Chatting with introverted girls

Examples of chatting with introverted girls

There are two examples of chatting with introverted girls. One is girls who like to talk and are extroverted, so that you can get to know them from chatting. If you meet an introverted girl who doesn't want to talk much, let's see how to chat with introverted girls.

Chat with introverted girls 1 put your mind right first.

If you really understand women's psychology, you will also find that women are not so-called extroverts and introverts, but are attracted and not attracted.

First of all, everyone should know that whether introverted or extroverted, fat or thin, they all have the same female psychology and will be attracted by attractive men. If a boy is unattractive, no matter how extroverted a girl is, she will ignore him.

Because men's thinking is a straight line, men always want to make a fortune on the girl they like and establish a relationship with her quickly, but this will be the opposite. The woman's emotional circuit needs to be opened slowly, and the man needs to be attracted step by step. When the man is attractive enough, when the woman's emotional circuit is connected, she will also be open to all men.

Therefore, we should put the mentality of chasing introverted girls. She is just one of all women. As long as she is not gay, the way of attraction is exactly the same, that is, you need to show a dazzling peacock screen. The only difference is the time spent. Introverted girls are more introverted and need to open their hearts slowly.

Second, be her good friend.

You will find that sometimes introverted girls have nothing to say to you, but they are very enthusiastic with their girlfriends or familiar people. In fact, they are not really introverted, but slow-moving girls. So if you want to chat with her, or if you want to catch up with her, you have to start with her friends.

There is a constant formula for chasing girls: when you like a girl, you should know her preferences, such as what you like to eat, what you hate, and what you are most interested in. Familiar with these, it is convenient for you to have a common topic with her in the future and deepen your impression through the topics she is familiar with. After a long time, you will naturally be included in the friends list.

Third, find a topic that interests her.

Generally speaking, introverted girls are more homebody, so chatting with introverted girls can be like chatting with otaku about some anime TV series, movies, singers, games and so on. Introverted girls generally don't like to take the initiative to chat, so as a boy, you should talk more yourself, and then determine the topic she likes according to the attitude of the girl and guide her to talk about the topic she is interested in, but be careful and be patient.

Fourth, appropriate teasing enhances humor.

Chatting with introverted girls and making jokes about them properly are often more effective in narrowing the distance between them, because introverted girls rarely take the initiative to find others, but this does not mean that she is not eager for ambiguity and romance, she is just not good at expression, so the more such girls, the more likely you are to approach her and make jokes about her, the more likely it is to cause her mood to fluctuate and then like you, but you should pay attention when making jokes about introverted girls.

Chatting with introverted girls 2 Many boys understand that chatting with girls needs to provide value to attract girls, but most of them don't know how to show their value correctly to attract girls.

So I often regard reporting my life as a demonstration value, so every time I chat with girls, I like to add: "I have to go to the gym after a busy day" or "I finally got off work and went to have coffee later".

In this way, girls may be attracted when they watch it the first two times, but if they chat like this every time, they are not showing their value, but reporting their lives.

In the long run, girls will find chatting with you boring and even disgusted. It may even make girls feel that you are showing off to her, so they don't want to answer your words.

We might as well put ourselves in the shoes and think about it:

Suppose there are two girls, a girl A and a girl B.

Girl A wants to chat with you. Today, she told you "I'm going to the amusement park with my colleagues". Tomorrow, she will start talking to you and tell you that "my leader gave me a promotion and a raise today, so I am very happy". The day after tomorrow, she told you, "I'm off work, and I'll buy a cup of milk tea later." One day after knowing her for half a month, will you gradually lose interest in her? I'm sure it will.

Of course, many, many boys may think, "No, girls are so active, I am willing!"

People who have been to tell you that even if you don't lose interest now, you feel welcome now, but after knowing each other for a while, you will feel interested because you are too free and you will feel bored.

Especially if there is a girl B who looks like her at the same time, you have a good impression on both A and B. Although this girl B will tell you how to get along with her colleagues at first, she will also tell you about her life. But the difference is that tomorrow and the day after tomorrow, girl B suddenly stopped talking to you.

At this time, based on your original affection for girl B, you can't help wondering what she did today. When you can't help it, you will ask her "What are you doing", and you will unconsciously become active.

If this girl B is better, when you ask her what she is doing, she will even say "guess first" to you, and she will keep your appetite and interact with you!

Which girl are you more interested in at this time?

There is no doubt that it must be girl B, because girl A is so available that you are not interested, and you may even find her annoying and disliked.

This is the same reason that girls face a "too available" boy. If you chat with girls, share your life too much and mistake it for a show, you will be "too available". Girls will think you are too easy to get, so she will often not be more interested in you. If another boy who is almost as attractive as you appears at the same time, she will divert her attention and then give you the cold shoulder.

Looking back now, you will find:

Chatting with girls, if you are always reporting on your life, is not a correct way to show your value at all, let alone attract girls, and it is even easy for girls to lose interest in you, making them feel that you are deliberately showing off and that there is nothing to say before you say this.

Then how can chatting with girls correctly show their children to attract her?

If you have been overly showy or hyperactive before, it means that you have no mystery now. Technically, your "usability" is too high now.

Therefore, you need to reduce your "availability" and increase your mystery later;

For example, in the later chat interaction, you need to reduce the display of your life first. If you want to show it, you can show it through your circle of friends. You don't have to tell the girls directly. Some side shows are better and won't make girls think you are showing off.