If I don't want to end up with a man, how can I get back at him? Besides, I texted him and he ignored me.

Don't think about revenge on each other, because the other person's virtue is not worthy, there will be disaster! If you want to get back at each other, you will be involved in hatred for the rest of your life. Even if hatred is rewarded, you will be punished for it. What you need to understand is that your future is the most important thing, and the past is just a painful experience. Because of the pain, you are more aware that what you want is happiness, instead of falling into it, making yourself regret and delaying your youth and energy to do things that run counter to happiness!