I took my fiancee to buy wedding supplies, and the next day she proposed to postpone the wedding. What is the reason?

My name is Wei Jia, and I'm 25 years old. A year ago, I met my girlfriend Wen Wen through a friend's introduction. She is one year younger than me. She is gentle and kind. My first impression at home is that kind of good girl, so I fell in love with her from the first meeting. Our two families are not far away, only about an hour's drive, so I have often driven to her house since we established our relationship. On the one hand, I can help her family do some work to make them feel better about me. On the other hand, we can often meet our girlfriends, which is also conducive to the development of our relationship.

When we first got along, there was not much contradiction between us. Even if she and her family did something that hurt me, I laughed it off. But as we spent more and more time together, I gradually found that her family was not easy to get along with. As long as I don't satisfy them in some ways, they will sneer at me.

I remember one Dragon Boat Festival, I specially brought some zongzi to her house. Seriously, after all, we are not married, even if I don't go to her house to give gifts, it makes sense. Unexpectedly, when I gave zongzi, her mother took a look and began to nag. It turned out that she disliked me for sending less, and said that the number of zongzi I brought was odd, which was not good for his family. I really felt wronged and left angrily. Unexpectedly, after I left directly, her family called me rude and unreliable.

This matter is actually just a small matter. Although it ended with my apology, I didn't take it too personally. But after that incident, I found that his family thought more and more about me and often made various demands on me. Although some requirements are really harsh, I tried my best to satisfy my girlfriend in order to get married and start a family.

Finally, my efforts and persistence were not in vain. After we spent a year and a half together, our parents finally came forward to confirm our marriage. The result of the discussion at that time was that before the wedding, my family would give his fiancee100000 bride price, as well as 30000 gold and clothes. In fact, on our side, the bride price of normal people is 60,000 to 80,000, including gold. Although her family demands a little less, my parents and I put up with it for my happiness. A week before the wedding, my parents and I took my fiancee to the city to buy wedding supplies.

On that day, we were going to buy even my fiancee's gold wares, so my mother and I took 30 thousand yuan and went shopping for a lot of things. It was getting late, so I discussed with my fiancee not to buy gold wares for the time being and took her to the city to buy them later. She had nothing at that time, so we went home with something. Everything was going well, but the next morning, I suddenly received a text message from her, and she made it clear that her family asked to postpone the wedding. I was in a hurry, so I called her in a hurry. After my repeated inquiries, she finally told me the reason.

It turned out that her mother deliberately postponed the wedding. Just because we didn't buy her gold on time that day, her mother thought I was insincere and my family was fooling her family. After listening to her words, I was dumbfounded again After sighing, I had to come and explain quickly. I know very well that the wedding can't be postponed. I have informed my relatives and friends. Through this incident, I suddenly realized that if my fiancee still listens to her mother like this after marriage, our life will be very sad. You say, is that right?