Text messages sent to blind date girls don't return.

That girl doesn't seem to like you very much. Because I am also a girl, and I have had blind date experience. I know why girls don't like you. Because she is probably really used to a person, not used to a person. You can talk to her first.

Talk about something that interests her. The biggest disadvantage of blind date is that there is no time to get along, because the two sides have no emotional foundation. You know, you start by holding hands and hugging, and then you say something disgusting. Maybe you are a boy, and you think it's nothing, but girls will feel very, very embarrassed. So I refused some blind dates. To put it bluntly, I think you boys are too purposeful. Let's make an inappropriate analogy. I'm just saying that my opinion of girls can't represent everything. Is to boil two pots of water, girls' pots are only 10 degrees, and boys' pots are already 100 degrees.

For love and marriage, I think there are great differences between men and women.

Men's enthusiasm comes and goes quickly,

Women's enthusiasm comes and goes slowly.

As for your question about hope, I want to ask what kind of girl you are looking for.

Can you fall in love with your brother and sister as soon as you start, or do you want to find a girl who can become friends first and have that kind of emotional foundation to get married and have children?

You might say, I'm crazy. It took too long. Because many boys have said such things to me.

They also told me how long, a month or a year.

I can only say emotional things, and no one can say for sure.

Some people fell in love with each other as soon as they met, while others fell in love for a long time.

You know, the chance of love at first sight is almost less than zero, so you can only have long-term love.

You must say that you want to get along, but she won't get along with me.

In fact, there are many ways to get along with each other. My advice to you is that when you get along with such a girl, you should show a certain gentlemanly demeanor. Don't rush to make some decisions, and don't do some intimate actions. Because she is real and doesn't know you very well, you should dispel her concerns. If you like her very much, I can only say, don't talk to her yet, make friends with her first.

Look at the bottom of the word love, it is the word friend of a friend.

Stand up and help that girl when she needs comfort and help most, and you can win her heart.

You see the divorce rate is so high now, you ask me when she can marry you,

I said that if she marries you, if she says she loves you, her heart is another idea.

Do you think this marriage is reliable?

Feelings must have a purpose, and love must be aimed at marriage.

But can you guarantee that you will have an emotional foundation for marriage if you find anyone at random?

You asked whether to give up her or insist. I think whether you give up or insist,

You must change some opinions. Not to find someone to marry, but to cultivate feelings with her that can reach the level of marriage.

What is the basis of feelings? It is respect, understanding and trust.

You should also know other people's ideas and give her what she wants, instead of blindly imposing your own ideas on others.

The greatest tragedy of our generation is that we won't pay. Or just give yourself blindly, regardless of whether what you give is what the other party wants.

So to some extent, hurting others is still very grievance.

I suggest you learn to put yourself in other people's shoes and put yourself in that girl's shoes. Think about why she is cold and why she doesn't come near you, and you will know what doubts she has. But I can tell you what the girls think about it. I said that a normal girl must have a lot of demands on her man, because her physical condition determines that she can only do so. She wants to know whether the man she wants to entrust for life is someone she can rely on.

Emotionally, she loves it. Is life comfortable?

Remember, understanding others is the way to open their hearts.

Only by understanding other people's thoughts and practices can we gain their trust and respect.

There may be shortcuts in marriage, but there are no shortcuts in relationships.

You may soon find someone to get married and make do with life.

But if you want to live a lifetime, you can't do without your careful management of your feelings.

Again, respect, understanding and trust are the foundation of all feelings.