Husband took Xiao San back to his parents' house to have sex for the night.

Husband took Xiao San back to his parents' house to have sex for the night.

1. The netizen wrote that my husband has always had a problem with my dad, which makes me feel uncomfortable adding it to the middle. They are all people I love. He always feels that if something happens involving my dad, he always thinks badly of my dad. I also asked him, and he said that your father left a bad impression on me from the wedding day, so that he always thought so when he had problems later. He always said that I don't think, don't think and don't make sense.

My husband always sees the shortcomings of others when he looks at people, and he is never sure about the advantages. Including looking at me and always saying I said this and that. In my opinion, he is always stubborn, and his impression can be changed later. Why does he always think badly of my dad? I really can't figure it out. I don't know if there is something wrong with me or with him. There are many problems that have not been solved since I got married for two years. Every time I quarrel about such a thing, he always thinks that I am shielding my father, my father and my mother. I have a headache and sometimes I really want a divorce. Getting married is really troublesome.

Pan Xiao answered your friend, Hello. Children love their parents unconditionally, just as parents love their own children, without any beneficial purpose. Tracing back to the source, your husband had a lot of hostility and precautions against your father at the beginning of your marriage. What is the reason? Of course, you have to talk to your husband calmly and find out the root cause.

The disagreement between son-in-law and father-in-law may be related to their different personalities, different tastes and different starting points. Your father is the one who loves you the most in the world, and your husband is the one who will live with you in the future. You are in the middle. It's really embarrassing. However, it is precisely because you are in such a position that it is beneficial to adjust the relationship between two people through some methods. Pan Xiao thinks that changing your husband's bad opinion of your father is the starting point to solve this problem.

How to change your husband's personal opinion requires you to pay more attention to his thoughts in your usual conversation, understand what he doesn't like the elderly, and then make relevant explanations and inspirations.

2. The netizen wrote that my husband and I met at 0 1, and the child was born in 2004 and 2007. Now that the child is five years old, our relationship has changed since we had the child. At that time, I always thought that the child was too young. He was an adult, so I didn't care much about him and was not good-tempered with the child. We argued many times about it, and I always said that he didn't care about the children. I have been very cold since I got home. I didn't speak, so I didn't speak or communicate. I found that he sent a wrong message to my mobile phone last August. After he came back, he kept saying that it was nothing, and it was still very good for me for more than a month. We had a baby by accident. He refused to have children after he became pregnant. He gave me the cold shoulder as soon as I was a freshman.

It is estimated that they will not be able to wait there this Spring Festival. They discussed it. Later, I heard from his family that he came back once in mid-August. The result was dragged back by San a month later. Now he doesn't care about any of his family, so he wants to divorce me. No matter who says, he will stay with San. Once again, mother's eyes are almost invisible. He sometimes takes his mistress back to her in-laws for the night. He and I are both in the same unit, but I have never had any trouble at work. Thank you. Please help me think about it. Besides, he sued me once in June. That woman is not the first time in the third grade. The second prosecution should be at the end of next year 1.

Pan Xiao replied to his friend, Hello, whether he is divorced or not. Pan Xiao dare not judge himself. But I hope you can divert your attention for a while and don't blindly think about how painful you are. We should resist the pressure and enhance our capabilities in all aspects. Imagine how to take care of others if a person can't even take care of himself or protect himself.

If you divorce, you should try your best to fight for the best interests of yourself and your daughter. If you don't get a divorce, you should go to the office and expose San Xiao's behavior and embarrass him. As a married woman, you can't always be in a state of "waiting for marriage". It's not good for marriage or for yourself. Relieve psychological pressure, treat marriage rationally, and don't imagine life as a thing that "marriage will be destroyed once it breaks down". Remember, it doesn't matter who you leave as long as you want to live happily.

3. The netizen wrote to her husband that she would go out for dinner with several bosses. He came back and told me that a man in his 40 s and 50 s raised a 22-year-old girl, had four miscarriages and finally gave birth to a son. However, she was pregnant with other people's children four times, and finally broke up with hundreds of thousands of girls. When he came back, he began to say that the man's body was not as good as his, and his strength was not as good as his, so he began to exercise his muscles with equipment. What's his mentality?

Pan Xiao replied, If this were true, what would you do? It is human nature to observe, tolerate and forgive more from human nature. Men have this idea, but it doesn't mean they will carry it out. It is human nature to want to taste all kinds of beauty, but women are suppressed by their own cultural, moral and ethical abilities. Men are carnivores, but not everyone is controlled by lust. Instead of worrying about her husband's infidelity, it is better to walk into his inner world and understand what kind of feelings he needs. Then, love and care for him with your heart. That's enough.