There are so many easy things in this world.

I had dinner with a friend I haven't seen for a long time. We often meet and get together at intervals. But some time ago, he seemed to disappear and never appeared in front of us again. He often appears in the circle of friends, and he doesn't even send it. The "missing" time is about two months.

Fortunately, I didn't know his whereabouts until I received his short message blessing on Mid-Autumn Festival. The time when he "disappeared" was also a busy time for me. The day before yesterday, he called me and I hurried out for an appointment.

In the coffee shop, we chose a corner and sat down. He is still the same, but he looks gaunt and thinner than before. After meeting him, my first question is to know how he is recently. I teased him that his diving skills had improved.

He gave a wry smile, sighed and told me that he left his previous company, resigned and decided to go to sea, and invested in opening an Italian restaurant with another buddy. Before I resigned, I was actually a project manager of an advertising company. I have been doing well and my monthly salary has always been the kind I envy and hate. I'm surprised that he would do this.

In addition, some stars are often invited to their company's parties. After all, he has been in the advertising industry for many years and has some contacts in his hands. I said you can do business while working. There is no need to resign so much.

But he said, how is it so easy? The investment in catering industry is often not as fast as that in other industries. The upfront investment is not only economic, but also energy. Every detail should be taken into account. The company is busy with meetings all day. Where does it get so much energy to take care of its own affairs? So it is better to do business in a down-to-earth manner and do this well.

He said that he always had a dream of opening a restaurant, and it was very happy to watch many people come to his restaurant for dinner. He also worked hard towards this idea, and finally had money a few years later and could do what he wanted.

The reason why I haven't seen him for a while is also because of business. Busy with all kinds of pre-planning of the restaurant. Even the design of the store was designed by himself, and the choice of ingredients was completed by him and his partners. These small and complicated things almost consumed most of his energy and time, and his circle of friends seemed to be abandoned.

When a person is really busy, you can tell without making friends.

For this restaurant, he has not slept for several days in a row, and it is inevitable that the whole person will lose weight. Visiting his restaurant, I can't help but want to praise him, because hard work really pays off, and there is no chance of reward without hard work. The shop is good and there are many guests. He said happily, it is impossible for you to do something without peeling it, but when you see all this,

Yes, what you can enjoy is not reality in this world.

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I like people who radiate positive energy around me. As the saying goes, those who are close to Zhu Zhechi are black, and they often convey some positive things in the company. Some people think it is too chicken soup. First of all, I think there is nothing wrong with chicken soup. It also has its value, otherwise there would not be so many people singing it. Secondly, I didn't deliberately write chicken soup. I just want to say something that can be of some value, at least it can bring some enlightening thinking to readers.

Of course, life is not all beautiful, it also has a dark side, but if a person always stares at the darkness, his eyes are all black, just as if a person always stares at chrysanthemums, then his eyes must be full of chrysanthemums. We can like watching dark stories, but we can't bring them into reality to face life, otherwise it will be too painful and desperate to live.

There are not so many smooth things in the adult world, and it is rare when it is smooth. Most people's lives have ups and downs, and they have experienced ups and downs. How to face those things is very important.

I once heard a saying: knowing the world and not knowing the world is the kindest maturity. And what I want to say is that it is a strong ability to face life optimistically. Even if you face life with a positive and pessimistic attitude.

I have met people with strong negative energy in my life, so strong that I want to rebound.

My best friend's boyfriend is such a person. They all run a clothing store. When the business started, it was almost always maintained by the woman. What can I say? The clothing store is not big. They have both online and offline, the kind that faces the street. The location and passenger flow are not bad. I often go there for a period of time.

My best friend is a very capable girl. She does many things by herself. He sat in the shop all day, played games on the computer and went into the shop without saying hello. All the guests are girls. Sometimes when we are together, he always complains more than appreciates. Business is good and bad. When business is bad, his mood will come up, complaining like a dissatisfied housewife, complaining that he has no rich father and cow B background and can't give his sister a better life.

Listen to this too much and your ears will grow cocoons. I guess I'll be depressed if I stay with him again. He always brings unhappiness to the people around him, and most of the time he presents a dull and depressed state. I don't know what my best friend sees in him. As long as I see him, I will see the dark clouds and lightning storms on his head, all flowing down. A person with a halo of negative energy is like a black hole, which can suck people in.

Isn't life like this? Nothing goes smoothly everywhere. You must learn to see the bright side before you can continue to struggle. If life is too perfect, you will lose a lot of fun.

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Watching the movie "Red Squid" tells the story of the growth experience of Danshun Tatekawa's teacher, fallen scholar Lichuan, as well as the dribs and drabs of Lichuan's mentoring life and the emotional story between them. There is a passage in it that is so good that I can't help but want to share it:

"If you don't work hard, you don't criticize each other's shortcomings, but try to lower each other's status and let each other stand at the same height. This is jealousy. It was enough to take action to catch up with each other, but people often can't do this because jealousy is effortless. "

You are absolutely right! When you are jealous of others' success, have you ever thought about how much effort and effort others have put behind their backs?

Joker Xue, a famous musician in Weibo, is in a trance this year. When many people are making him popular inexplicably, I also paid attention to this "Duan Wangye" under the "encouragement" of others. I watched some of his variety shows on the Internet and interviewed "Very Quiet Distance" before I knew that he had been in the music world for ten years. After the "severe snow", he was silent. This year,

I've been hiding in an economic company for a long time before, and I almost quit the show business and didn't have a chance to perform. For an artist, it's like sentencing him to death. Joker Xue decided to solve the problem of survival before fulfilling his dream. As soon as he became a singer, he let it go for several years. Because life is not easy, he makes a living by writing jokes, which has become his most difficult life skill.

Open a hot pot restaurant, sell clothes and write jokes. The ultimate goal is only to let everyone hear his songs. I've devoted all my efforts to an album that I want to listen to. What sustains a person who persists in his dream for ten years? This willpower and spirit are really touching. If this is a gorgeous turn of a man, it is better to say that it is a victory reversal of a person who insists on his dream.

Of course, it is not only successful people who have those sad memories. In fact, everyone has had such an experience. When others see you get the first place in the exam, when you are admitted to the university, when you drive a good car, when you write a novel, and when you get a project in the company, you will hear those harsh voices.

He thinks it's easy for you to get the first place in the exam, and he won't think about how many brain cells you spent solving a problem and stayed up for several nights; When you get into college or get a certificate through your own efforts, he will think it is your luck; When you write a novel, he won't know that you read a few pounds of information in the library before writing this novel; He won't think that you have done well in the company recently. The boss gave you a raise and promotion because of how many days and nights you worked overtime and how many times you got sick. ...

He thinks you are so comfortable today, because you have never suffered since you were born, and even the cold wind in winter has not blown.

In fact, I just want to say that it is really: too young! It's so simple! How naive!

There is no need to envy anyone when we see others being successful or excellent. The first thing to think about is why I'm not like him. Jealousy is often due to missing a link in thinking, and I have never thought about why the other party is like this.

The world is really not that easy to succeed. Those glamorous people must have made a lot of efforts, even at the cost. Only those who have withstood these tests and experienced those hardships can truly get the truth and succeed.

There are so many easy things in this world, * * *!