Double Eleven is worth collecting short messages.

First of all, to know each other's status, it often begins with "What are you doing" (or "Are you busy" and "How are you doing recently". ), and then according to the speed, content and tone of the other party's answer, comprehensively judge the other party's state (busy or not, are you in the mood to chat). If you feel that the other person is not in the state, don't continue to send it, so as to ensure that you don't make mistakes and be annoying. Moreover, if you are not sure whether the other person is in the state, you still have a chance. For example, if the other person answers "at work", you can answer "Me too, I'm just not busy right now, so I'll send one when I suddenly think of you." Introduce your state, add some feelings and find out yours. ) This answer is both communication and probing. It doesn't matter if the other party doesn't come back. You didn't make any mistakes. But as long as the other person is not busy and doesn't hate you, it is usually easy to continue. Girls usually talk about themselves or ask you some questions, such as "We are always busy and will go on a business trip next week." You can answer: "envy, I haven't been on a business trip for a long time, and staying in one place feels quite boring." (Status+Emotion) Maybe she will continue to say, "What do you envy? We have a hard business trip and have no time to play. " (She also joined the feelings, which is a good sign of improved communication. ) In short, that's it. What you say to me is a trivial matter. It is no stranger to talk about nature, and then invite it, which is basically a matter of course. Remember, always grasp the "state"+"feeling" and find out the main points of the contact between you and her (which can be the same or different, and can be the topic of chat). Don't ask questions all the time. Keep talking and asking questions separately to avoid giving the other person an aggressive feeling. When you are asked a question in the opposite direction, you should answer it well. For example, she asked, "Is your work always leisurely?" Just take this opportunity to introduce yourself, and don't forget to add "What about you?" Finally. It's friendly and easy to keep the chat going. The best delivery time is around 4: 30 pm. Generally speaking, this time is the least busy, whether it's work or school. Moreover, another study claims that 4: 30 pm is still the peak time of human beings, but it may also be a rumor. Anyway, it's not surprising that many people are polite ... The characteristic of the end of the ceremony is that they can return or not, without worrying about why the other party suddenly left without saying goodbye. Of course, be polite and considerate. We are the active party. If the other party doesn't reply, it's another day when today's communication is over. At this time, there is no need to ask people why they didn't reply last time, so we can reopen the topic. Try not to send a message to an unfamiliar girl twice a day, including calling, otherwise people will find you difficult. In a word, the characteristics of the devil's class are nagging and unpretentious, fully targeting women's psychology, not pursuing wonderful routines like other schools, asking for no merit but no fault (nagging is not long-winded, we must grasp the temperature), sawing wood without water, slow work with fine work, and grinding iron into needles. There is a wonderful teaching content between the activities of the chat-up class, that is, the devil teacher helps students send messages to the girls they know, which is more refreshing than the devil teacher chatting with his own girls. This can only explain another problem: these chats are more handsome than the devil. When chatting up, if a girl flicks her hair from time to time when talking to you, it is a very good sign that she has unconsciously begun to care about her appearance. But usually only handsome guys can get this kind of treatment. People like me who have lived on inner beauty for almost ten years have never met anyone who teased my hair. It was not until these years that I organized a chat-up class. When the teacher watched others chat up, I found that there was such a beautiful scene in the world, and the follow-up was basically smooth. Please note, however, that only when a strange man accosts her directly can a girl's hair be pulled up, because people often react in an emergency and reveal real information. In normal life, girls will tease their hair, but men don't have to flatter themselves. Low interest: She answers whatever you ask. You: "What should I do?" She: "Class." Moderate interest: She shares her feelings with you. You: "What should I do?" She: "I'm in class, so sleepy." Highly interested: she also wants to know about you. You: "What should I do?" She: "I'm in class. I am sleepy. What about you? " Let's talk about the dating stage. It's good to be with you. A friend who has a car can do this test, pass by somewhere, tell her that you have to get off and do something, which will take about 10 minutes (such as picking up clothes from the dry cleaner), and ask her if she would like to wait in the car or go with you. Generally speaking, girls who are interested in you will not choose to wait for you in the car. It is good to be willing to walk together. For example, after afternoon tea, it's time for dinner. One is a restaurant nearby. You can walk there. The other restaurant is far away, so we have to take a bus to see where she wants to go. Girls who are interested in you will choose to go to a nearby restaurant. In the same way, girls who are not in a hurry to end their date after dinner and don't want to spend any more entertainment, but are willing to walk and chat with you are often the most interesting. To put it bluntly, "like you" means "like being with you", and "interesting to you" and "interesting to the date you arranged" are different. When MM doesn't know us well enough, it is necessary to strive for meeting opportunities by arranging interesting dates, but don't forget, it depends on whether MM is interested in herself in the end. Next, talk about face-to-face chat. When dating, if one party talks a lot and the other party listens actively, then usually the listener will be attracted to the speaker. At this stage, listening to you carefully is a very important indicator of a girl's goodwill. Even if you talk about trivial things, she will listen with relish and respond with questions, which shows that she is interested in you. The reverse is also true, which is exactly what we show in front of the girls we like. It is worth noting that at the beginning of the date, the girl's talk only shows that she has some trust in you, but if she keeps this state and never pays attention to your situation, it means that you may be regarded as a trash can. Perfect dating communication should be two-way, listening to each other carefully and responding positively. Therefore, when the date reaches a certain stage, you must talk about yourself, so that you can see how interested she is in you from the other person's reaction. In the process of men chasing women, because they are eager for success, they often ignore these simple truths, blindly cater to the needs and are busy with goodwill, while ignoring the judgment of the other party's interest in you. In addition, it is emphasized that asking questions is not necessarily an indicator of interest. Some realistic girls will ask, "Where are you from? What job ... "That has nothing to do with interest. People are just pre-screening. At this time, we should recognize what a "material girl" is. It is normal for women to have material requirements for men. Most women will judge whether a man is qualified by his details, which is a euphemism and implicit "woman's way". And "material girls" are often more direct, and they adopt a "man's way". From the perspective of evolution, women will face the world like men only if they are unsafe. Therefore, we don't like "material girls", in fact, we don't like insecure women. For example, the famous saying "I'd rather cry in a BMW" that has been widely ridiculed recently-this local girl dare not even think about it. Which man wants to marry a crying wife? Therefore, just as men should talk and do things like men, women are lovely to us when they are like women, and insecure women tend to think and act like men. For example, "What do you do?" And "What do you do at work?" As men, women are certainly more willing to choose the latter way of speaking. Because the former focuses on social roles (this is the way men think, just like we liked hero ranking when we were young), and the latter focuses on your state (this is full of femininity), that is, being interested in you. The biggest difference between Devil dating science and other schools is to observe each other's state. Because the goodwill cultivated is often limited, but the goodwill excavated is often full of surprises. In the short life, there are always some people who appreciate us and don't miss them, which is our greatest happiness. At that time, I wrote "What can I do for you?" The success rate is the lowest. Even if MM is friendly, the possibility of going to the yard is close to zero. I hope to get extra points. Thank you!