What is cold violence?

No messages, no phone calls, no deletion, no blackouts, cold violence in intimate relationships.

In the relationship between men and women, there is a terrible relationship, which is more terrible than noisy. Will hurt people invisibly. More importantly, people who have been hurt for a long time in this state will lose confidence in love, seriously doubt themselves, be agitated and even collapse. This relationship is cold violence.

The perpetrators of cold violence are mostly men, especially in the process of love, there is often a phenomenon. Today, they are still fine, and the next day, he has no news.

No messages, no phone calls, no phone calls. No matter what you do, the other party just hasn't heard from you. You're angry. You say to each other, "It doesn't matter, we don't have to be together. If we want to break up, you let me know and I promise, but please give me a message, or you can pull me out. "

You think the other person just wants to break up because he doesn't return the message, so you are naive, so just promise to break up.

Honey, you think wrong. No matter how you send messages, the other party is dead. If they don't delete and pull back the news, they will watch you go from rational to crazy and finally collapse.

The essence of cold violence is selfishness and indifference. It is no exaggeration to say that people who commit cold violence are scum to varying degrees. They can neither face the consequences of starting an irresponsible relationship, nor have the courage and ability to end it.

So they disappeared again and again, occasionally returning a message or appearing in a good mood. If you want to say goodbye, they often ask for forgiveness, but when you just open your heart, they disappear again.

Generally speaking, cold violence has the following two characteristics:

The first is not to communicate. If something goes wrong in the intimate relationship, you refuse to communicate, don't have any emotional communication with each other, and whatever the other party does, destroy the other party's self-esteem with a completely closed attitude, and let the other party doubt and deny themselves.

The second is not to reply. Without warning, unilaterally cut off contact with the other party, and any news from the other party can't get feedback and answers, unilaterally shielding the other party in intimate relationship in an extremely absolute form. In this case, it is easy to cause permanent psychological harm to the other party, because you can't know why a person who was warm with you yesterday will disappear today for no reason.

What about cold violence? If you are unfortunate enough to encounter cold violence, I'm sorry, you have no choice. Because you're not dealing with a real person. They don't have the care and respect that normal people should have for others. They are cold, selfish, cowardly and even mean. What you can do in the face of such a person is to let go.

Yes, put it down. From the moment they start cold violence, put it down, don't struggle, don't think about why it is you, don't try to get answers from them, you just met a bad guy, it doesn't matter, just go around, don't stay in the same place, just walk past.

Do you have or are you experiencing cold violence? Can you tell us something about it?

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