party to answer you online quickly, such as paying you back, such as where are you? I have something important to see you! If the other person replies within a few minutes, it almost proves that he is reading your message, but he doesn't want to reply or the decision is not important.

2. If WeChat shows the other party's input, indicating that the other party is typing this page, then he also saw your message, but did not reply.

3. If you send a message to the other party and he doesn't reply, but he sends a circle of friends or praises others, it can almost prove that he basically sees the message. I just didn't reply.

You can ask his friends, especially those around him, what he is doing, such as calling his parents, or asking your wife to call his wife. It's easy to ask him what he is doing and if he has seen his mobile phone.

5. You can go directly to the other person. If you meet him, he is playing with his mobile phone. It can basically prove that he saw the information and didn't want to reply.

You can try all the above methods.

I usually think that WeChat message only sees the possibility of not wanting to return, but it is just a "cover-up" of T A. 1 hour no reply. I see. It's been two days. Haven't you replied yet? Maybe I'm not the "object of attention" of Ta, so that I never reply to messages.

I have had such an experience. I sent a message to the other party, but I didn't reply for a long time, but I saw her dynamics in my circle of friends. Admittedly, since I have time to make a dynamic circle of friends, it is obviously far-fetched to use excuses such as "I don't have time to look at my mobile phone" and "I haven't seen it".

There was still no reply after the next day. Indeed, she saw it. I just don't want to reply, or she doesn't want to reply to me.

Understand the dynamics. Unlike QQ, WeChat can make friends online and has no function of reading messages. So we still need to find the answer from some details. When you have time to send a circle of friends, give friends dynamic praise, and even QQ space, all the "traces" of media socialization may reflect the psychology that the other party does not want to reply to the message.

"Change the chat style and highlight important" events ". Some people will ask, "Are you there?" This kind of opening remarks is really annoying, and most of them may be ignored by the other party. If you have something to say, just say it, at least you are more likely to get an answer. If there is no answer all the time, it may be that the other party didn't pick up the phone. Or disdain to reply.

Red envelope assistance. I haven't sent a message for a long time. I'll throw a red envelope. The red envelope has been received, but there will be a hint. Like this inexplicable practice, the other party will generally reply to you, "What do you want?" ? If the red envelope is returned and there is no reply, forget it.

Friend assistance. I haven't received a reply myself. Ask Ta's close friend if he is chatting with Ta. It can achieve the purpose of confirmation, but I am embarrassed about it. If you can't do it again, go directly to Ta.

Because I care, I care. I care that you will pay close attention to all the developments of Ta. Sending a message may not mean interrupting, but I don't want to end up with "no answer" every time.

Admit, "usually only people who don't want to reply, there is no news that they haven't seen." Sometimes the deeper you care about something, the heavier your sense of loss will be. It's better to forget it, stop "pestering" and just make the other person happy.

Why doesn't WeChat have a "reading" function? I believe many people are surprised!

You can never wake a person who pretends to sleep! So, if someone doesn't reply to your message, it's likely that she received your WeChat, but she doesn't want to reply to you. If WeChat has the function of "reading", I think it will do more harm to people. Try to think about it. You know the other person read your message, but she doesn't want to reply. If you have a crush on each other, it seems that she is a little tired of you.

Therefore, it is a good thing that WeChat has no reading function! However, is there any other way to know that the other party has read my message? Provide several simple methods.

Method 1: red envelopes

We can send red envelopes to the group with this friend. Generally, you can tell whether the other party will grab a red envelope by sending a few red envelopes. If the other party can grab the red envelope, it may go online before returning your message.

Method 2: circle of friends

Method 3: Ask for help.

Ask friends like you to find her and see if she will reply. If the other party tells you that she is online, it naturally means that she is online.

Method 4: Direct telephone inquiry.

Because sometimes it's important, it's best to call first to confirm. Maybe the other party is really busy, or the signal is not good and the network is disconnected.

In fact, if it's an emotional problem, I want to know if the other party has read your news. I think if the other party doesn't reply all the time, it means that he doesn't want to have much communication with you for the time being. At this time, both of us need to be calm, instead of sending messages blindly, which will make the other side feel bored.

Frankly speaking, after sending a WeChat, we can't know if others have seen it!

Now, the message reading function is very common in Ali's app, such as Want Want, Qianniu, Nail, Idle Fish and so on. But to be honest, many users are disgusted with this way, which is definitely a kind of harm to people, which is equivalent to forcing people to reply to your information immediately. But in real life, it is impossible to do this kind of response. Not everyone is so empty, and they all have such a mood to serve each other. Look at Ali's nail, because this function is cursed to death by users, except of course the boss and management.

Therefore, if the news after reading is posted on WeChat, then I think many couples and couples will have misunderstandings and problems, which will affect many people's work and life.

So, I'm going to blow WeChat again. Wechat under the control of Zhang Xiaolong is indeed very restrained and attentive in user experience.

If the subject fails to reply to the WeChat message in time, the situation is urgent and can be communicated by other means.

1, telephone communication: The original purpose of mobile phone is to communicate, not to let you simply chat on WeChat, so please use the phone more often. In fact, calling is still the most efficient way to communicate, saying that things are far more convenient than WeChat chatting.

2, WeChat video: If the other party's message is not there, you can actually initiate a video chat. The reminder bell initiated by video is bigger than the message, so many people will not disturb the message and it is easy to miss it.

3. Acquaintance reminder: I think this is only suitable for work. If you need to contact your colleagues in the office in the field, and they don't reply in time, you might as well let other people in the office look for it at the same time or ask about the situation.

4, texting: Many people have opened messages on WeChat in order to avoid being disturbed, but there is no message set, so texting has a loud reminder, which can be seen under normal circumstances.

As for what the subject said, how do you know if the other party saw it or not? The easiest way is to go directly to the child and find someone else, and directly ask why you didn't come back when you saw it. It's that simple.

If you dare not do so, just wait honestly!

To be honest, don't say that people can't return to WeChat, even if they call or even come to the door. If people don't want to see you, they can still not answer.

Lscssh technical officer comments: So, it doesn't matter whether the sender saw it or not, it doesn't make sense! I sent a message, but I didn't reply. If you need anything, just call. Very urgent things go straight to the door!

It can be seen from the following aspects.

First: After you send the WeChat message to the other party, observe whether his circle of friends has been updated. If it has been updated, it has not been returned to you.

Second: let your friends see if the other person's circle of friends is exactly the same as what you see. Sometimes the other person doesn't want you to know that he didn't read your information, and the circle of friends will be set to prevent you from reading it.

Third: If you are familiar, there must be a group of WeChat friends who know each other. Let your WeChat friend see if he has any interaction in other groups. If he chats in other groups and doesn't reply to your message, it means that people don't want to talk to you at all. There may be problems between you. I think there is no news that I can't receive, only people who don't want to talk to you!

Or whether there is any other party's dynamics on the platform other than WeChat, to prove whether the other party really doesn't want to talk to you, and whether it really pretends not to see your information. If there is a contradiction, just say it, and the phone video will make it clear. I hope you can get rid of anything unhappy as soon as possible!

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Look at the number of WeChat steps, friends circle and so on. Now there is almost no place in society without internet, and I don't want to go back!