I always send messages to a man, and he ignores me when he reads them. What should I do? Do I need to give him the cold shoulder for a few days?

First of all, what is your relationship? If you are an ordinary friend, you give him information and he won't reply to you. It doesn't mean anything. It only shows that your relationship is average, and you are dispensable to him, so you don't need to neglect him. Even if you snubbed him for a few days, he still didn't feel anything. If you are a couple, if you always send him messages, but he doesn't answer you, it can only show that he doesn't like you. Maybe he is empathetic and thinks that if you ignore him like this, you will shrink back. Even if you ignore him, it won't change anything, but it may accelerate the breakdown of your relationship, so you can't be cold.

In fact, in a relationship, whoever is serious first loses first; This is an eternal fact; The most important thing is that if one side pays too much, then the other side will pay very little, just like a balance, it will be seriously tilted, so you know. Why are lovers described as falling in love? It is because we love each other that this balance is balanced.