How to deal with urging marriage?

This is what scares me the most every year. Now I have no idea of getting married at all, or even talking about a relationship. I can directly blame my family for not helping me find someone.

There is no solution. I feel that I can only be vague when asked by seven aunts and eight aunts. Does anyone have a panacea for accelerating marriage? In other words, I really need it.

Don't be afraid, you can do the opposite. Before they speak, ask them how many catties they have received, how many children they have had, and whether they have a house, a car or a job change.

Care about the emotional life of middle-aged people, give him advice, express your generous understanding, and persuade him to be considerate of each other and let them live a good life.

You can try. As long as you have the courage to refute, at least you will feel much better, I don't know how the effect is.

What should I do if I am urged to get married in the New Year?

The first one is that when our parents are urging us to get married, we change the subject first and then prove to them that we are doing well. As I told you before, parents are afraid that we are not doing well, so they think we are stronger. We can take the initiative to tell our parents that we are working so hard now in order to meet someone who matches us in the future.

If your parents say something about your age, it means you should get married. You should tell them calmly that it is different from their time now, and young people have their own way of life, even if you have no direction for your life.

The two methods just mentioned are also temporary, stabilizing parents. Finally, we must implement this problem. Parents are just worried about our future. In fact, you are over 25 years old, and everything needs careful consideration. You have to be in love for a few more years to get married. What is the first thing to do? It is understandable not to get married at the age of 25, but if you haven't been in love at the age of 25, to put it bluntly, your parents are not in a hurry, aren't you in a hurry?