Why did my relationship with my family become very weak after I got married?

There are many reasons that may weaken the relationship between marriage and family. Here are some possible reasons:

Distribution of time and energy: After marriage, your time and energy may be more distributed to your spouse and your family, which makes it impossible for you to keep in touch with your mother's family as often as before.

Increased family responsibilities: Marriage and family bring more responsibilities, such as taking care of your spouse and children, which makes it impossible for you to go to your parents' home often and reunite with your family.

Differences in family culture and values: Marriage may lead to differences in culture and values between you and your mother's family, which may make communication between you more difficult.

Attitude of spouse or mother-in-law: Your spouse or mother-in-law may feel uncomfortable to keep in touch with your mother's family, or they may hinder your communication with your mother's family to some extent.

Distance and geographical location: Getting married may increase the distance between you and your mother's family, which may make communication between you more difficult.

In short, marriage and family life will bring many changes to your life, including the relationship with your mother's family. If you want to keep closer contact with your mother's family, you can keep in touch with your family by phone, text message, video call, etc. And arrange time to visit your family regularly.