It's my first love with my husband. After eight years of ups and downs, can you forgive me for cheating? Now he is afraid that I will call a man and cheat him.

I think no matter what way he takes, two things are very important: first, he broke up with that woman; Second, he is still good to you. So, I think you can forgive him. After all, people's feelings are very complicated, and we sometimes like people other than each other. But it's important to be with the people you love, not to mention the children are so young. If you love him, forgive him.

Maybe you still want his attitude, such as his firm promise or sincere confession. But some men's dignity and personality make them dislike this almost cowardly way to deal with the relationship between husband and wife. The most important thing is whether you like him very much. If so, you should be together. It is very important to be with the person you like all your life. Even if he has someone else in mind. It's better than being with someone you don't like very much, even if he is kind to you.

If you don't love him very much, you can try to keep it in your heart and get along with him easily first. If it is possible to find someone you like and love most in the future, think again.

Life is multifaceted, so don't be too principled. That will only make you feel very proud and self-respecting, but it's not like that at all. Life will become boring, and you will lose the most important thing. I think I always have a chance to find something better, sometimes I don't.