Excuse me, my son is now 15 years old. Is it a rebellious period? What if I run away from home now?

Children's psychology is something that parents can never understand. Although parents are considerate of their children in all aspects, children will still have such and such problems when they reach a certain age. Many children have problems that can't be solved, and finally choose to run away from home, but their parents have no good way to deal with them. The following psychologists introduced us to the method of running away from home if the child came out: 1. Parents should be close friends of their children, not influenced by traditional ideas. At present, there are still many parents who are still influenced by the feudal thought of women, and think it is indecent to make friends with their children. Teenagers are active in thinking and have a lot to say to others. If you put down your parents' airs, get along with your children on an equal footing, and have heart-to-heart talks with each other, your children will regard you as their confidant and talk about everything, and the troubles of teenagers will be alleviated and eliminated in the conversation, and they will not run away from home. 2. Find useful friends of the same age for children. Although parents can be children's friends, children prefer to find friends of the same age. Because they are more willing to tell their troubles to their peers. Therefore, parents should encourage their children to make friends of the same age. Some parents don't allow their children to make friends, fearing that their children will be influenced by bad friends, being hostile to their children's partners, and constantly instilling in their children how sinister and ugly the world is. This practice will undoubtedly form a shadow in children's minds and block the channels for children to communicate with their peers. This practice will only have a bad influence on children, leading to their withdrawn personality. 3. Give children a chance to talk. When children encounter setbacks and difficulties, parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children and encourage them. If the child makes a mistake, scolds or satirizes, the child will not dare to tell the truth to his parents in the future. Doing so can only aggravate children's inferiority complex, lose self-confidence, have nowhere to tell their inner sadness, have pessimism about life, escape from reality, and eventually lead to running away from home. Parents should pay attention to observe their children's psychology. Teenagers usually have some clues before they escape. For example, some children suddenly become absent-minded, often distracted, and their eyes are straight, as if thinking about something; Some children are hesitant and hesitant; There are also some children who are uncharacteristically absorbed, laughing and shouting, which may be a harbinger that children are ready to leave. Parents often don't pay attention to these omens. If they can't find them in time, they may be at a loss because of their children's sudden departure. 5. Parents can't beat, scold, intimidate or ignore children who are found back after they leave. Abuse and intimidation will only aggravate the child's fear and escape again. Similarly, if parents are afraid to say, ask or even obey because they are afraid that their children will run away again, the children may threaten to grow up and become willful and unreasonable. 6. Find a counselor for your child, tell your child the phone number of psychological counseling, and let your child talk about his troubles and ask for help. Nowadays, telephone psychological counseling only listens to the voice but not the person, which avoids the disadvantages of face-to-face conversation, keeps the counselor confidential, avoids the embarrassment and shame of face-to-face conversation, and is also a free service.