What does it mean that men don't like you that much?

What does it mean that men don't like you that much?

What does it mean that men don't like you that much? In daily life, liking is a feeling. Of course, everyone hopes that the person they like happens to like themselves. Let's share some performances of a man who likes you so much. Let's have a look.

How does a man behave that he doesn't like you that much? 1 1, if he is passive and reserved.

"Maybe he doesn't want to ruin our friendship", "Maybe he is shy", "Maybe he feels inferior" and "Maybe he just doesn't know how to contact me" ... In the whole process of human history, any man will ruin his friendship in order to get close to you.

He can't be too scared to chase you because of shyness and inferiority. His only fear is that he is too cold to you. He won't know how to contact your cell phone, email, instant message, social networking site and Twitter ....................................................................................................................................................

Some people may argue that it is no longer the Stone Age, and girls should take the initiative to pursue the person they like, but I believe that the person who really likes you will not let you go to great lengths to find him-because he will take the initiative to send it to your door.

If he doesn't do what he promised you, even if it's just a phone call.

"He was really busy, so he forgot." "At least he really apologized to me." ... he is very busy, and he is about to become the president of the United States. He had to spend an hour talking about hundreds of millions of businesses. He is too busy to call you all day. He's too busy.

There are cell phones, speed dial and even voice dial. Sometimes, when you don't want to make a phone call at all, the phone is pulled out of your pocket. Why don't you have time to call?

If I really like you, I won't forget. If you forget, it means he doesn't care about your disappointment. "Busy" is a weapon of mass destruction in love and is synonymous with "asshole". An asshole is someone who perfunctory you with busyness. A (mentally sound) person knows what "priority" means. As for apologizing? Oh, there is no time to listen to his nonsense.

3. If he is ambiguous.

"He used to be hurt", "His life is chaotic now", "He just got divorced and wants to take it slow" and "He is used to freedom" … These are all myths and tricks that men use to deal with girls they don't like. If he likes you, he won't be ambiguous and will tell the world where you belong.

4. If he doesn't want to be too close to you.

He doesn't want to meet your friends and family, saying that he doesn't want to bring you into his circle because he is with you instead of falling in love with your mother. He said that because this is only a matter for two people, if he uses the above excuses to explain the ambiguity between you, please translate it into "I just want to spend time with you" and "I don't like you very much".

I am a man. If I like you, I will kiss you. Although I feel embarrassed and cold, it is true to think about it. If I like you, I should like you inside and outside. Do you want someone who likes you to say "I love you very much, let me be your soul friend" ... I don't think old Plato would say that.

5. If he betrays you.

"He was drunk", "It was only an accident", "He was careless" ... There is no excuse for betrayal. Betrayal didn't happen by accident. He can't say, "Oh, I accidentally fell and fell into someone else's bed." Knowing that breaking the rules in love still needs to be carried out, you just dump him and tell yourself that such a man is not worth having.

If he is drunk, he will come to you.

If he doesn't want to change for you, then he should leave, because long-term life needs to be sober.

7. If the time is ripe, but he still doesn't want to get married.

Maybe it's because I'm too open-minded He was influenced by his childhood family. He's not ready. Many men, women, psychologists, sociologists, anthropologists and feminists can give a lecture criticizing the marriage system, telling you that marriage is a backward system and an ancient financial contract. But I'm sorry, first of all, you have to understand that "don't want to get married" may just be "don't want to marry you", and people who say "don't want to get married" will definitely get married in the end, but not with you.

8. If he keeps breaking up with you and then comes back to make up with you.

First of all, please keep your manners and don't call or send messages to him again. If we break up, it's a breakup. Don't think that as long as he comes back for you, you can continue to chat with him, meet him, watch movies, cook for him, buy gifts, carve CDs, feed fish, greet his parents and friends, and check his phone records with his voice mail. ...

People who really like you won't break up with you, and won't bother you over and over again, so please wake up, unless you want to be a miss yo-yo champion.

9. If he suddenly and inexplicably disappears,

Don't spend too much energy to solve the mystery of the missing man. No matter what kind of evidence and excuse you can find to comfort yourself, the only fact is that he doesn't want to be with you anymore, and he doesn't have the courage to tell you clearly. Please believe that there are no secrets-he doesn't deserve you.

10, if he gets married.

There's nothing to say, at least until his divorce. If you still can't figure it out, you should probably call the police-someone is brain-dead.

What behavior does a man show that he doesn't like you that much? 2 What behaviors do immature men have?

1, there is no clear goal.

An immature person is like a ship without sails. Wherever the wind blows, he goes. Stop and go, waste your life, and you can't land after all. Wang Yangming said: If you don't stand up, nothing will happen in the world. No matter what you do, you need to have clear goals and directions. Without a goal, you can only go with the flow and life becomes a mess.

Wang Yangming longed to be a saint since he was a child. After he established his ambition, he worked hard and never wavered, and eventually became a saint. Later, he taught his children what you want to do and what you want to get. Determination is the first step, the foundation and the key.

2. Pay special attention to it

If people drink water, they will know when it is cold and warm. Life is for yourself, not for others. Don't mind staying too long as you have a clear conscience.

The ancients said: "If you don't say it, you will have it, and if you say it, you will believe it." . They don't need to explain anything, do things well in silence and naturally shut up. If you care too much about what other people think, you will often get lost.

Wang Yangming once said: No matter who laughs, no matter who slanders, no matter who honors or humiliates, his kung fu will advance and retreat. In this world, no matter what you do, there will be gossip, so go your own way and let others tell you.

When Yangming's theory of mind was founded, it was denounced as heresy by many people. Wang Yangming did not expect it at all, and continued to lecture without arguing or slandering. Later, Yangming's Mind Theory competed with Zhu Cheng's Neo-Confucianism, and these people naturally shut up.

3, easy to get excited.

Psychologists say that when a person is angry, the brain's thinking ability is zero, and the whole person is out of control. What you say and do at this time will only hurt yourself. Controlling emotions requires high cultivation and skills.

When Wang Yangming put down Wang Ning's rebellion, many veterans did not believe it and cursed and made trouble outside the military camp. But Wang Yangming was unmoved.

Wang Yangming said: "Anger is like partiality. How can people not be angry?" It shouldn't be there.

When ordinary people are angry, they can't control their emotions and become very angry, so they are not the object of Dagong. "

I usually plan to hone myself in small things and control my emotions. After a long time, people will not be so extreme in looking at problems, and gradually form a moderate temperament.

It is so ambitious.

You can't eat a fat man in one bite. Immature people are always ambitious.

They set an unrealistic goal and immersed themselves in a beautiful fantasy instead of practicing it. If you don't do the things at hand well, you will think that you can realize your ambition and reach the peak of your life.

Today, we have achieved one thing, and tomorrow, on this basis, we will achieve it until the end, which is learning. Just like watering a tree, you only need a little water at first. You can use more water when the saplings grow up. You can use a bucket of water when the saplings grow up and can be folded.

If you come up and water the saplings with a bucket of water, you are sure to drown them. Rome was not built in a day, and all achievements need time to pave the way.

Eat one meal at a time, walk step by step, and do a good job in front of you, so as to make continuous progress.

5. materialism is too strong.

Now flowers, white stripes and installment payments are flying all over the sky. Many people begin to try luxuries that they can't afford. Immature people always like to decorate themselves with foreign objects. The more things you have, the happier you will be.

But life is not addition, but subtraction. Kung fu decreases instead of increasing. The so-called reduction is to get rid of the ambiguity of material desires; When people's desire is reduced, they will return to the ontology of conscience. The enrichment of external things can't overcome the inner emptiness.

For external things, people will eventually run around Japan, suffering from loss, and eventually lose their inner peace and become prisoners of desire.

As long as you have enough money, be filial to your parents, be close to your friends and love nature. These ordinary lives that don't need too much material are the true meaning of happiness in life.

Don't take gains and losses too seriously, let nature take its course and keep your inner peace.