Don't go to anyone's house from the first day of the lunar new year to the tenth day of the lunar new year, and the order of New Year greetings is different.

In China, even Southeast Asia and other countries influenced by China's traditional culture, the Spring Festival is the most solemn festival. Because of tradition, because of grandeur, there are clear and established rules for doing everything every day, which cannot be easily destroyed.

Paying New Year greetings is one of the most important traditional customs during the Spring Festival, and it is a way for people to bid farewell to the old and welcome the new and express their best wishes to each other.

1. Historical origins and legends of New Year greetings. In ancient times, there was a name called Nian? Our beasts come out on the night of the twelfth lunar month and eat people from house to house. In order to save their lives, people left the meat at the door, then closed the door and hid at home until the first morning. At this time, people cut to the chase and bowed to each other to congratulate them on not being eaten by Nian beast.

So the original intention of New Year's greetings is to congratulate peace. Because China always pays attention to the order of the young and the old? So gradually, New Year greetings are a way for younger generations to congratulate their elders for a safe New Year.

Second, don't visit anyone from the first day of the new year to ten minutes before the new year. China has been a country of etiquette since ancient times, and children's etiquette itself is a kind of rule. Therefore, Bai nian is the same, and the order can't be wrong. Due to different customs in different places, the order of New Year greetings is also different. Let me take our Sichuan area as an example to illustrate.

1. New Year's Day: Worship ancestors, parents and elders.

On the first day of the first month, the first thing is to worship the ancestors. The male elders in the family, with their descendants, went to the graves of their ancestors to worship. Worship should be in order. The first is the oldest ancestor in the present family. Every year on the first day of the lunar new year, our family goes to the grave of our great-grandfather, then our great-grandfather, and so on. This order is not normal!

After paying homage to their ancestors, they paid New Year greetings to their parents. At this time, children are happiest because there will be red envelopes. When I was a child, the red envelope was only a few cents, then two dollars, and then I grew up. But after you get the red envelope, you can buy what you want according to your own wishes, and your elders will not interfere.

2. Chinese New Year: Visiting parents or grandparents.

On the second day of New Year's Day, it is the day to go back to my parents' home. When I was young, on the second day of the Lunar New Year, my parents would bring gifts, and my brothers and sisters would pay New Year greetings to my grandparents. Decades have passed, and now I think about it, it is still full of warmth. I skipped in front, my brother and sister walked behind me with presents on their backs, and my parents followed. I'll open my throat before I go to grandma's house. Grandma, are we here to pay a New Year call? ! Then, several uncles will come out, pick me up, take me to grandma, bow, get a red envelope, and then run away without a trace.

On the second day of every year, my mother and my aunt basically cook, because my uncles will also go to my aunt's house! Sometimes, in order to get an extra red envelope, I will hang out with my cousins and visit my relatives several times.

3. New Year's Day: Visiting other relatives

On the third day of the Lunar New Year, I pay New Year greetings to other relatives, such as menstruation's family. There is nothing to pay attention to, just like visiting relatives. I especially like to go to my aunt's house, where there is a sugarcane field. After I go, can I manage enough sugar cane and play the game of rowing sugar cane Take a kitchen knife in your hand, hold a flower on the cane, and then cut it down as much as possible.

When I get home, I will go to the sugarcane field to break some of the biggest and longest ones, and then let my brother carry them back for me.

Now, I have been working outside for almost 20 years, and those old stories of New Year greetings have become wonderful childhood memories. Now, due to their work and life, when they go home every year, their brothers and sisters get together on New Year's Day, and basically leave their hometown on the afternoon of the first day? Because, in the distance, having relatives also needs to feel the joy of Chinese New Year reunion.

Here, Sanshui Sanxin pays New Year greetings to all the friends who made headlines? I wish you all good luck and longevity in the Year of the Pig! Go out to pay New Year greetings during the Spring Festival. Who should I go to on the first day, the second day and the third day? I think this problem should be looked at separately, because there is a difference between the south and the north, and there is a big difference. Even in the south or the north, there are differences from place to place. I'm from Wuwei, Gansu, and I'm not particularly particular about this place except visiting my grandmother's house on the second day of junior high school.

On the first day, I usually go to my uncle's house to pay New Year's greetings. On this day, I got up at five o'clock in the morning, and every family found an open space to lift the ceiling with firecrackers and firewood? Like a bonfire in Mongolia, the moral is to get rid of the hardships of one year, and to be smooth and prosperous in the new year. . Then, go home to eat jiaozi. The family got together to wrap jiaozi and put coins of different denominations in the jiaozi. When eating jiaozi, who eats jiaozi with more coins, which symbolizes that the new year will be rich in financial resources? . After eating jiaozi, I went to my father's brother's house to pay New Year's greetings. It was very interesting to get together and talk and laugh.

The next day, I went to my grandmother's house to pay a New Year call. Bring buns, meat and gifts to grandparents? On this day, grandma's children and grandchildren are coming, and my uncle will cook a lot of delicious food and give lucky money to younger children (older children like me don't have lucky money).

On the third day, usually my aunt will visit at home. Because my grandparents died early, my aunts usually came to my house in the third grade. Sometimes we go to pay a New Year call to our aunt.

It is necessary to talk about the rules of New Year's greetings during the Spring Festival, because the first and second days are all visits to elders' homes, and few people pay New Year's greetings on the road.

On our side, we left early after eating jiaozi on New Year's Day, which is far away from grandparents and uncles. Wait until I have lunch at my uncle's house, and chat for a while, talking about the harvest of the year, the health of my family, the development of my childhood playmates and so on.

On the third day, it was my uncle's son and daughter who paid New Year greetings to my aunt and uncle. We also talk about family affairs, state affairs and what's going on in the world.

On the fifth and sixth day of the fifth year, peers visited each other, which is also the most lively scene on the road in the year. The one-year New Year greeting is basically over. In the past, there was a saying that it was not necessary to kill chickens and ducks to pay New Year's greetings on the seventh and eighth day of the Lunar New Year. Of course, there are 56 ethnic groups in China, and there are local conditions and customs everywhere.

We used to pay attention to the custom of paying New Year greetings here. On the first day of the first month of the first month, we should pay New Year greetings to elders and clan elders, and elders will also taste them accordingly. If there are children in the clan who are officials or have made great achievements for many years, they should be catered. Prestige seniors will attend, and children of the whole family will win glory. "Children who go home will also donate money to the clan. On the second day of the first month, every family will take their children to their mother-in-law's house and uncle's house to pay New Year's greetings, and it is generally necessary to make wine when receiving new grandchildren. Guests who come all the way to their mother's house to pay New Year's greetings must arrive home before midnight and come back the next day. On the third day of the first month, it is to pay New Year greetings to the old people who died that year. If an old man died that year, the family must be filial in the first month and must not go out to pay New Year greetings. On the third day of the first month, all relatives and friends will come to pay homage to the deceased old man, and there will be a banquet at home to entertain guests. Friends can pay New Year greetings to each other when they meet before the Lantern Festival. Generally, the New Year call ends after the Lantern Festival. With the popularity of telephones and mobile phones, these customs are also changing rapidly after the emergence of SMS WeChat.