29-year-old Guangzhou guy was forced to drop out of school.

"Mom and Dad, I jumped. Don't take my body. It's embarrassing! Dad, be a cow and a horse in the afterlife to repay you! "

On the evening of March 9, 216, Zheng Xianqiao, a villager in Peiying Township, dengzhou city City, Henan Province, suddenly received a text message from his eldest son Zheng Dexing. After reading the text message, he was shocked and called his son immediately.

On the other end of the phone, Zheng Dexing said that he had drunk a bottle of white wine. There's no harm in jumping off a building like that. Say that finish, he hung up the phone. Zheng Xianqiao failed to contact his son before persuading him. Soon, Zheng Xianqiao received a phone call from the police and was told that Zheng Dexing committed suicide by jumping off a building on the eighth floor of a hotel in Qingdao. Life is always fixed at the age of 21.

Zheng Dexing

Zheng Xianqiao collapsed when he learned of the bad news of his eldest son's suicide. He dared not tell his seriously ill wife and went to Qingdao thousands of miles away without telling her.

It is often said that the three major misfortunes in life are the death of a father in youth, a spouse in middle age and a child in old age. Zheng Xianqiao never thought that he would experience a white-haired man sending a black-haired man.

Zheng Xianqiao, an ordinary farmer in Peiying Township, dengzhou city, Henan Province. There are more than 4 acres at home. Usually, he and his wife grow corn and wheat at home. Just planting crops, they can earn more than 5 yuan a year, and they can't support a family at all. So when his family is not busy, he will do odd jobs at the construction site to subsidize his family.

Although life is very tight, the hard work of Zheng Xianqiao and his wife is worthwhile, because the eldest son Zheng Dexing is very sensible. Since childhood, Zheng Dexing has been known as "the child of others". His grades are always among the best, and he is very wise. Since high school, other children spend their winter and summer vacations at home, but he spends his time in a factory or part-time job, and has little time to play.

According to Zheng Xianqiao, boys are always born in society. Going out early is not a bad thing. Not to stop the eldest son from making money in his spare time, but to support him.

Zheng Dexing understands that it is not easy for parents to support themselves and their younger brothers to study, and will take the initiative to help parents share some burdens. Whose parents don't envy such a sensible and obedient child and don't want it? Friends all praised Zheng Xianqiao and his wife for raising a good son, and they were very happy.

In p>214, Zheng Dexing was admitted to Henan Institute of Animal Husbandry Economics. Zheng Xianqiao was pleased to see his eldest son becoming more and more successful. In order to provide for their son to go to school, he and his wife get up early and work hard every day, thinking that once Zheng Dexing graduated from university, they would be much more relaxed. However, he couldn't wait until this day.

At 7: 33 pm on March 9, 216, Zheng Xianqiao received a short message from Zheng Dexing. He said:

"Mom and Dad, son, I'm sorry, I really can't hold on. It hurts to find that many efforts have no results. Mom and dad, I jumped. Do not collect my body. How embarrassing! Dad, be a cow and a horse in the afterlife to repay you! "

SMS made Zheng Xianqiao realize that Zheng Dexing was in a wrong situation and had suicidal thoughts. His son is saying goodbye to himself. He was so scared that he immediately called his son and advised him not to think too much. He didn't expect Zheng Dexing to commit suicide so resolutely that he hung up before he could say anything. Zheng Xianqiao tried to contact Zheng Dexing again, but the phone couldn't get through. He was in a hurry, but there was nothing he could do except pray that his son would not do anything stupid.

Not long after, Zheng Xianqiao received a phone call from Qingdao police, saying that Zheng Dexing had jumped off a building. Unfortunately, he passed away. Hearing the news of his son's death, he couldn't believe it and was very sad at the same time. My wife has just finished a major operation and is in the hospital for rest. Zheng Xianqiao didn't dare to tell her the bad news, for fear that she couldn't bear the huge blow and affected her recovery.

So Zheng Xianqiao found an excuse to leave his wife and left dengzhou city for Qingdao alone.

"Isn't my son studying in Zhengzhou? Why did he go to Qingdao? " Zheng Xianqiao couldn't understand why Zheng Dexing ended his life in such a decisive way.

along the way, Zheng xianqiao finally arrived at a hospital in Qingdao. In the morgue, he saw his naked son. The middle-aged man in his forties left tears, tears streaming down his face, which was touching. Only those who have experienced the grief of white-haired people sending black-haired people

Zheng Xianqiao took his son's body back to his hometown for burial. After dealing with Zheng Dexing's funeral, he decided to go to school to find out the truth about his son's suicide.

From the mouth of Zheng Dexing's college classmates, Zheng Xianqiao learned a very surprising news: Zheng Dexing borrowed money from 28 classmates, and the debt was as high as 6, yuan. He thought: Did my son sprout from his old state and catch that thing again?

Football is a sport that many men like. As mentioned earlier, Zheng Dexing has two hobbies: reading and football. In his sophomore year, in order to buy the jerseys of his favorite team, he spent all his salary earned by working in the summer vacation. This shows his love for football.

some people not only watch football matches, but also gamble. During the football match, many people took part in gambling with the mentality of "fighting for a bicycle and turning it into a motorcycle" and lost everything. Zheng Dexing is also one of the gamblers. He likes football so much, not only because of his interest, but also because football can bring him some benefits.

Zheng Dexing knows the family's financial situation like the back of his hand, and he knows that it is not easy for his parents. Whenever he sees his tired parents and the white hair on their heads, he feels very sad. In front of them, he is introverted. After he entered high school, he had a certain ability to make money, so he seldom asked his parents for money. Working in winter and summer vacations doesn't earn much money, so Zheng Dexing saves money very much.

After Zheng Dexing went to college, his family expenses increased. He always tries to make money. In January 215, he began to participate in online gambling. To his surprise, the goddess of fortune took care of him, during which he won a lot of money. At the most, he directly earned 7 yuan. If he can stop in time, nothing will happen in the future, but people's desires will never be satisfied.

Zheng Dexing's record before his death

Zheng Dexing, who is just 2 years old, also has vanity in his bones. He traded the money he earned from gambling for his mobile phone and invited his roommates to dinner, becoming the first person in his class to own a computer. Students don't understand: How did Zheng Dexing suddenly become so rich? He usually spends money sparingly, so why did he start to be extravagant? In this regard, he did not tell the truth, but told them that "money is earned by working."

Shortly after winning 7 yuan in gambling, Zheng Dexing met a strange man and made him his friend. The man claimed to be the manager of a football club and knew a way to make money faster than gambling. Dude, he's tempted.

Zheng Dexing was born in the countryside and had a great desire for money.

, I hope I can share some for my parents. However, he didn't fully believe what the strange man said, and he didn't want to miss the chance of making money. He decided to try water first.

Zheng Dexing first charged 2 yuan into his account for the man to take himself to play. Unexpectedly, in just 2 hours, 2 yuan became 2 yuan. In the next three or four days, the man has been making money with Zheng Dexing.

Zheng Dexing's record before his death

"If you invest more principal, won't you earn more?" He thought he had found a way to make money, and he certainly couldn't miss it, and he was convinced of it.

But when Zheng Dexing invested more principal, the goddess of fortune was not on his side. He lost all the money he had earned at once, and what's more, his living expenses were also included. He didn't dare to tell his parents all this, and he ate the bitter fruit he planted himself. Zheng Dexing wanted to find the man to continue to turn himself over, but found that the man had already disappeared without a trace.

At this time, Zheng Dexing still didn't wake up and didn't know that he had been cheated. He is lucky and thinks that he "will be able to turn his luck around and return to his original position, as long as he has the capital." Obviously, he has become addicted to gambling and has become a gambler. All he can think about is how to get the principal and then return it.

Zheng Xianqiao gave Zheng Dexing only six or seven hundred yuan a month for living expenses, which was not enough for him at all, so he thought of a way to borrow money-campus loan. This loan platform is mainly aimed at lending to college students when their capital turnover is not enough. The way for college students to apply is very simple: submit materials that can prove that they are college students and apply for loans, and they can get loans after passing the platform review, but applicants need to pay a certain handling fee.

In order to attract college students' loans, these platforms claimed that they would "not tell their parents or anyone about it", which firmly grasped their psychology. When the applicant can't repay the loan, the loan platform immediately turns its back on the person and calls their parents, relatives and friends.

Zheng Dexing borrowed 1, yuan from the campus loan platform for the first time, and then took the money to gamble. Soon, the money was lost to the last penny. He is still stubborn and borrows money from different lending platforms. In May 215, his mobile payment amounted to more than 173, yuan.

a college student, where did he get the money to repay the loan? Due to Zheng Dexing's inability to repay in time, the debt collection phone of the loan platform called Zheng Xianqiao. At this time, Zheng Xianqiao knew about his son's loan, and he was very disappointed with his son. Things have happened, and blaming Zheng Dexing won't help. The key is how to solve the problem.

In order to pay off Zheng Dexing's debts, Zheng Xianqiao took out the few savings in his family, and borrowed 3, to 4, yuan from relatives and friends, making a total of 8, yuan for his son. Zheng Dexing felt very sorry for his parents with the money they managed to scrape together, and promised his parents that he would turn over a new leaf, and he earned the rest part-time by himself.

In the summer vacation of p>215, Zheng Dexing had a hard time, delivering takeout during the day and sorting express delivery at night, and took several jobs to pay off debts. Zheng Xianqiao thought that his son would never touch gambling again, but things didn't develop in the direction he hoped.

Maybe he wants to turn over, maybe he wants to end the dilemma of going to school while working part-time, or maybe for other reasons, Zheng Dexing started gambling again in October 215. When he had no money, he borrowed it from his roommates and classmates. But everyone is a college student, and the living expenses given by the family are not much. Where can we lend him the money?

Zheng Dexing asked them to borrow money from the campus loan platform, among which his roommate Chen Long (a pseudonym) borrowed 11, yuan, and some borrowed 8, yuan, and all the money they borrowed from different platforms was given to him. 28 people borrowed almost 59, from 14 platforms, and his expenditure in October was as high as 69,. This huge sum of money, he took it to gamble.

Many people may ask, why do students lend money to Zheng Dexing, or even get a loan for him? Because he is very popular at ordinary times, he is the monitor, and he has certain research on electronic products. Whenever students encounter any difficulties, he will try to help them solve their problems. If there is something wrong with a classmate's mobile phone or computer, he will help them repair it for free, saving them maintenance fees. In the eyes of classmates and teachers, Zheng Dexing is a helpful, independent and self-reliant young man.

when Zheng Dexing borrowed money from his classmates, he was very pitiful. Considering his personality, everyone thinks that he must have met some difficulties before he asked someone to borrow money. Thinking that he usually helped himself a lot, he also promised to pay back the money on time before agreeing to his proposal. But they didn't know that Zheng Dexing took the money to gamble. If they knew, they would definitely persuade him to turn back in time.

after gambling again and again, he lost every penny, borrowed again and again, and owed huge debts, but Zheng Dexing began to wake up, but it was too late. In January 216, many students received debt collection messages and phone calls, and their parents also received them. Zheng Dexing couldn't pay back the money, so they had to tell the counselor about it.

When it came to light, Zheng Dexing was in a panic. He was afraid to tell the counselor how much money he owed. In desperation, the school informed Zheng Xianqiao that he had borrowed money from several classmates, and asked him to write an iou to each classmate to ensure that he would pay back the money before February 216, otherwise he would be held accountable.

The IOU written by Zheng Dexing to his classmates

For Zheng Xianqiao, there is nothing he can do this time. All the money at home has been taken out to pay off Zheng Dexing's debts, and he has no relatives and friends to borrow money. He still has a son to support, so he left it alone.

The 21-year-old young man was gradually crushed by all kinds of debt calls, complaints from classmates and family disappointment. Mother didn't want to see him, and my uncle once said to him, "Go where you want to go!" At this time, he realized that gambling not only harmed himself, but also harmed his parents and classmates who trusted him, and he regretted it very much.

Zheng Dexing told his personal experience on the platform. I hope everyone will take it as a warning and stop indulging in gambling. Knowing that he was sorry for many people, he said goodbye to his father and classmates and chose to commit suicide to make amends. As for why he committed suicide in Qingdao, it became a mystery with his death.

Zheng Dexing recorded Zheng Dexing's death before his death. Zheng Xianqiao felt that he was "in debt to pay for his education, and he has not kept it up to now". He and his wife were hit hard by both money and people. In addition, he is also very guilty. If he cares more about his children or doesn't ignore them when they are most helpless, the result will definitely be different. They will spend the rest of their lives in endless thoughts and regrets.

Zheng Dexing had a wonderful life. He was excellent and won many awards and certificates in college. According to the original plan, he will study for a few years after graduation, and then open a farm with Chen Long to create a world. However, all this was ruined by gambling and online loans, and he paid his life for it.

Gambling is an entertainment that many men like. Every year in the World Cup, how many people lose a lot of money because of gambling, and some people commit suicide because of losing gambling. In fact, gambling is almost the same as gambling, which is easy to make people addicted and addicted, and finally becomes nothing. Therefore, gambling needs to be cautious!

with the development of society, people's consumption concept is also changing. A very small number of college students have the concept of "ahead of consumption". In order to satisfy their vanity, they seek various campus loans, and they owe huge debts that cannot be repaid. Finally, they have to let their parents bear all this.

In order to prevent more tragedies like Zheng Dexing's, in April 216, the state issued the Notice on Strengthening the Risk Prevention, Education and Guidance of Bad peer-to-peer lending on Campus, requiring universities to strengthen the education of students and establish a "daily monitoring, real-time early warning, and response and disposal mechanism for bad peer-to-peer lending".

On September 6, 217, the Ministry of Education made it clear that the campus loan business was banned, and no online lending institution was allowed to issue loans to college students. This proves that the state and the government attach importance to campus loans, and hope that all parties will work together to save young people who have lost their feet. In addition to the efforts of the state and schools, it is more important for contemporary college students to establish a correct concept of consumption, not to compare with others, not to be vain, not to touch loans, and not to ruin their lives because of it! Related Q&A: Related Q&A: Online loan suicides are common. Why?

"Mom and Dad, I jumped off a building. Don't collect my body for me. It's embarrassing. I will repay you in the afterlife."

After sending this short message, Zheng Dexing, a 21-year-old young college student, jumped from the eighth floor of a hotel in Qingdao.

when his classmates learned about it, no one could believe the unexpected news.

His roommates are also his good friends, Chen Long said. Not long ago, they talked about their plans after graduation.

On the last night, Zheng Dexing left a message on his mobile phone as a final farewell.

Zheng Dexing's hasty departure made his parents miserable. In their eyes, his son was the pride of the whole family and even the whole village.