Love psychology, what kind of attachment personality do you belong to

Love psychology, what kind of attachment personality do you belong to

Obsessed lover case

1, everything needs to be settled by the other party, relying too much on the other party and wanting to stick to the other party all the time.

2, if you don't receive the news for a second, you will be sad, easy to think, sensitive and fragile.

3, strong desire for control, I hope to know each other's daily life at any time.

4. Putting feelings first, you can give everything for each other, but you will also ask for it from each other to confirm whether you love yourself.

5. I am good at expressing my emotions and feelings, but I am easily emotional, insecure, interdependent and extremely delicate.

Focus-deficient attachment personality

1, desperate for intimacy and companionship, demanding to keep in touch with your lover at any time and report your whereabouts frequently.

2, will not return text messages, phone calls, deliberately attract the attention of the other party, or threaten to break up to get the attention of the other party.

3. Once the other party can't meet their expectations, or feels that the other party doesn't pay enough attention to themselves, they will feel sad.

Anger and anxiety.

In order to keep in touch, they will give up their needs and please their partners.

5, afraid of being abandoned, you will feel uncomfortable when you are alone, and you will feel abandoned when you are left out.

Fear-dependent personality

1. Fear attachment is an upgraded version of avoidance attachment. If avoidant attachment is a simple escape state in intimate relationship, then fearful attachment can be regarded as a combination of avoidance and anxiety.

2. Fear inferiority complex, relatively sensitive. They often think that they don't deserve to be loved, that they don't deserve to be loved.

3. Fear is negative for self-knowledge. They always think that they are not good enough anywhere, and they will hide their bad side and stand out in front of their partners in order to gain their partner's affirmation.

4. If you are not good at expression, you will hurt yourself and deliberately make your partner jealous. And use alternative expressions to express emotions. Test each other.

5, afraid of being ignored, will continue to stay at the subconscious level, it will take a long time to get out.

Security attachment personality

1, people who are attached to safety will not lose themselves in love, have high satisfaction and trust, have a clear understanding of themselves and are practical.

2. When a partner and a safe person say something that they can't complain or face, they will be willing to face it with him and actively support and understand their partner with their own strength.

Don't worry about losing your partner's love. They are very calm about intimate relationships, have outstanding ability to fully express their needs, and can also understand their partners' needs well through communication. They will listen to their partners' needs.

4, will take the initiative to seek intimacy, has a positive effect, will not be afraid of falling into such intimacy, but will enjoy the intimate process and know how to find their own happiness in intimacy.

Dependent personality

1, no problem, like to ask others.

2. Need others to be responsible for most decisions in your life.

I am afraid of losing my support or identity, so I suppress my different opinions and opinions.

4, because of lack of confidence in their own judgment or ability, and it is difficult to start doing some projects or things.

5, in order to get the training or support of others, even willing to do some unpleasant things.

6. I feel uncomfortable or helpless when I am alone.

7. At the end of an intimate relationship, you urgently seek another intimate relationship for spiritual comfort.

I'm afraid I'll be left to take care of myself.