My husband goes on holiday with his ex-wife every weekend.

Lead: Lao Li said he would stay with me. I thought I would be happy, but my mind has changed and I can't go back. Before, I trusted him. He goes to Wuhan to pick up his son from school every Friday night and play together.

I never call Lao Li on Saturday and Sunday. But the night before yesterday, I was very upset. Go to the kitchen to get the cup, and forget what to take. It's like losing your mind. I thought about it, but I called Lao Li.

The phone is connected, and his voice is very low, like a thief. I asked him what he was doing, and he said he was watching a movie. I asked him: Are you with your son? He said: Yes.

Hang up the phone, I know he lied to me, and there must be his ex-wife Yuan. I feel terrible. Lao Li accompanied her to the movies after all. Yuan learned about our marriage because of a movie.

Lao Li and I are married for the second time. We got married on National Day this year. Not two days after marriage, Lao Li went to Yuan to see his son. Yuan asked him to accompany him to the movies, but Lao Li refused to go. She insisted on going. Lao Li just said: I could accompany you to the movies before, but not this time. I'm married. Hearing this, Yuan couldn't stand it.

I received a phone call from her soon, saying that she would come to our home and my shop. No matter where you start, it doesn't look good. Since we must meet, let's meet in the cafe.

On the seventh day of marriage, I met Lao Li's ex-wife in the cafe. As soon as she saw me, she began to scold me without saying a word. She said: Are you too empty and lonely and miss men very much? He also said that you are good in bed; She also said that she and Lao Li were together yesterday. Anyway, I'm embarrassed to say what she said.

I didn't go to any school and graduated from technical secondary school. She is a college student and works as a manager in a large direct selling company. How can she say such obscene things?

I am introverted. I am very nervous when I meet strangers. Besides, I have never experienced such a scene, so I can't speak. Besides, I don't want to quarrel with her on this occasion. So, basically, she was talking.

Unexpectedly, she finally called Lao Li and insisted that he come over. After Lao Li arrived, he still said those ugly words. Also let us give her 200,000 yuan, Lao Li said: impossible.

I can't sit down. I came out first. They talked for a long time, and Lao Li said that she would be sent back to Hankou. I asked Lao Li when he would come back. Lao Li asked me to wait for him, and he would come back when he went. He came back late that day.

Give me a warm person

I never thought his ex-wife would be killed. Because at first she thought Lao Li loved playing cards and had to get a divorce. Lao Li didn't want to leave, but kept saying good things and begging her. She disagreed, and later sued the court, and finally the court sentenced her to divorce.

That was two or three years ago, when I was divorced, but I was only a nodding acquaintance with Lao Li. At the beginning of this year, we started dating after others set up a match. Lao Li is very kind. I go to the store in a hurry in the morning, and sometimes I can't attend to breakfast, so Lao Li helps me deliver it to the store. Sometimes he makes lunch and sends it to my mother and me.

Most importantly, he is also very kind to my son. In the past few years, I have been introduced to someone, but no one else can tolerate my son. But Lao Li likes little guys very much. In the middle of the night, his son had a fever. Lao Li carries his son to and from the hospital in the city. Buy clothes and shoes for my son's birthday. Even my ex-husband didn't care so much about him. My son is very naughty, but he listens to him very much.

Lao Li has a gentle temper. He won't tell you what you did wrong, but he can let you know. I'm different. I have a straight temper and a short temper. I sometimes accuse my mother of not doing housework and throwing things around, but Lao Li always stops me and tells me not to say anything. Whenever he is free, he will move a stool to talk to my mother.

I can't cook, and Lao Li doesn't say anything. He always does this.

After dating for more than half a year, I know that Lao Li is a man who can give me warmth. What's more, it was his ex-wife who wanted a divorce, and of course he had no worries. And he is very restrained and doesn't play cards very much. So I married him.

Unexpectedly, my ex-wife jumped out. His ex-wife told me that the divorce was to scare Lao Li and let him know how to cherish it. She advised me to divorce and let them get married again.

Both ends of the balance

After the three of us met that time, his ex-wife seemed too hard and began to soften. Call and send messages to Lao Li every day, care about him and fight for him. Sometimes I say that my son misses his father and I need a husband. Sometimes I will recall the good times when they held hands for the first time and watched movies for the first time. Lao Li showed me all these short messages.

At the same time, she kept telling me how bad Lao Li was, that he was irresponsible, liked playing cards, asked her for a lot of money and lost a lot of money. I asked her: Then why did you remarry? She said, no way. He is my son's biological father.

I gradually found that Lao Li's attitude has changed, and he is no longer so tough on his ex-wife. Seeing the message, he reacted more and more, and finally he didn't want to go to work or eat rice. Very painful.

I am sorry to see him in pain. I asked Lao Li what he thought. He said he missed his son and wanted to go back to Wuhan for him.

We live in Yuanshi, and his ex-wife lives in downtown Wuhan. When he said to go back to Wuhan, he meant to go back to his ex-wife. He is a civil servant here, which means he doesn't even want his job, but he has to go back.

No sooner had he finished this sentence than he began to cry, crying badly. Sorry, we have been married for less than half a month. Are we getting divorced again? Too soon.

I was shocked, my heart ached and I couldn't breathe. The next day, I went to Guangzhou by train alone. I wanted to calm down and think about these things and see if I could accept the divorce just after I got married. He was worried that I didn't return many calls. Later, his father called me and I answered. His father strongly disapproved of their remarriage, saying that she had to divorce no matter how much she begged, which was too hurtful. Why is she together again now? Also comforted me, saying that since I am married, I have to live a good life.

When I came back, Lao Li looked at me formally and told me that he had made up his mind and just wanted to be with me.

In fact, I have always been very kind to Lao Li. He often says that his ex-wife has never treated him like that. He always said that I am a good woman, kind and always considerate of others. I think he must have weighed me and his ex-wife in his mind.

Lao Li said that he would stay with me. I thought I would be happy, but my mind has changed and I can't go back. Before, I trusted him. He goes to Wuhan to pick up his son from school every Friday night and play together. Go to his friend's to play cards in the evening. He was afraid that I would worry. Call me when I arrive at his friend's place. Call me when you play cards. Give me a call when the cards are finished. He sleeps at a friend's house at night. Send my son to cram school on Saturday and Sunday. Come back to us on Sunday night. He has always been like this from knowing him to getting married.

I never doubted him, never checked his mobile phone and logged into his QQ. But I never thought he wanted to remarry.

Then I began to pay attention to some small things about him. For example, I never asked him about his relationship with his ex-wife before, and he never avoided me. In front of me are all my sons. But I found out that he is hiding something from me now.

Some time ago, he told me that he bought an insurance policy of 3000 yuan for his son. He doesn't know much about computer operation. One day, he asked me to save the insurance model book in his mailbox. As soon as he spoke, I knew he wanted to send it to his ex-wife, but why didn't he tell me the truth?

One night, Lao Li drew three people on the grapefruit skin. He showed me that the little man in the middle was his son and pointed to the one on the left and said it was himself. I pointed to the one on the right and asked him, what about this one? Obviously, it's a woman. He paused and said, it's you.

My heart aches. I know, he didn't draw me.

I'm really in pain. I think it's because of me that old Li Can didn't remarry his ex-wife and live with his son. If it weren't for me, they might have been reunited long ago. His ex-wife always told me: You and Lao Li have nothing but a marriage certificate. He and I have a son. She also called Lao Li's brothers and sisters and asked them to persuade Lao Li to remarry.

I have considered for a long time whether I should help them. If I don't help them, I will feel uncomfortable. Lao Li has already started to accompany her to the movies. However, if it is fulfilled, can I bear the consequences? I don't understand.

Now Lao Li still goes to Wuhan every Friday night and comes back on Sunday night. It seems that he has two families.

The characters in the text are all pseudonyms.

Columnist Lian Yue once said that shooting at the Bund with machine guns for three days won't hurt a good man by accident.

This is not in line with the construction of spiritual civilization. At least in Wuhan Jiangtan, good people will still be injured by accident, such as Lao Li in the above article. When you meet such a good man, you should cling to him like a debtor you haven't seen for years. The narrator is still considering whether to let go, wasting such a slim opportunity, and even more slim a good man.

As for the ex-wife, relax. Look at the world-famous ex-wife Jennifer Aniston. No matter newspapers and magazines, as long as there is news about Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, they will attach a photo about Aniston. Television is even better. Pete and Julie were filmed, and the camera immediately swept to Aniston without switching. And Feifei. After the divorce, she asked Adam Cheng if she loved her on TV. At her funeral, Zheng received more criticism. In fact, Adam Cheng was also wronged. They have been divorced for so many years.

Of course, handsome celebrities are like this, but ordinary people are different. So, learn from Julie and Jinghua Guan how to dress up and tame your husband when your ex-wife is always with you and gossip lovers complain every day.

Narrator: Lin Xinxin.

Gender: Female

Age: 30 years old

Occupation: salesman

Written in this issue: reporter Liu