After a woman gets married, she is really a guest when she goes back to her mother's house, but is she an outsider at her husband's house?

I still regard myself as an outsider. I thought or worried that people would treat themselves as guests, outsiders, etc. It is asking for trouble, or falling into a bad psychological state of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss.

First of all, women need to take the initiative to get out of this bad psychology and realize that this bad psychology is the root of the antagonistic conflict among family members. The more women think like this, the less they will get everyone's care. On the contrary, their families will be afraid of themselves and gradually move away from themselves. To get rid of it from the bottom of my heart, I am determined to make my family more willing to be close to myself and make the family relationship more harmonious by changing myself.

Then, figure out what you should do as a daughter and daughter-in-law, and then do it diligently and practically. If everyone says "what you have done is not good enough", then they will continue to work hard to do better. After a long time, everyone will see an inclusive, gentle, lovely and independent woman. Such a woman, everyone will strive to love.

don't always worry about what you have done. Did others see it? Do others care about their own efforts? Why didn't everyone respond to what I did? Do you treat me like a guest or an outsider? ..... and so on, and so on, are all trying to find unhappiness for themselves. They are all imaginary assumptions, which are not conducive to family harmony. We should be determined to stay away from these mentality of being swayed by considerations of gain and loss.

Actually, if you do your job well and keep a good attitude, everyone will be infected by such a cheerful woman and will like such a person, so it doesn't matter whether you are a daughter or a daughter-in-law.